7-11-15

So you're all most likely wondering what happened in this picture… You probably don't notice that I censored this fursuiter's paw and are thinking maybe the guy who was taking the picture messed up and only took a picture of me. … Well… No… I edited this picture to leave out the fursuiter in question… But wait, I'm the guy that loves fursuiters! So why am I doing this you may ask?

Because this particular suiter is a jerk… Allow me to explain our history…

So we first met at AnthroCon 2015. After the parade was over, I saw him and wanted to get a picture with him. He took the picture with me, but he was not happy with me at all. No idea why… Nor did I notice this until later on.

A few months ago, I encountered him again at PAW 2015 at a late night party  savagecat and a few other furs were having on the big patio outside their hotel rooms. As I walked down, I spotted him and said "hey there, remember me?" He was like "Oh god, it's him!" and walked off…

Our third encounter was at Frolic around Christmas time. His fursuit was wearing a Christmas outfit. I saw him and asked for a hug, but he wouldn't give me one. I did however ask for a picture, and he accepted. While we were about to take the picture,  HUSKYMARI comes up to him and they hug… I was like "How come she gets a hug?"… Anyway, after we took the picture, he bolted away from me…

From there, I knew something was up between him & I. So I was hoping I'd see him again at FurCon 2016 to figure out what is wrong. Well, I encountered him again in the Dealer's Den of FurCon 2016. I asked him if there were anything wrong between us and have even pointed out that every time he sees me, he doesn't seem happy to see me. He didn't speak, but he seemed to be OK with me. So I figured that maybe I misunderstood his actions.

I saw him again at the Zootopia meetup and that's where I discovered he's a man (the character he dresses up as is a female). Because as we were all waiting in the theater for our movie, I saw him take off his mask. I honestly didn't care, because there are many fursuiters I know who aren't the same gender as their character behind the mask, but I'm perfectly fine with it. Anywho, as I was walking down to the front near where he was, I said "Hey, fancy meeting you here!" in a playful matter. He didn't react to me one bit… I figured that he didn't hear me, so I left it at that.

Now here's where we get to the reason his fursuit isn't in this picture. As I'm sure most of you know, I posted a 7th Andrew's Thoughts about standing up for ''furry rights''. Since I wanted to try to get this to as many furries as furryly possible, I told my viewers & my furry friends to spread the word and I even posted a link to it in the BAF mailing list.

A few didn't take too kindly to this, and one of those few was the fursuiter in question. He sent a personal attack saying…
"Really dude? You spam this on BAF AND on here? This isn't your personal discussion center!"
That wasn't a very nice thing to say... Especially since another furry confirmed that this isn't spam and that if it was, one of two furries would of said something. And those two furries said nothing, so I'm OK. The other furry also said…
"Folks who publicly complain at you for "spamming" as a personal attack aren't playing by BAF's rules anyway. :)"

Well, what the fursuiter in question said literally changed how I feel about him… Ever since I've been part of the furry community, I always thought ALL furries were cool. Especially the fursuiters! But after meeting the guy, I now see that not all furries are good… And since this particular one was such a douche bag to me, I refuse to upload any pictures of his fursuit on my profiles until further notice.

I feel he owes me an apology… Not only for this personal attack and accusing me of spamming, but also for not being very nice to me when he doesn't know jack s--- about me. All I was trying to do was stand up for my furry brethren and he just bites my head off. Wether my intentions were in the right or not, what he did wasn't nice…

I always thought furries could get along with one another, but from my experience with him, he proved me wrong…

Well, until this furry gives me an apology, I refuse to upload any pictures of his fursuit &/or take any new pictures of his fursuit. Only picture he's gonna get from me is this one with his fursuit's paw blurred… I'm not even gonna mention his name or his species…

And if he waits until after I get my fursuit to apologize, like if his attitude around me changes when I start fursuiting, then I won't accept his apology… Because it'll show me that the whole reason he's been so negative around me was all because I wasn't a fursuiter yet…

I may like being around fursuiters more, but I would NEVER treat a non-suiter like crap unless they were being a jerk to me!

Anyway, that's the reason this picture is the way it is… Sorry that none of you will get to see it on my profile…