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He wasn't referring to people who ACTUALLY have thyroid problems, though. At least, I think.
Look, there's a LOT of people out there that lie to themselves about how and why they have weight issues, and I think THAT was what he was addressing. I don't think it was meant to be a jab at people with LITERAL health issues. I know that I for one really hate when people do the sorts of things where they lie to themselves about why they're fat, how they're fat, all that. I mean, I'm still pudgy over here, but at least I don't lie and say "I'm having trouble losing more weight because of X and Y"; I know it's 'cuz I've been drinking too much soda again lately.
Look, there's a LOT of people out there that lie to themselves about how and why they have weight issues, and I think THAT was what he was addressing. I don't think it was meant to be a jab at people with LITERAL health issues. I know that I for one really hate when people do the sorts of things where they lie to themselves about why they're fat, how they're fat, all that. I mean, I'm still pudgy over here, but at least I don't lie and say "I'm having trouble losing more weight because of X and Y"; I know it's 'cuz I've been drinking too much soda again lately.
I feel just the opposite. I believe he's jabbing at people who don't even try and lie to themselves that they are or that they can't. Which are the people who will look at this and go "this is a load of horseshit!", "You need good genetics to do that!", etc.
I ABSOLUTELY support and try to do what's in this comic. It's a GREAT message. I just think the original commentor probably should have put quotes around that comment to make it clear it wasn't literally him saying that.
I ABSOLUTELY support and try to do what's in this comic. It's a GREAT message. I just think the original commentor probably should have put quotes around that comment to make it clear it wasn't literally him saying that.
It's difficult for me because I both agree and disagree with you there.
I've struggled with trying to lose weight for a very long time because i was the dumbest kid ever and didn't see the connection between eating a ton of unhealthy shit/being a lazy fuck and gaining weight. I did a lot of dumb things that absolutely deserved to be ripped on because i never took responsibility for myself until like high school. People who who make excuses for things when they really have no grounds to do so absolutely suck because they harm the way the world looks at people who actually /do/ have those disabilities.
If you want to make fun of folks like that, that's fine but it really touches a nerve with me when people do stuff like that on things like this where it's supposed to be positive. It feels like despite the great message they're turning it into a joke because there's a fat person in it I guess? Like idk as someone who's been struggling the past few years to make better choices in their life, it always hurts to see fat jokes constantly popping up even on something like this if that makes sense?
but oh yeah I definitely get you there! I know he's not personally attacking the commissioner or character in the comic, I'm not mad at them or you or anyone here or feel attacked or anything like that. I just wanted to add my two cents as I found it a little distasteful personally.
I've struggled with trying to lose weight for a very long time because i was the dumbest kid ever and didn't see the connection between eating a ton of unhealthy shit/being a lazy fuck and gaining weight. I did a lot of dumb things that absolutely deserved to be ripped on because i never took responsibility for myself until like high school. People who who make excuses for things when they really have no grounds to do so absolutely suck because they harm the way the world looks at people who actually /do/ have those disabilities.
If you want to make fun of folks like that, that's fine but it really touches a nerve with me when people do stuff like that on things like this where it's supposed to be positive. It feels like despite the great message they're turning it into a joke because there's a fat person in it I guess? Like idk as someone who's been struggling the past few years to make better choices in their life, it always hurts to see fat jokes constantly popping up even on something like this if that makes sense?
but oh yeah I definitely get you there! I know he's not personally attacking the commissioner or character in the comic, I'm not mad at them or you or anyone here or feel attacked or anything like that. I just wanted to add my two cents as I found it a little distasteful personally.
Maybe it is distasteful. It was very much in that vein of trolling, so it's going to be polarizing. But people are gonna do that regardless, and I think it's important to consider their motives and intents before JUST writing them off. That being said, yeah. I can totally see why people might get upset by what was said.
I have a big issue with people being lazy like that because I DID that myself. I let myself think I couldn't lose weight because of genetic proclivity and general low self-esteem. But I had friends that believed in me, and I lost a good bit thanks to them doing that. And I will tell anyone I believe they can lose weight, even WITH health issues. Because, if they put in the hard work, they CAN do it.
So that's why I'm so willing to defend the guy's comment. SOME (and ONLY some) people need the wake-up slap to realize their excuses are not good enough to not TRY.
