
In case anyone has ever been confused by what I mean when I say I'm genderqueer, this is a wonderful example. I am capable of feeling and expressing both sides of the gender spectrum in varying intensities. I am becoming comfortable with this, and see it as a valid part of who I am.
I am Sal, first and foremost, and my gender expression comes from a place inside of me that doesn't need to connect to my sex, though it can.
But honestly, I'm a bit of a fox with a beard. ;3
I am Sal, first and foremost, and my gender expression comes from a place inside of me that doesn't need to connect to my sex, though it can.
But honestly, I'm a bit of a fox with a beard. ;3
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aw, shucks~ I wish I were more androgynous and plan on cutting my hair again in the summer (keeping it long for graduation but that's really about it)
used to be pretty andro though http://gyazo.com/1012c26fe8a3ab57e96070241c9d1205
used to be pretty andro though http://gyazo.com/1012c26fe8a3ab57e96070241c9d1205
Suggestion - get some crepe wool and look up tutorials for applications :)! Way better than makeup, and it definitely looks more natural. Here's a link to one such tut: http://www.cosplaysupplies.com/tuto.....Tutorial_Video
I'm a bit confused by this. Aren't behaviors and looks just.. that? Like, gender isn't relevant to your clothes, how you present yourself, act, hobbies.. it's just a sort of state of being.
Not saying you shouldn't switch up how ya look and all that, it's totally awesome! You look super great. I guess I'm just confused about how gender is related to any of this.
Not saying you shouldn't switch up how ya look and all that, it's totally awesome! You look super great. I guess I'm just confused about how gender is related to any of this.
I guess I don't get that. I'm male, but that's 'cause I have a dick and all that, but.. I don't feel like anything. There's no feeling behind any of it, I just do stuff I like doing. I've worn skirts, high-heels, jeans, t-shirts, rocked my body-hair, waxed it all off.. but I never felt like any of it was gender-related.
I dunno, gender never had any importance to me growing up, I guess. Whenever people told me to act like a man, or I'm being a sissy or any of that, I just never understood what that even meant. I'm not trying to be insulting by the way, if I am, I'm really sorry! I'm legitimately just trying to understand how all of it works from a completely clueless perspective.
I dunno, gender never had any importance to me growing up, I guess. Whenever people told me to act like a man, or I'm being a sissy or any of that, I just never understood what that even meant. I'm not trying to be insulting by the way, if I am, I'm really sorry! I'm legitimately just trying to understand how all of it works from a completely clueless perspective.
Then you're probably pretty nonbinary! And that's perfectly fine~ Not everyone is, though. Here, maybe these will help.
http://www.med.monash.edu.au/gender.....andgender.html
http://vcampus.uom.ac.mu/soci1101/4.....nd_gender.html
http://www.med.monash.edu.au/gender.....andgender.html
http://vcampus.uom.ac.mu/soci1101/4.....nd_gender.html
A guy can be a guy while crossdressing because he is doing it out of kink or because he just likes that. It's his choice. A guy tho that identifies himself as a female isn't crossdressing for the sake of crossdressing though. It's a way for them to express the gender they identify with, to the point that it's not actually crossdressing, since they are wearing the clothes of their gender to begin with.
I hope I explained it even a little. @-@!
I hope I explained it even a little. @-@!
Lovely both ways <3 I did say 'rawr!' a bit to the male picture, and I always find you lovely when expressing female gender identity (I know I also default to those pronouns, because you are so damn pretty). You are just a hell of an attractive person, dear Sal :)
I too am genderqueer, I used to change up my appearance constantly since middle school and felt more comfortable as a male than female when this all first started. My boyfriend is also genderqueer, though it is harder for a male physic to alter into a more feminine body type. At least he has the curvs and slightly plumpy butt, lol.
JUST SO YOU KNOW
I identify as 'gender-ambivalent' which is kind of a bad descriptor, so maybe genderqueer is better,
but I TOTALLY GET THIS. All of it. I don't dress out as male often due to convenience, but it's always there,
and when I'm 'in garb' i'm male. Mentally/emotionally speaking. ME still, but male.
So I can relate a ton to this
I identify as 'gender-ambivalent' which is kind of a bad descriptor, so maybe genderqueer is better,
but I TOTALLY GET THIS. All of it. I don't dress out as male often due to convenience, but it's always there,
and when I'm 'in garb' i'm male. Mentally/emotionally speaking. ME still, but male.
So I can relate a ton to this
You're still cool with being called 'he/him' though right? Because as long as I've known you you've always been that to me and it's hard to just change something like that XD Or do you prefer 'they/them'? I probably should have asked this earlier but I want to make sure I'm being respectful.
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