dont worry you'll find some one

i hope so. the last thing i want is another lie that just hurts me again..

well bummer

forever alone (ME)

<:c your not alone Ru.. no be sad..

not sad. and don't mind being alone.

<:c i said your not alone though, you have friends. including me..

Will you two just marry already? Sheesh!

*rubs your bunny face*

Ack!

sorry dude only girls.

Was teasing, man. <3

You'll find someone. It just takes a while. But you can do it.

i will do my best. but i thought i could give this a try.

Just be careful you don't get involved with the crazies. They are out there, stalking, looking for fresh meat. Tasty, delicious fresh meat, dipped in bbq sauce and honey.

uuuh. i am doing all that i can to be careful. the last one that i thought i was in love with basically ripped my heart out and ran for the other guy..

such beauty within their art and their person in general.. idk whats wrong with me..

NOTICE ME SENPAI~ o3o

ffff.. oh god..

*hugs* you'll find someone! You sound pretty interested in wanting someone and if you keep it up you Will find that someone :3 It just takes time and dedication!

but i have been trying sense high school <:c

Hey, high school sweethearts are a really rare thing anyway >> don't look at how long you've been trying, each day is a new opportunity! Sometimes it's not how long you've been trying, it's how you've been trying too.

then i guess i am that pathetic because i am always at home..

Naw xD I'm not at a party or out every Friday and Saturday looking for chicks to pick up like some dude bro and still found a girl (not currently with anymore) bust still. You're on the right track by looking for someone with similar interests for sure.

i just don't want my heart ripped out of me again..

*hugs* I do know that feeling all too well >.> definitely sucks. But in the end it does help you find a better match than before!

i guess..

You can't wait for love to come to you, you have to go find it. It's not something that always just 'happens' like people think. You want something, you suck it up and go out and get it. It might sounds harsh, but that's the reality of it all. Sometimes you're not going to find someone who fits exactly what you're looking for, but they might become exactly what you're looking for. It takes time, and truth be told, some people never find that 'perfect' someone. You find someone who doesn't fit your description at all, you end up learning to love them.

Love is harsh, it isn't for everyone, and it can be infuriatingly harsh and brutal.

Best advice!

I'd also warn against puppy love. That infatuation can last as long as two years at its strongest, but it's not real love. You gotta really learn the other person, their successes and their failures.

Seems pretty much me.
Aside from the fact that I've not played MTG and I'm not interested in pretty girls XD

I am always down to reconnect, even if it's just as friends. It's been ages since we spoke last (just fyi this is artelyn. I moved accounts) so feel free to message me anytime

*hugs* its been a while hun. i do have skype, just look me up hun.

I really should get on there more x.x

and *HUGS!!!*

i cant wait <3

I know lots of people that are into MTG, fursuiting, Drawing and likes cuddles, and some of them are shy and cute too. However all i can think a bout is alredy taken >.< But if i do hear about someone looking for someone, ill point him/her your way.
In the meanwhile, i didnt know you was into MTG. gonan have to have a battle with you one day. X3

you better hun ^^ it would be fun to play against you

i hope you are prepared to take on my sliver deck ;3 Everything boost everything ^^" It is such a mean deck, tho also have its major weaknesses :P

oh, btw. i dont know if you have seen this show before, but i think it is a bit fun to watch ^^
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Lk2erZ2OqM

hun i beat a sliver deck before, lol i know how they work *huggles* i do miss talking to you though

im sorry that im almost never on skype anymore >.< I suck soo much at it. however i still do use whatsapp every day ;3

And you beat a sliver deck? Nuu my weaknesses XD
I am looking into building a new deck tho. well see. im thinking black/red. but also been concidering black/white as i was up against someone with that once and he ruined me XD Lifedrain and heals cept him with soo much life, and he just overwhelmed me by destrou nonblack creature cards and huge amounts of creeps XD

hin. you never sucked at skype.. i missed talking to you.. i really would like to talk to you more.. you were fun when you were on. and that made me happy.

