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I have a ton of insecurities I never really mention to anyone, and it's been bothering me a lot lately, so I decided to do some vent art related to it.
art and characters © Seiokou/Amber Marie Young
art and characters © Seiokou/Amber Marie Young
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It's very brave of you to post these, I'm proud of you for having the courage to do so. I can definitely relate to being much older than I look, I've had several experiences with that.. The most memorable one was when I went to an eye doctor appointment and the receptionist laughed at me and told me I look like I'm 11 years old (I'm actually 23...). Then she paraded me around the office to all her coworkers like I was some kind of circus side-show on eternal youth saying, "Look! Doesn't she look 11?" My mother, who was with me at the time, thought the whole thing was hilarious and couldn't understand why I was so upset. Needless to say, I'm no longer a customer of that particular optometrist.
Oh wow, that's kinda really mean and insensitive of them, that's usually a good way to get fired! D:
I don't get anything bout being that young, but I still get 16 and 17 A LOT, I'm 24 too. I have 32DDD bra size, so I have a feeling that's why no one guesses below 15... ; x;
I don't get anything bout being that young, but I still get 16 and 17 A LOT, I'm 24 too. I have 32DDD bra size, so I have a feeling that's why no one guesses below 15... ; x;
I have so many body insecurities.. and personality insecurities.. and just about anything one can be judged on I worry about. There are some things I wasn't worried about until one day I was made fun of for it and I literally almost broke down if it wasn't for a friend of mine who defended me at that time. I cry waaaay too easily and yet I put up a front to protect myself and to fool others. Sometimes that mask hurts too because I don't know why I should even have such a thing and then I realize I don't want to let it go either. There are times I look at myself and go... I feel wonderful. I look cute! I love myself... but I wish I could change this... or this... and then the list begins. On days I feel horrible about myself I don't see anything that I like... except maybe my eye color. I think that is one thing that I love about myself. My honey brown eyes.... But I don't like looking people in the face so I hide them.
Me too. :3 But since he's my father I forgave him. Normally he's a nice person. He knows a lot about history and such, he's easy to talk to, and has good sense of humor. He's pretty supportive if I set my mind to something... but he still says some really harsh things that really deeply hurt. But I can take it. >:3 I think... maybe. Because he's not completely a bad person.
Or I'm just too forgiving... maybe.
Or I'm just too forgiving... maybe.
It does sound like he really cares... Maybe he's just ignorant? He could have just been raised that way, and is now stuck in his ways. Have you tried telling him how you feel about it when he talks to you like that? He may not even realize how much damage he's actually doing. D:
Hmnn no. I think I'd rather just ignore him and when he passes on talk with mom about certain things. I don't live with him so I don't have to listen to it all the time. If I did I would say something to him but I don't so I'll wait. But if mom passes before him then I wont tell her... not even on her death bed. I don't want her to feel bad or guilty.
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