i seriously hate being trans sometimes

i just got told

"youre not trans you dont act like a boy"

hi hello yes thanks for being ignorant.
femboy much?

"but thats just a guy who acts like a girl. so youre a girl"
obviously youre too ignorant to understand. well then

let me explain

Transgender is the state of one's gender identity or gender expression not matching one's assigned sex.[1] Transgender is independent of sexual orientation; transgender people may identify as heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, etc; some may consider conventional sexual orientation labels inadequate or inapplicable to them. The definition of transgender includes:

"Of, relating to, or designating a person whose identity does not conform unambiguously to conventional notions of male or female gender roles, but combines or moves between these."[2]
"People who were assigned a sex, usually at birth and based on their genitals, but who feel that this is a false or incomplete description of themselves."[3]
"Non-identification with, or non-presentation as, the sex (and assumed gender) one was assigned at birth."[4]

A transgender individual may have characteristics that are normally associated with a particular gender and identify elsewhere on the traditional gender continuum, or exist outside of it as other, agender, gender-neutral, genderqueer, non-binary, third gender, etc. Transgender people may also identify as bigender, pangender, or along several places on either the traditional transgender continuum or the more encompassing continuums that have been developed in response to recent, significantly more detailed studies.[5] Furthermore, many transgender people experience a period of identity development that includes better understanding one's self-image, self-reflection, and self-expression. More specifically, the degree to which individuals feel genuine, authentic, and comfortable within their external appearance and accept their genuine identity is referred to as transgender congruence.[6]


from wikipedia

you are not born as the sex you are given
you can act like a girl
but be a guy

its too ignorant to comprehend when people cant
accept you for it?? like, they dont have to understand to accept it. or they could easily listen when you talk and try to walk them through it
but no
one of the only people i care about in my life scrutinize me for it
yay.

fml

..ignore this is vent