"I feel blessed and loved. Even through all the difficult and horrible times, you need to remember there are always positives. Sometime people can't understand, because of my situation, when I tell them I can be happy. While there are lows, I answer that I feel this way because there is so much love and support and that I try (as difficult maybe it be) to think of all the people in my life and happy times over the years and it makes me smile..and once you smile, it's contagious!
Take action against the things that you can change, but learn to not waste too much energy on stress for things you can't change. I still have to actively remind myself, but it can mean a world of difference in your own physical and mental well being."

commissioned by doug h., in memory of anthony k. lee.
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