I have a big issue with people being lazy like that because I DID that myself. I let myself think I couldn't lose weight because of genetic proclivity and general low self-esteem. But I had friends that believed in me, and I lost a good bit thanks to them doing that. And I will tell anyone I believe they can lose weight, even WITH health issues. Because, if they put in the hard work, they CAN do it.
So that's why I'm so willing to defend the guy's comment. SOME (and ONLY some) people need the wake-up slap to realize their excuses are not good enough to not TRY.
I think the trolling aspect is specifically why I have a problem with it. I understand people are going to do it and accept that fact which is why I'm not personally upset or offended by it. But at least in this context, it seems inappropriate and uncalled for and just personally I don't really condone defending it because I feel it only breeds more discourse and encourages more folks to react negatively to the situation.
I completely understand and have the same issue with these things as you do, so I can totally sympathize. I had the same issues where I just made excuses, and while some definitely were legitimate problems, the fact that I was using them as a crutch rather than working harder definitely invalidated them. I'm getting better and working towards my goal, and looking back it absolutely frustates me to see folks doing the same things I used to do, but I feel comments like this made publicly do more harm than good in fixing the issue. If you kick a person down even further, it's only going to fuel the problematic behavior. Not to say you should baby them or hold their hand, I'm all for tough love and calling out bullshit, but things like this just really don't help anyone.
I guess the TL;DR version is, this seems like a comment you'd make privately to a circle of friends who are all on the same level of humor as you, not a public place. It invalidates people that actually do have legit disabilities by fueling stereotypes of all overweight folks.
But again, I do understand your point of view and you're definitely not wrong, it's just my personal preference on the matter!
I completely understand and have the same issue with these things as you do, so I can totally sympathize. I had the same issues where I just made excuses, and while some definitely were legitimate problems, the fact that I was using them as a crutch rather than working harder definitely invalidated them. I'm getting better and working towards my goal, and looking back it absolutely frustates me to see folks doing the same things I used to do, but I feel comments like this made publicly do more harm than good in fixing the issue. If you kick a person down even further, it's only going to fuel the problematic behavior. Not to say you should baby them or hold their hand, I'm all for tough love and calling out bullshit, but things like this just really don't help anyone.
I guess the TL;DR version is, this seems like a comment you'd make privately to a circle of friends who are all on the same level of humor as you, not a public place. It invalidates people that actually do have legit disabilities by fueling stereotypes of all overweight folks.
But again, I do understand your point of view and you're definitely not wrong, it's just my personal preference on the matter!
Oh absolutely! Even if it's an agree to disagree thing, it's always nice to hear and take into consideration other's respective viewpoints, definitely helps to hear things outside your bubble every once and a while!
Plus it's always super nice to discuss things without it turning into a shouting match
Plus it's always super nice to discuss things without it turning into a shouting match
Bullying actually MOTIVATED me to lose weight. The determination to show those bellends and trolls that you can achieve anything, the result proved it correct :p
On either case, if you get trolled or bullied, people either sway to lose weight for a longer life, or eat themselves to death for comfort.
On either case, if you get trolled or bullied, people either sway to lose weight for a longer life, or eat themselves to death for comfort.
Do you have it? cause if not you have no idea, i have had it for a year and its completely ruined my life, and i'm still trying to get sorted out.
Yes its no excuse, but picture everyday feeling like you have only slept a couple hours your mind is constantly clouded its like your half drunk, every single day.... then try to exercise and eat healthy everyday, and it being about half as effective as it would normally be.
Ive never had a problem eating healthy and losing weight but Ive gained like 35-45 pounds its hell if i was in the situation where i had no life and could just focus on exercise then ya i think i could pull it off. but i don't, i have other things to attend to as well as trying to stay in shape. So well your right in a sense, a thyroid problem is hell and is a very valid reason to have weight problem because everything against you even your own body. As fucked up as it sounds i would honestly trade it for almost any other serious health problem.
Yes its no excuse, but picture everyday feeling like you have only slept a couple hours your mind is constantly clouded its like your half drunk, every single day.... then try to exercise and eat healthy everyday, and it being about half as effective as it would normally be.
