So one day a few months ago my baby boy let me call him Daddy and we switched roles for a few hours. It has been one of my favorite memories as a couple. It really brought us closer together.


Being involved with the person you love is not what everyone thinks it is. It's not waking up early in morning to make breakfast and eat together. Its not cuddling in bed together until both of you peacefully fall asleep. It's not a clean bedroom and a homemade meal every time you're together. It's waking up to all of the chocolate & chips you bought for yourself, already eaten. It's someone who steals all the covers and elbows you in the face because the bed is too small for both of you. It's slammed doors and few harsh words, fights and the silent treatment. It is, despite all of those things, the one thing you look forward to, knowing your loved by the same person you love, every day. It's being involved with someone who unconditionally cares about you and your well being. It's laughing about the one time you accidentally did something stupid. It's about eating the cheapest and easiest meal you can make and sitting down together at 10pm to eat because you both had a busy day. It's when you have an emotional breakdown and your love lays with you and holds you and tells you everything is going to be okay, and you believe them. It's when "Netflix and chill" literally means you watch Netflix and chill out next to each other. It's about still loving someone even though they make you absolutely insane. Being with the person you love is countless fights about absolutely nothing, but is also having a love that people spend their whole life looking for. It's not perfect and it's hard, but it's amazing and comforting and the best thing you'll ever experience.