I am just bad at logging on i ment :3
Il ltry to get better at it ^^
*hugsies*

It's gonna be a difficult ride, but being social and finding and meeting new friends will for sure put you where you want to be, it's kind of a grind, depending on where you live, but it's worth it. Trying to outwardly look for "the one" is counterintuitive from what I've experienced, but you've also gotta believe in yourself, if you're confident in yourself and what you do then everyone else notices that and will be drawn to you. Don't come off as over-confident and a jerk about it, just be relaxed in your own skin. You'll do fine, you're cute and your passions show, you can find the one no problem...

...well other than the "girl" part, they're a little more difficult to come by in this fandom...but they're out there! And they're great~

i have been trying every time i go to a local meet, its just irritating that no one sees me as a person to date.

Well it's gotta be a natural movement, from friends then to date material, otherwise it's more like one is just trying to get in their pants.

well i guess i suck at that then..

It's a learning experience, dude. No one's gonna master it immediately. Trust me, you'll do fine when you stop pressuring yourself to find someone. There's nothing wrong with being single.

D:

Wish i could give you advice, but i'm pretty terri-bad at this kind of stuff.

Got the good ol' hedgehog's dilemma

"pokes head in" :3

-pounces you on the chair and cuddles you warmly-

don't worry Koni, you'll find someone soon enough <:} <3

-Injects with looooove-

*hugs you tight*

*gives you cake*

-hugs-

I do hope you can find someone. I am sure you're just feeling that way because single awareness day is coming up.

Though this whole thing reminded me of this: http://youtu.be/b8Ipgdl7ndU

The dating game is really annoying. Hope you don't have to suffer it too long. Just remember, friends first, lovers second.

I'm in the same boat Koni. At least you haven't had to deal with a plethora of cheating bastards! You're already a step ahead of me in that aspect!

you will allways get love from me koni <3

aww hugs you u will find someone there is someone out there for you, u just got to look

I know the feeling but I'm sure you'll get someone soon.

:/ I have something to say but I think its best not to..since Ive found an amazing girl that I love so very much

well good for you. i am glad that you found someone special for yourself

thank you, she really is special. you will find someone special too. you are a great person Koni and very talented.

sometimes i don't think that i would find the one for me.. my heart has been broken twice and its really heard to trust anyone with it now a'days..

My heart has been broken so many times....over and over again by men...so much that I dont trust them romantically...and I used to like you but then for some reason we stoped talking heh..but its in the past :) and now love my mate so very much. nothing can change that.

i'm sorry that i stopped talking. i guess i was another ass in the world..

Its fine, its in the past. dont beat yourself over it :)

i always beat myself up though.. i feel like the worst friend ever..

we never talk anymore...wanna change that? I can note you my Skype or snapchat?

you always had my skype. and i have been dealing with depression.. its been difficult..

no..I clean out my skype when people dont talk to me..... and well you can always talk to me about it cause I know how that is...

still, i had 2 girls in my life that had stolen from me.. it just hurts..

note me your skype and we can talk about this more. its faster that way

just look up konicoon..

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Koni love, you know my advice. My dear, love will come to you I promise but you sometimes have to open your options. Also never expect love to just fall into your lap, you have to work for it. You know I am always here for you and if you want to talk you can message me.

Im also searching for tat type of person...i know the feeling.

AWWWWW!!!!!!!!!

mhmm, also i gave my sister one of the mini cakes that you were giving out for charity and she wants more lol <3 also add me on skype when you have the chance, just look up my user name.

She wants more? Like how many more? I can only make them by the recipe ...50 at a go. I looked you up

You are really holding yourself back with that height range, asking for someone well below average height.

I know it is fun to have common interests, but yours are fairly specific, and that might be why it's hard to find someone. There's no shame in dating outside of "the perfect girl in every way", that way when the perfect girl does come around, you actually know what to do.

i just want someone that will interact with me for what i like to do in life. if i art, she arts. if we are able to do a collab, that would be most awesome and makes me feel closer to them. but really i lost that kind of girl because of another guy.. i wasn't close enough for them and it ripped my heart out..

its one of the reason why i feel like giving up is because whenever i find someone nice and wanted to be with them. they turned the other cheek and head straight for the other person that was most close to them..

psst hey :D

I'm really not trying to bring you down dude but love doesn't work that way. Relationships take time. Thats the most important thing. Its rare that people start dating after 2 weeks of meeting and it works out. You can't expect someone to like you as much as you like them right off the bat.

