Since I got a few questions the other night regarding male vs female appearance on Honeypots, here's a basic guide!

There isn't a whole lot of major differences between the two outside of genitalia (which I'm leaving to peoples' preferences on external/internal at this point) - females are generally a bit shorter and more shapely, but it's also perfectly normal to not be able to distinguish between the two easily! This actually benefits the Honeypot quite a bit, because the lack of secondary sex characteristic diversity makes luring in prey easier when there's nothing for the prey to potentially discriminate against. Fake Outs are a common technique.

For females that have a more defined bustline, they can either have a fully formed carapace or a short version with a slight underboob (the latter is slightly less common). Breasts on Honeypots are always on the smaller side. While females can mimic the flat male breastplate, males can not mimic the curved breastplates of a female (but can have a curvy lower body instead). Rarely a male will have a shortened carapace morph, but it does not form the underboob appearance a female would have.

There is not much variation in the arrangement of carapace plates, but they can vary a bit in individual size.
There is no gender reliant difference in the size of their pots or antennae.