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A vent piece I made representing my struggles with being polyamorous. As mush a core part of me as it is, I hate being this way almost all the time, it makes my relationships way messier, and often enough I lose a lot in the end with most of my relationships because of how the other feels about my polamory, which has really tore me apart emotionally with a few of my most perfect soulmates, especially one in particular I'm still from to this day.
The blood running down from her neck forming the word Polyamory symbolizes the pain I've suffered and and still suffering from because of it, the red strings are red strings of fate and they're strangling her symbolizing how painfully most of my relationships hve ended up, and the large ribbon she's choking herself with symbolizes how badly my polyamory is making me loathe myself.
art and characters © Seiokou/Amber Marie Young
The blood running down from her neck forming the word Polyamory symbolizes the pain I've suffered and and still suffering from because of it, the red strings are red strings of fate and they're strangling her symbolizing how painfully most of my relationships hve ended up, and the large ribbon she's choking herself with symbolizes how badly my polyamory is making me loathe myself.
art and characters © Seiokou/Amber Marie Young
Category All / All
Species Unspecified / Any
Size 914 x 1280px
File Size 212.9 kB
society largely hates polyamory, especially when it's a feminine person who has multiple romantic and/or sexual partners.. ;;
it makes me really sad that people would feel the need to limit the amount of soulmates one person can have, and the amount of love that they're allowed to give
it makes me really sad that people would feel the need to limit the amount of soulmates one person can have, and the amount of love that they're allowed to give
RIGHT?! Omg, I can get when someone can help but feel monogamous in a relationship and just can't handle it, that's just as a part of them as my polyamory is a part of me, but the people who feel like judging others that they're not in a relationship with (and often don't even know), THOSE are they people that get me angry, as opposed to just feeling bad about hurting someone because of who I am or suppressing myself to make someone happy, the ones that judge others about anything really that make others feel like a pile of filth for who they are and try to control their lives are the kind of people I often just wish would go die in a blender. ; x;
Yeah, though knowing they make us actually appreciate the nicer ones more makes me stay positive a bout every single one of them on this earth, cause the nice people in this world deserve all the appreciation in existence, especially the ones that save others from themselves. Like you, you're one of the nicer people in the world~! ; U; *huggles*
I wish I could offer some wisdom or help in some way...
But all I can offer is, if you ever wish to talk, feel free to send me a note.
I can't say "I know how you feel" because I don't, that's unfair of me to assume, but I understand how hard it can be to be poly, in a monogamous relationship.
Good luck to you, and know you aren't alone sweetie.
But all I can offer is, if you ever wish to talk, feel free to send me a note.
I can't say "I know how you feel" because I don't, that's unfair of me to assume, but I understand how hard it can be to be poly, in a monogamous relationship.
Good luck to you, and know you aren't alone sweetie.
I'm sorry to hear people have been unaccepting of you. Polyamory is a very legitimate thing, and can lead to healthy relationships as long as there's mutual respect, trust, and communication between all parties involved. But most people are so stuck with the ideal of relationships being strictly monogamous that they react in ignorance to anything that doesn't fit into that box. I hope you can become more comfortable in yourself and the type of relationships you desire, and I hope that you find others who are caring and open-minded. I was briefly in a poly relationship once, and I certainly don't regret exploring that side of relationships because I think I could be poly if the situation came about. But I'm very happy in my current monogamous relationship with my partner as well. There will be people who are understanding, despite how hard they are to find.
You did a great job on all the symbolism in this, though.
You did a great job on all the symbolism in this, though.
Yeah, it's definitely tough. I've tried giving up polyamory before, but sadly as much as I feel my life would greatly less complicated without it, I suffer more without, so it really just is a part of me. I've decided to be me even if someone isn't happy with it though, I'm done repressing myself for the sake of others~! And thanks, I'm glad you think so~ ; w;
*internet hugs of cheering up*
I feel the same v-v I'm a different style I guess of poly in a sense, in that I tend to be the controlling, over-watching 'guard dog' of my group and protect and love those who come in and I choose who can join, but anyone can leave at any time. For the most part, this winds up with strains, as I'm quick to a flip of either I'll like someone or I won't. There isn't any way to inbetween it. It causes strife when my 'pack' wants to add someone that I just don't get along with. It seems selfish and I get chewed out for it rather frequently, I just like being the one in control and being able to keep fighting out of a relationship, and keep those in my personal group happy.
It causes a lot of issues.
I do hope you feel better soon <3
I feel the same v-v I'm a different style I guess of poly in a sense, in that I tend to be the controlling, over-watching 'guard dog' of my group and protect and love those who come in and I choose who can join, but anyone can leave at any time. For the most part, this winds up with strains, as I'm quick to a flip of either I'll like someone or I won't. There isn't any way to inbetween it. It causes strife when my 'pack' wants to add someone that I just don't get along with. It seems selfish and I get chewed out for it rather frequently, I just like being the one in control and being able to keep fighting out of a relationship, and keep those in my personal group happy.
It causes a lot of issues.
I do hope you feel better soon <3
I can understand being a pack leader, the protector, just so long as you're not too controlling. People with control issues can quickly turn into abusers without even realizing it! I'm not telling you what to do or anything, especially since I don't know your situation completely, but I've seen it happen often enough where I like to give out that advice, cause often the person I tell wants to be sure they don't ever get that way and thank me for the advice~ So long as everyone is truly happy and healthy with everyone in the pack, I see nothing wrong with it though! > u< *huggles*
I do my best to not be controlling. I just don't like a 'spider web pack' that winds up with everyone having their own packs. I'm protective and possessive and loving, but I try to avoid being too overbearing.
Plus I'm a big snugglewhore and I love to cuddle up and hug and snuggle and watch movies and stuff.
I aim for the 3 H's. Happy, Healthy, Horny. If I can keep a gal 2 of those, I'll be content. Usually focus on the happy and healthy x3
It's just.. some girls really don't like Poly, some really like it but bicker, and I do my best to keep the arguing out of it.
Doesn't help that I'ma dom so there's that controlling nature being thrown in.
Plus I'm a big snugglewhore and I love to cuddle up and hug and snuggle and watch movies and stuff.
I aim for the 3 H's. Happy, Healthy, Horny. If I can keep a gal 2 of those, I'll be content. Usually focus on the happy and healthy x3
It's just.. some girls really don't like Poly, some really like it but bicker, and I do my best to keep the arguing out of it.
Doesn't help that I'ma dom so there's that controlling nature being thrown in.
COMPLETELY off the grid home ;w; In the middle of woods owo
Electrical everything we can get and water purification and storage systems onsite to keep ourselves with as few bills as we possibly can.
And more snuggles under the moonlight nnnts nnnts nnnts oh wait shit that ain't snuggles o~o
Electrical everything we can get and water purification and storage systems onsite to keep ourselves with as few bills as we possibly can.
And more snuggles under the moonlight nnnts nnnts nnnts oh wait shit that ain't snuggles o~o
Im so sorry to hear your struggles with being poly. My grandparents were poly (two grandpa and three grandmas) and my parents are poly. (2 moms and 1 dad) I have never been in a mono relationship but I didnt realize the struggle that comes with it until I got older. Finding people who are accepting is hard and finding people who understand its not just about sex is even harder. Im sending all my good vibes your way! I hope you find your soulmates!
Aw thanks hun! My mate is trying really hard to be okay with it and let me be free, it's mostly the rest of the world that makes it hard, though it seems easier for me to find others like me on here, so I may just try finding new mates on here some day, once my life's a bit more stable~ I wish you all the happies and luck with your poly struggles, too! ; w;/
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