From what I've been reading, you seem to feel someone should like you right away. Even if that isn't what you mean or intend, that what seems to be coming across (to me anyways). Relationships start from a friendship. The friendship can last years before there is comfort enough or interest in a relationship, thats the part of forming one. Its learning about eachother first. The biggest thing is time, I know it sucks, but thats part of a forming relationship.

and I noticed you said 'its one of the reason why i feel like giving up is because whenever i find someone nice and wanted to be with them. they turned the other cheek and head straight for the other person that was most close to them.. '

I understand if someone broke your heart before, but that doesn't mean you will never find a relationship again. I mean if the person you like knew someone else longer then they knew you and went for the other person instead, thats ok and honestly understandable. They know them beter and are more comfortable with them. It doesn't mean they don't like you nor are they obligated to date you just because you happen to like them. People form relationships with who they know well and feel attracted to. If you are close to someone and they don't return the feelings, it doesn't mean they turn their cheek on you or don't like you, it just means they don't love you in that way, which is ok.

You will find that special someone, but you can't expect them to come to you or to like you right off the bat. Everyone is different and form relationships in their own way and it shouldn't be held against them or be guilted if they don't happen to return the feelings.

Don't beat yourself up man, everyone has a someone. Maybe you'll find them next week, maybe in 10 years, maybe tomorrow. What sucks the most is that darn time, but its something we gotta deal with. Remember that just because someone doesn't return the feelings in that way, it doesn't mean they don't like you or that there isn't someone out there that will someday be your one true love, its just all time, patients, and learning~

yeah.. but the 2 that i have been talking to we have been talking for several months, getting to know one another, finding common interests and growing atatched.. but when finally popped the question to them to finally become boyfriend and girlfriend.. they either said that they already have a relationship or they were being forced to move to a different country and suddenly got the idea to move in with their close friend.. but finding out that they became a couple just tore me apart..

and i don't want to wait 10 years.. i would be in my 30's if i wait that long..

yes I understand that that may hurt, but they aren't obligated to date you simply because you like them. Not everyone you like is going to like you back. if they have interest in someone else then that is there decision, yes it may hurt but it doesn't mean they like you any less then they do. Who knows, maybe they knew their friend for years while only knowing you for those few months. Some people don;t like to form relationships quickly, some people prefer to be friends for awhile before deciding if they want to enter a relationship.

Some people are ok with entering a relationship after only getting to know someone for a few months, some prefer to get to really know someone for years. It's their decision when and who they want to be in a relationship with and honestly, the stuff your saying is kind of guilt trippish about how you're reacting to their decision. I understand that it hurts, I've had people I thought liked me back say no when I've asked and have had my heart broken also, but no one is obligated to date a person.

I also understand that you dont want to wait ten years but you never know, it might take that long. Not everyone gets in a relationship in their teens and 20s that lasts a life time. Some people don't find their life partner until they are in their 30s, 40s, even 60s. You never know when you'll find that partner until you put yourself out there and put effort into it. I'm not saying that you are not, I can see that you have put effort into trying to form a relationship and form that bond with someone, but you also have to remember that that doesn't mean the person will feel the same and you shouldn't always expect the same in return. Everyone is their own person

You will find that someone someday, I believe you will, but you also have to understand that it will be almost impossible to find someone whose just like you or will fit your exact specifications and expectations, since you seem to expect a lot in return even before the relationship forms (from what I've read in comments). You never know, maybe your future girlfriend/wife wont even be a drawing artist, you wont be able to do collabs but maybe she is a musician and would want you to draw cover artwork for her music.

Sadly young love isn't always a thing that happens and thats ok. It does get lonely but if you get too caught up in that, theres a chance you miss an opportunity to catch that one that will fit to your puzzle. To be in a good relationship you always have to remember time, patients, and no expectations from the person to return the feelings right off the bat. You never know, maybe you will have an on and off relationship with your partner before realizing they are the one. Or they say no the first time but then realize over time they do reutrn the feelings and a relationship does form. Just because you like someone does not mean they have to like you back, no matter how long you talk to them, it does hurt but its the truth, and someday that right one will come along and you will forget about all the heart ache.

at least you have someone in your life, your lucky that you get to cherish them.. i gave so much. but what do i get back..? hardly anything at all.. people don't care about the artist at all now a days. they only care about the art without a second thought thinking about the artists true feelings that came from it.. people don't understand how an artist feels, they only want more of what they create..

so how am i any different..?

