
OK THIS IS GOING TO NEED EXPLAINING
I know my last version of this design says "bisexual homoromantic", but... I don't know. If I'm honest, I've been struggling with finding a label that fits me best, and for some time I've felt like I was just simply gay. I don't want to date guys ever again because I'm just not myself with them, and I'm attracted to girls and want to spend my life with one so... Yeah. Have this version.
Again, my sexuality is fluid at times, so idk
I know my last version of this design says "bisexual homoromantic", but... I don't know. If I'm honest, I've been struggling with finding a label that fits me best, and for some time I've felt like I was just simply gay. I don't want to date guys ever again because I'm just not myself with them, and I'm attracted to girls and want to spend my life with one so... Yeah. Have this version.
Again, my sexuality is fluid at times, so idk
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Species Whale
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Dig both variations of this design!
FWIW, I've been going through something similar. I'm bi but lean pretty heavily hetero. I've never felt romantic towards the same sex, merely physical attraction. Which incidentally I usually ignore, because previous experiences with men have been shall we say, unrewarding.
Hope that's not TMI, just wanted to say I understand what you're going through.
FWIW, I've been going through something similar. I'm bi but lean pretty heavily hetero. I've never felt romantic towards the same sex, merely physical attraction. Which incidentally I usually ignore, because previous experiences with men have been shall we say, unrewarding.
Hope that's not TMI, just wanted to say I understand what you're going through.
no no, I really appreciate hearing this!
Yeah for me it's like. I SOMETIMES find myself attracted to guys, but when I think about it, I really want to be with a woman in the end and all that jazz. Being affectionate with guys is... Weird lol
thank you for liking both designs!
Yeah for me it's like. I SOMETIMES find myself attracted to guys, but when I think about it, I really want to be with a woman in the end and all that jazz. Being affectionate with guys is... Weird lol
thank you for liking both designs!
If you're into the label, then "homoflexible" might be more up your alley. I never really felt like "heteroflexible" applied to me, because I am genuinely attracted to some guys... it's just a pretty narrow subset that constitutes my type(s), and it hasn't been acted upon frequently.
I hear you on the weirdness. I just don't feel like I "fit" into expectations of how a gay man should act. It's me, and I'd never deny that it's part of me, it's just... not as comfortable, I guess? Not that any of that part of my life has ever been comfortable.
Part of it might also be that you're still fairly young. My understanding of my sexuality shifted both as I got older and more experienced (sort of).
Of course! Your toony style is whale-suited to such punnery!
I hear you on the weirdness. I just don't feel like I "fit" into expectations of how a gay man should act. It's me, and I'd never deny that it's part of me, it's just... not as comfortable, I guess? Not that any of that part of my life has ever been comfortable.
Part of it might also be that you're still fairly young. My understanding of my sexuality shifted both as I got older and more experienced (sort of).
Of course! Your toony style is whale-suited to such punnery!
Yeah I feel you
Sexuality is just weird, sometimes I wish it didn't have such a huge impact on us as people and labels weren't a thing, but everyone wants to fit in somewhere, so I can't deny that calling myself bisexual homoromantic is nice in a way
and I feel that, it might change. I've experimented with guys in the past and it was... Meh. I didn't feel a connection, really, and I always thought I wasn't with the right gender. Maybe that does make me 100% gay, but sometimes I think about guys in a sexual way so I can't really say that imo. Idk, shit's weird
and hehe I'm glad you like it ^^
Sexuality is just weird, sometimes I wish it didn't have such a huge impact on us as people and labels weren't a thing, but everyone wants to fit in somewhere, so I can't deny that calling myself bisexual homoromantic is nice in a way
and I feel that, it might change. I've experimented with guys in the past and it was... Meh. I didn't feel a connection, really, and I always thought I wasn't with the right gender. Maybe that does make me 100% gay, but sometimes I think about guys in a sexual way so I can't really say that imo. Idk, shit's weird
and hehe I'm glad you like it ^^
Reminds me a bit of one of my friends, actually. Her thing was actually for androgynous people of both genders.
I definitely relate, if from the other side of the fence. If you ever want to talk about it, please feel free.
Of course! You do some of the only toony orcas that don't look weird. :)
I definitely relate, if from the other side of the fence. If you ever want to talk about it, please feel free.
Of course! You do some of the only toony orcas that don't look weird. :)
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