It'll be ok, one day at a time
'row row row your boat gently down the stream"-The Dude and the Zen Master

I know the feeling, I've been in that situation before...

I hope you two figure things out soon <:D

Personally I say give therapy a shot, after I was abused and neglected I went to counciling for a few months and it helps somewhat. I'm not as much as a destructive human being now. But you can stop whenever you want to which is a plus, if you ever feel uncomfortable or like it's not helping anymore. (Or in my case talking about the same things over and over.)

dead paring?

why

I'm not friends with the character's owner anymore. She was way too self centered.

oooooooh.

then why the loving picture?

They were a good friend for a while, but as soon as they found someone else to cling to that's all they cared about. They kept drawing the character above with someone elses character instead of showing our characters together (even though I drew them a lot) and same with another pairing we had. I became very depressed, so I ended the friendship.

But I hate deleting art I like, so I have only moved them to scraps.

This image here is just the result after one time I tried defriending them, but a mutual friend made us talk again and we tried to make things better, but it went way down hill soon after.

So now I mainly focus on my own pairings.

aaah....yeah, ive been in that position too.
i LOVE drawing for my friends, but its always heartwrenching when it ends like that