sigh i keep feeling like... im fat, i need to work out but my job keeps me on the computer 24/7 and anytime i have free time im resting if i keep this up im just gonna keep gaining weight lack of movement is bothering me i do feel out of shape it sucks my thigh are so jiggly now... clothes getting too small for me.
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Pfft. You are not fat. You have fat on your body. If you want to become healthier, that's fine!
In fact, if you like dancing, there's a lady I follow on YouTube that has fun dance-exercise videos. :D Jessica Fitness There's a beginner playlist! Though it may not be your thing if you don't like hip-hop/pop songs. omo I'm sure you could still find someone that has the kind of music and dance exercise for your needs. c:
Also, if you could spare at least 15 mins 3x a day or 30mins a day, you could try pilates. It's great to start out and work your way up without hurting yourself or exhausting yourself too much. Every other day, when waking up and before bed is good. :D
You're a beautiful young woman! It's hard to get into a routine to feel better and be healthier, but it's okay to take baby steps with planning! And don't mind setbacks, just keep going. :D
In fact, if you like dancing, there's a lady I follow on YouTube that has fun dance-exercise videos. :D Jessica Fitness There's a beginner playlist! Though it may not be your thing if you don't like hip-hop/pop songs. omo I'm sure you could still find someone that has the kind of music and dance exercise for your needs. c:
Also, if you could spare at least 15 mins 3x a day or 30mins a day, you could try pilates. It's great to start out and work your way up without hurting yourself or exhausting yourself too much. Every other day, when waking up and before bed is good. :D
You're a beautiful young woman! It's hard to get into a routine to feel better and be healthier, but it's okay to take baby steps with planning! And don't mind setbacks, just keep going. :D
You can do it Ligax! If you're able, just spend about half an hour or even a little less everyday running/jogging/walking, whatever you're capable of! Lately I've been jogging for 20 minutes everyday, being careful not to eat too much junk food, and doing some pushups, situps, and squats before bed. It's slow, but it's been working. And moving is a lot better than not moving so every little bit helps!
I bet you are a curvaceous woman. A voluptuous woman, one whose body draws a man's eyes to your curves. One that makes a man think things that he can't help but think. I bet you are truly a beauty, with a healthy glow about you because you actually aren't starving. These things, that body of yours, that beauty that you call fat makes a man's jaw go slack, makes him swallow hard- and makes him stop what he's doing and look at you...
I don't understand how most women think they are fat... Most women that think they are fat are actually dead smack in the middle of their weight zone. There is something terribly unhealthy and well ugly about a woman who does not have what she thinks is fat on her. Too thin, Twiggy like models that inject themselves with heroin so they won't eat anything are just awful looking, in my opinion.
That my friend, that thing you call fat, is jaw dropping beauty to a real man. I suspect you are really dead middle in your size chart or a bit on the heavier side- which only graces most women with more ample curves...
I am no lover of truly fat women, but when they show those before and after diet pictures, I usually think the first one looked better. Why? Because she was 20 pounds "overweight" rather than 20 pounds under.
Trust me, most women know not just how beautiful they really are. If you could see with our eyes, with our idea of what beauty is... well you might never stop slapping us, lol. But truly understand this. A woman with some extra fat, even a roll, is still a beauty. Even when she's seriously overweight, there is still a feminine beauty to her. I do so wish women could, just for one day, hear the many men that watch her and think, "Wow, she's really beautiful." It won't be every man, but it will be many.
Please don't be too hard on yourself.
Most Sincerely,
Anthony Ficton
I don't understand how most women think they are fat... Most women that think they are fat are actually dead smack in the middle of their weight zone. There is something terribly unhealthy and well ugly about a woman who does not have what she thinks is fat on her. Too thin, Twiggy like models that inject themselves with heroin so they won't eat anything are just awful looking, in my opinion.
That my friend, that thing you call fat, is jaw dropping beauty to a real man. I suspect you are really dead middle in your size chart or a bit on the heavier side- which only graces most women with more ample curves...
I am no lover of truly fat women, but when they show those before and after diet pictures, I usually think the first one looked better. Why? Because she was 20 pounds "overweight" rather than 20 pounds under.
Trust me, most women know not just how beautiful they really are. If you could see with our eyes, with our idea of what beauty is... well you might never stop slapping us, lol. But truly understand this. A woman with some extra fat, even a roll, is still a beauty. Even when she's seriously overweight, there is still a feminine beauty to her. I do so wish women could, just for one day, hear the many men that watch her and think, "Wow, she's really beautiful." It won't be every man, but it will be many.