You can't expect people to give their all to you just because you gave them yours.You put yourself in that position so if you get hurt, in a sense, its your own fault.

Its not like I spoke to my girlfriend and then 3 months later we were like 'aight lets be a couple'. no. We spoke for what, 2 and a half years? We barely even spoke at first only ever RPed and barely knew eachother. Then we became friends. Then we started to get to know eachother more and talk more along with the RPs. It wasn't until almost 3 years that I got the nerve to confess to her I liked her and she HAPPENED to return the feelings(she could have easily said no, just because someone or a few people say no doesn't mean you don't have ANYONE out there who loves yu back). To be honest it's a bit hard since I haven't even got the chance to MEET her yet even after 3 years of dating since she lives 2 provinces over from me.

Its not like I suddenly got a girlfriend. I worked at it, got to know her and her me. We didn't suddenly hook up after just getting to know eachother. I did give her a lot, but I didn't expect anything in return and thats how it works. Like I said before you can't expect someone to like you back, it does hurt but thats the truth and you have to deal with it. It really does hurt but you have to move on and stop wallowing in the pain and self pity.

And I honestly don't see what art has anything to do with what we're talking about right now, considering we're talking about relationships, not interests.
I understand that a broken heart can make you depressed, I know seeing as I myself have Chronic Depression. But if you just stay in that, you'll just bring yourself and the people who DO care about you down.

I get that you gave yourself to these two girls you liked, but like I said before they are NOT obligated to like you back or return the same amount of themselves. To be honest you're being really misogynistic about this situation. You said 'they were stolen', they weren't stolen, they WEREN'T your property, its their choice if they want to be with someone else, just as it will be the girl's choice to be with you when you DO find the someone who loves you the way you do her.

You can't expect people to suddenly fall in love with you just because you have feelings for them. Thats like expecting a tiger not to attack you even though you gave it it's favourite meat.

I'm not saying you won't have someone. You WILL find that someone someday, but it won't happen if you keep saying stuff like this, you're just going to emotionally harm yourself and the people around you. I know thats tough to do with depression, but its just going to stay and get worse if you focuss on 'oh but they didn't like me back so I must be worthless'.

Someone not liking you doesn't make you worthless, wallowing in it and putting yourself in self pity however does harm yourself and loved ones. You need to learn that and honestly kind of grow up about your thoughts on what a relationship is. A relationship doesn't start out of the blue and girls don't owe you anything even if you have feelings for them and thats the hard truth.

hmm... ok.. i'm sorry that i am childish.. your right.. they were not mine from the beginning.. i need to grow up. though, i shouldn't think about a relationship at this time. it just makes me think of the past and thats what hurts me. i will do my best to find someone that is right for me.

exactly. I understand that it's hard to put the past behind you, but it is a good step for pushing forward and looking on the brighter side, especially when you have depression. When these feelings pop up, try thinking of how someday that person will come. It may seem like a far reach, but someday you will be able to grab it~

When depression hits, think of the people you know DO care about you, even if not romantically. Friends, family, that dog down that street thats super cute that you say hi to everytime you walk by it, ANYONE! Seeing who DOES care helps push yourself forward.

Things will go right dude, you will find that somebody someday, it's just a bitch to have to deal with the patients and the time.

You just have to remember that you can't expect people to return the feelings right away and that it's ok if they don't at all. Sometimes someone you like turns out to be a better friend then a partner and someday that partner will come *big hugs* I hope you feel better and the blues go away

thanks, *hugs back* i will do my best to get through it. though i have been dealing with stuff at home to that has been causing pressure on me, but other than that i will do better thank you for sitting down with me and giving me your time to talk

;~;

yeah.. i'm an ass like that..

i am bi..

besides.. its my choice to choose what i want..

=.= still, i like where i stand. also i keep forgetting to get a hair cut whenever i go to cons... sure i like my hair. but i don't see myself as a femy person

i'm not a movie star. just a pathetic artist that loses track of time and gets hurt in a relationship. besides, i kinda gave up in looking for love because of me getting hurt.