
A picture to many stories
"She has been depressed and quiet for the past few days. No job, no source of income, and contently having to worry about money coming in. She has enough in her bank account to ride out for the next few months on rent and food, but she never seems to treat herself now and then. I had to "drag" her into JD ice cream shop and push her to buy an ice cream cone. I told her that there are times when you have to treat yourself to something sweet. It helps bring your mood up and it makes you forget about the drama you are facing through right now. She bought a Kiwi Kone and smiled."
The original idea for this story was about treating one's self now and then. Money is hard on everyone right now and those who are squandering or having a hard time with financial problems don't really tend to treat themselves. Even if you are on a very tight budget, you should spend a little on yourself. Go get some ice cream, a treat, anything that would take your mind off of the world around you and enjoy life.
But then, I found other stories to go with this image when I was done. A narrative picture can have a thousand stories, each person making up their own story in their head.
What are your ideas on this story?
A picture to many stories © 2009 Alex Cockburn
The original idea for this story was about treating one's self now and then. Money is hard on everyone right now and those who are squandering or having a hard time with financial problems don't really tend to treat themselves. Even if you are on a very tight budget, you should spend a little on yourself. Go get some ice cream, a treat, anything that would take your mind off of the world around you and enjoy life.
But then, I found other stories to go with this image when I was done. A narrative picture can have a thousand stories, each person making up their own story in their head.
What are your ideas on this story?
A picture to many stories © 2009 Alex Cockburn
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I almost never splurge on myself because I spend almost all of my money on my kids. Not because they need it, I just like spoiling them. They're my babies I know I really should spend more on myself and I'm going to do it. There's notjhing wrong with treating yourself every now and again when you expenses are paid.
It's so true. I think this is a place where everyone has been. Heck, I'm there now! But it lifts me more when I treat for others instead of treating for myself.
As for the image, I love how the ice cream server is a cow, lol. Cute and clever. I can see this turning into a short progression piece as well. She's unsure about the whole situation and her friend just smiles and tells her not to worry, with expression though, not words. She takes a lick of the ice cream and does feel better, only this time everything's in color now. |3
As for the image, I love how the ice cream server is a cow, lol. Cute and clever. I can see this turning into a short progression piece as well. She's unsure about the whole situation and her friend just smiles and tells her not to worry, with expression though, not words. She takes a lick of the ice cream and does feel better, only this time everything's in color now. |3
I am at the financial point where I can't even justify going out, much less treating myself to anything. If it wasn't for a local friend that's been depressed as well, I'd probably be starving and entirely malnourished. I visit his place and we just chat about whatever. Complain about life and romance. And then go out and get food somewhere. He often spends 10-12 dollars on me half the days of the week. It's nice, being able to eat good food. And I don't feel I'm taking advantage of him either. He knows my situation, and he has a well paying job. That's as much of a treat as I'm able to do, and it's been one of the few things keeping me going.
Reminds me of the time i was just ready to give up on the world, didn't give a crap. late start at school and I was going to McDonald's for a snack and i just looked at all the people, thinking how each one could out for themselves, how each one could be ignorant or a bigot or some stingy crotchety hag but some short guy, a lil bald looked back at me and started conversation, I told him i was from the school down there and out of no where the man offered to pay for my snacks, I was surprised to hear something like that, I never had such random generosity before, not to my memory, the man insisted and i thanked him very much, told him I was thankful and it's been almost four years and i never forget the one kind stranger who helped another. I always stopped to hold hold the door or help pick something up for someone when ever i could after some thinking. It gives me great joy to see someone thankful for my deeds, to hold a door even when my hands are full to or even when i have a place to go, to stop and help a man with a bad back pick up his spare change. I like to think everyone has some chance for true generosity or will for peace within them under everything.
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