Please don't be too hard on yourself.
Most Sincerely,
Anthony Ficton
I am happy to try and correct what for many is a false view. I suspect that while most women may not be what they think is an ideal weight, most men never even notice what a woman would call fat. Truly I say to my feminine friends that read this, look with the masculine eye and you shall see what beauty you truly possess.
Why is it that the great masters of European art always painted women that by today's standards nearly all women would call fat? I mean look at some of the paintings where women have obvious stomachs- and yet were called Eve's and Venus, the Goddess of beauty and love. That's because a woman who is too thin looks sickly.
It is the greatest tragedy of our time that women have finally achieved enough status, equality and power that they are not regularly cut off from food and starved as was so commonly done in years past; yet now they starve themselves and become sick in their minds over what most would call a few pounds overweight.
To any woman out there that might read this, men really don't see you as fat. We see your beauty, your charm and of course your curves. Your weight passes before our eyes as an unseen ghost- it only haunts you.
Now I am not saying to run out and eat a quart of the most expensive ice cream you can find, but please don't think yourself fat, in most cases of course. If you are fat, I mean really fat, well you have your work cut out. But even a truly fat woman may capture the soul of a good man. Look around you. Have you ever seen a good looking guy with what you would call a fat woman? It happens quite often. There is more, so much more that your body weight that men desire.
And you my friend, I have seen your pictures before. Unless you gained 40 pounds since your last posted selfie, you are certainly NOT fat, least not what most men would consider to be so. Are there men so vein as to not date a woman with even a few extra pounds? Most certainly- and you are protected from such an egomaniac by your extra weight! You don't want to date or God forbid, marry a man that obsessed and controlling.
Well I have ranted enough I suppose...
But please understand that your body is very differently perceived by many men- and we really don't see what you would call fat. Be as forgiving of yourself as we are of you and see the beauty of a woman through our eyes.
Anthony
Why is it that the great masters of European art always painted women that by today's standards nearly all women would call fat? I mean look at some of the paintings where women have obvious stomachs- and yet were called Eve's and Venus, the Goddess of beauty and love. That's because a woman who is too thin looks sickly.
It is the greatest tragedy of our time that women have finally achieved enough status, equality and power that they are not regularly cut off from food and starved as was so commonly done in years past; yet now they starve themselves and become sick in their minds over what most would call a few pounds overweight.
To any woman out there that might read this, men really don't see you as fat. We see your beauty, your charm and of course your curves. Your weight passes before our eyes as an unseen ghost- it only haunts you.
Now I am not saying to run out and eat a quart of the most expensive ice cream you can find, but please don't think yourself fat, in most cases of course. If you are fat, I mean really fat, well you have your work cut out. But even a truly fat woman may capture the soul of a good man. Look around you. Have you ever seen a good looking guy with what you would call a fat woman? It happens quite often. There is more, so much more that your body weight that men desire.
And you my friend, I have seen your pictures before. Unless you gained 40 pounds since your last posted selfie, you are certainly NOT fat, least not what most men would consider to be so. Are there men so vein as to not date a woman with even a few extra pounds? Most certainly- and you are protected from such an egomaniac by your extra weight! You don't want to date or God forbid, marry a man that obsessed and controlling.
Well I have ranted enough I suppose...
But please understand that your body is very differently perceived by many men- and we really don't see what you would call fat. Be as forgiving of yourself as we are of you and see the beauty of a woman through our eyes.
Anthony
^w^ is da only way to view ju :D
ever since whats his name attacked you and that whole thing i tried to do over on da to help, i thought id give round 2 for when you are feeling down xP!
i know you shall find some way to get more exercise into your days :P *pounces and hugs* anyways, least youll be warmer o-o i mean, im annorexic, so im always cold, even when its warm ;-; so don feel too bad for the flip side...
side note: it also shows you eat well if you are having weight xP i must find out what you eat now :P!
ever since whats his name attacked you and that whole thing i tried to do over on da to help, i thought id give round 2 for when you are feeling down xP!
i know you shall find some way to get more exercise into your days :P *pounces and hugs* anyways, least youll be warmer o-o i mean, im annorexic, so im always cold, even when its warm ;-; so don feel too bad for the flip side...
side note: it also shows you eat well if you are having weight xP i must find out what you eat now :P!
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