There's nothing more depressing than going out with a friend and their significant other and watching them slobber all over each other when you're down and lonely. Chucky knew not to go there.
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Poor Chucky? Nope, I don't feel sorry for him anymore. He's blown it twice by being too self-centered.
Considering it's valentine's Day Weekend, I no longer feel sorry for those single dudes who endless complain about how it reminds them that they are alone.
If you're not willing to put out and won't make an effort, if you won't try or you have so many specific things you want from a girl or a relationship - then I have to tell you - you are being stupid. I've always made the effort and I've never been alone since I was 15. Have the ball to find a mate dudes - or face a lifetime of solitude. The one who's making you lose out is yourself.
Considering it's valentine's Day Weekend, I no longer feel sorry for those single dudes who endless complain about how it reminds them that they are alone.
If you're not willing to put out and won't make an effort, if you won't try or you have so many specific things you want from a girl or a relationship - then I have to tell you - you are being stupid. I've always made the effort and I've never been alone since I was 15. Have the ball to find a mate dudes - or face a lifetime of solitude. The one who's making you lose out is yourself.
Problem is that some people are highly introvert and shy ( not to mention a usually low self-confidence).I myself are part of the group. its easy for us to chat and stuff but assoon as things get personal and you have to TALK to the other person outr brains just go "Good luck with getting out of this dude" and refuse to work. My only way to keep my brain working in such a situation is to have a few beers beforehand..what doesn't really help either cause then I can talk but normally i talk garbage. And atlast my last for me is also the problem that I HATE crowds of people. So going to a club or similar locations is highly uncomfortable for me. So I 'm the biggest cockblock for myself in a way.
I am sad to say that I concur with Eyegrim in just about everything he has said. I tried to pick up a couple of girls the other night. One of em blew me off, and she was a bit heavier set than most, so you'd think someone like me coming by and being polite would be invited to stay, no? Looking as forlorn as I was? Nope.
Next time I bought a drink for a gal, but she was just feelin guys up for drinks, using us. Didn't even talk to me when she got kicked out of the bar for the night and I walked out to see her offerring drunken piggybacking to her supposed best friend, despite having given her plenty of hugs, and been a bear of a buddy, and playing eye-tease with this one other guy, who was literally harrying her to be his.
So... You think it's easy for us? For YOU? Try being an introvert and being shy, after being picked on and bullied, or damn near enough to it, for the first 15 years of your life. Bullying is everywhere, no matter the trace, no matter the political situation. Teased for our looks, teased for how we talk, teased for any nuance in character... The only thing I knew how to combat bullying: fight it, which made me an even bigger outcast, in particular.
You can also try working with bitchy cliq girls who just whine and moan about going out to parties when they're stuck at work til closing... Bitches that you just want to fucking throttle, like Homer Simpson to Bart Simpson.
Next time I bought a drink for a gal, but she was just feelin guys up for drinks, using us. Didn't even talk to me when she got kicked out of the bar for the night and I walked out to see her offerring drunken piggybacking to her supposed best friend, despite having given her plenty of hugs, and been a bear of a buddy, and playing eye-tease with this one other guy, who was literally harrying her to be his.
So... You think it's easy for us? For YOU? Try being an introvert and being shy, after being picked on and bullied, or damn near enough to it, for the first 15 years of your life. Bullying is everywhere, no matter the trace, no matter the political situation. Teased for our looks, teased for how we talk, teased for any nuance in character... The only thing I knew how to combat bullying: fight it, which made me an even bigger outcast, in particular.
You can also try working with bitchy cliq girls who just whine and moan about going out to parties when they're stuck at work til closing... Bitches that you just want to fucking throttle, like Homer Simpson to Bart Simpson.
Dude, I went thru bulling from 3rd grade thru my freshman year at college by the same bastards. I was the "new kid" from out of state no matter how long I knew people. I fought back and beat one of them till he never bothered me again. So, yeah _ I was one of you too, but I gained my own confidence without anybody's help and overcame it. Remember - the only person who can consistantly put you down is yourself - so put yerself up instead. I did - you can too.
Sadly, there are a lot more whiney dumb bitches out there, than there are smart, beautiful women, as the kind I try to look for, not the easy lays, but those that appreciate the company. Hell, I've been put off by women looking for easy lays, even put myself out there, was rejected, and all I could do was throw darts after that. You don't seem the type that WAS inhibited, mentally, and you weren't held back, much less given the same shit. Hell, I got withdrawn from school within 6 weeks of starting Jr. High, ended up with one MAJOR fight in the boys locker room, and the other was just a hissy match between us. I never picked on the weaker kids, but I sure as hell put up a fight for them, or myself, whenever a person came in and tried to start shit. Hell, had I known you, I'd've been in the fray long before you threw the first punch, and you'd've probably been one of the first people to drop me from the list of friends I needed growing up, just like everybody else from back then. They didn't give a shit about the kid from down the street, wanting to make friends and work with people, nor did they care for the nerdy kid who was always seen reading a good book. I'm lucky I even survived that era of my life, going into a deep fuckin depression as I did, knowing nobody outside of my family cared jack shit about me.
Now? I'm lucky I have the friends that I do, that care about me as I care about them, even if I dont see them face-to-face all the time, I know that when I need a good ear, they're there for me; and they're far better than the bastards and bitches that inhabit the area around me.
Now? I'm lucky I have the friends that I do, that care about me as I care about them, even if I dont see them face-to-face all the time, I know that when I need a good ear, they're there for me; and they're far better than the bastards and bitches that inhabit the area around me.
It's a long learning curve for the shy and socially inhibited though. Being that guy, I can say that what you are saying is a lot easier said than done. If I ever had the balls to talk to a girl when I was young, I had no idea what to say, and the idea of her saying 'no' was frightening and demoralizing. The guys I knew who did well with girls had the 'gift of gab'. Even if they were shy, they still knew what to say and at least appeared confident.
So what you're saying is totally true, but it's a long time coming for some of us.
So what you're saying is totally true, but it's a long time coming for some of us.
I was shy and inhibited too, don't get me wrong. But I never looked in bars for anybody. That's the wrong place to look for anybody. get involved in places that normal people frequent, like I met girls in my HS band and in the local theatre. I met my wife freshman year at college. We were in the same squad in the marching band and have been together ever since. This June will be our 30th anniversary. Our two sons are college-aged.
Look in good places to find good women - not bars. Be confident - if you act like a loser, you'll remain one. Just be honest with who you are.
Look in good places to find good women - not bars. Be confident - if you act like a loser, you'll remain one. Just be honest with who you are.
Chucky is your example. I'm speaking to the rest out there who seem content to be alone. I'm also speaking from a perspective that might be gained instead of lost or ignored - from a perspective twice your age and trying to advize those similar to how I was back in my teens and twenties.
Remember - the only person who's actively keeping anyone down is themselves. If they continue to complain about being loners - it's because they enjoy it.
If a person doesn't like themselves or how they live - they will change it.
Remember - the only person who's actively keeping anyone down is themselves. If they continue to complain about being loners - it's because they enjoy it.
If a person doesn't like themselves or how they live - they will change it.
Oh gods, that last panel! XD I'm sorry! I think furry has warped my brain. I look at Chucky like that and think:
"Gay sex incoming!"
Or something like that. =P It's a compromising position for sure. My mind just... went there. Unbidden.
But I'm sure that won't happen. =P This ain't Bizarro World, right?
"Gay sex incoming!"
Or something like that. =P It's a compromising position for sure. My mind just... went there. Unbidden.
But I'm sure that won't happen. =P This ain't Bizarro World, right?
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