Ive never had a problem eating healthy and losing weight but Ive gained like 35-45 pounds its hell if i was in the situation where i had no life and could just focus on exercise then ya i think i could pull it off. but i don't, i have other things to attend to as well as trying to stay in shape. So well your right in a sense, a thyroid problem is hell and is a very valid reason to have weight problem because everything against you even your own body. As fucked up as it sounds i would honestly trade it for almost any other serious health problem.
So, I'm curious what makes you think you can identify whether someone has a legitimate condition or is using an "excuse"?
There are so many reasons people look like the way they do. To judge them based on a glance is really shallow and says a lot about your personal character.
Also I'm curious in what world you think overweight people would willingly choose to be verbally abused for their appearance?
There are so many reasons people look like the way they do. To judge them based on a glance is really shallow and says a lot about your personal character.
Also I'm curious in what world you think overweight people would willingly choose to be verbally abused for their appearance?
I never said I can identify people with legitimate conditions vs not. But people lie. To themselves, and to other. I'm not going to guess on the distribution of people with issues vs those that lie to themselves, but the fact of the matter is that obesity didn't use to be the pandemic it now is, and we are MUCH more sedentary in the current era. It's a logical conclusion to assume most of these are a combination of poor diet and lack of exercise.
And I never said I judge based on looks. But there's a difference between struggling with a thyroid issue and being a landwhale. My mother has a thyroid issue (hence why I got tested for it), and has struggled with weight her adult life. But the fact is she's STRUGGLED to deal with it, and she never just sat inside being inactive eating high-caloric food; hell, even in spite of pain from arthritis, she managed to do her gardening even before she got on meds for the arthritis. And SOME people do just sit and eat high-calorie food and act as if they have health issues so they don't have to change, because people don't LIKE to change. It IS fucking hard. Even without any real health issues, I've only really lost about 50 lbs, and possibly regained some because of focusing on muscle-building and being a little careless on food. But I personally don't excuse people that decide they shouldn't have to try, even if I can't know who they are or are not.
Finally, where the hell are you getting this "willingly choose to be verbally abused for their appearance" nonsense? Of course they don't, but that also isn't how human interaction works. Moreover, when did I even say something REMOTELY approaching this? Frankly, you sound like you are projecting a LOT here.
And I never said I judge based on looks. But there's a difference between struggling with a thyroid issue and being a landwhale. My mother has a thyroid issue (hence why I got tested for it), and has struggled with weight her adult life. But the fact is she's STRUGGLED to deal with it, and she never just sat inside being inactive eating high-caloric food; hell, even in spite of pain from arthritis, she managed to do her gardening even before she got on meds for the arthritis. And SOME people do just sit and eat high-calorie food and act as if they have health issues so they don't have to change, because people don't LIKE to change. It IS fucking hard. Even without any real health issues, I've only really lost about 50 lbs, and possibly regained some because of focusing on muscle-building and being a little careless on food. But I personally don't excuse people that decide they shouldn't have to try, even if I can't know who they are or are not.
Finally, where the hell are you getting this "willingly choose to be verbally abused for their appearance" nonsense? Of course they don't, but that also isn't how human interaction works. Moreover, when did I even say something REMOTELY approaching this? Frankly, you sound like you are projecting a LOT here.
Sorry dude everyone just took his 3 worded message a different way. it didn't even bother me that much i more or less took your one comment very negatively. But Ive never had experience with someone using thyroid issues as an excuse. based on his comment it seems like he has.
Do you have a body like your picture? cause i use to have a body like that... well not as buff or the washboard abs but i was close 15% body fat getting nice pecs building muscle etc. My diet was chicken brown rice broccoli everyday, 20-30min cardio everyday and lifting weights 3 days a week for an hour etc. started doing all that after college and i honestly didn't have much trouble doing it sticking to the routine and all it was pretty easy to me. Then i got this and its so fucking hard to do any of that, especially after like a shift at work. But god damn im trying to get back into it. but ive lost all that i worked for and back and fourth trips to the doc to get it all sorted out. Sorry if i took it personally. now its another month more blood work try this dose BS.
But i don't see how anyone could use it as an excuse and not have it like all that got to do is go get blood work then you basically got it or don't based on the results like they could lie lol but its not something I've ever came across relating to this specific issue
Do you have a body like your picture? cause i use to have a body like that... well not as buff or the washboard abs but i was close 15% body fat getting nice pecs building muscle etc. My diet was chicken brown rice broccoli everyday, 20-30min cardio everyday and lifting weights 3 days a week for an hour etc. started doing all that after college and i honestly didn't have much trouble doing it sticking to the routine and all it was pretty easy to me. Then i got this and its so fucking hard to do any of that, especially after like a shift at work. But god damn im trying to get back into it. but ive lost all that i worked for and back and fourth trips to the doc to get it all sorted out. Sorry if i took it personally. now its another month more blood work try this dose BS.
But i don't see how anyone could use it as an excuse and not have it like all that got to do is go get blood work then you basically got it or don't based on the results like they could lie lol but its not something I've ever came across relating to this specific issue
Yes, people do lie to themselves to steer clear of the challenge! I have a friend that lies to herself and makes excuses alllll the time for why she just can't lose weight when in reality, she just doesn't want to actually try. Even when we both used to workout together, she would make excuses. It's frustrating to me as a friend because whatever I say to help her won't go very far. . - .
There's probably SOMETHING in her psychology blocking her; in my opinion, that's where it is for MOST people in this situation. If you can find out what it is and help her past it, I'll bet she can do a LOT better. :3
If you want to try, at least. It's not your obligation to force her, obviously, and ultimately you can't if she won't.
If you want to try, at least. It's not your obligation to force her, obviously, and ultimately you can't if she won't.
I try to be understanding yet encouraging but she's just good at letting herself make excuses. She's even acknowledged that she makes excuses sometimes but I never force her into things. I've backed off since then to see what she'll do on her own and its declined to nothing.
But I do agree that the mentality has to be there for the hard work to be done. Some days I don't even have it. X w X I don't like to fault her for every little thing either, of course. We're far from perfect and I get that! There is only so much you can do for someone who won't do things for themselves but I still love her for who she is. ^ - ^
Also, I wanted to share so that people have an example to see what you were talking about.
But I do agree that the mentality has to be there for the hard work to be done. Some days I don't even have it. X w X I don't like to fault her for every little thing either, of course. We're far from perfect and I get that! There is only so much you can do for someone who won't do things for themselves but I still love her for who she is. ^ - ^
Also, I wanted to share so that people have an example to see what you were talking about.
"I never said I can identify people with legitimate conditions vs not." This is exactly what you did, though. You made it clear you judge people based on appearance without knowing their personal history. There would be no other purpose for your comments otherwise.
"but the fact of the matter is that obesity didn't use to be the pandemic it now is," This is called concern shaming. You don't care about these people, how they think or feel.
"And I never said I judge based on looks. But there's a difference between struggling with a thyroid issue and being a landwhale." What the fuck? Your mind is so ugly. I have no words.
"My mother has a thyroid issue... and has struggled with weight her adult life. But the fact is she's STRUGGLED to deal with it" Okay, so how exactly do you determine who you just as a "landwhale" and as someone who has "struggled"? Why are you making this judgement? Why are you saying you don't make this kind of judgement when you so very clearly did several times in this post alone? Your anecdotal stories about "My X is X, so clearly I know all about this" will find zero pity. You have observed one situation. One.
"Finally, where the hell are you getting this "willingly choose to be verbally abused for their appearance" nonsense?"
Right here: "Look, there's a LOT of people out there that lie to themselves about how and why they have weight issues, and I think THAT was what he was addressing. I don't think it was meant to be a jab at people with LITERAL health issues. I know that I for one really hate when people do the sorts of things where they lie to themselves about why they're fat, how they're fat, all that. I mean, I'm still pudgy over here, but at least I don't lie and say "I'm having trouble losing more weight because of X and Y"; I know it's 'cuz I've been drinking too much soda again lately."
So, how do you determine who is lying to themselves and who isn't? Are you a doctor? Do you know their physical and mental health history? Why does the word "landwhale" even pop into your head when you know zero information about a person and why they look the way they do? The situations you describe imply that fat people without a justifiable reason for being fat (which doesn't exist, btw) deserve to be ridiculed and criticized. If they're really so lazy, I'm sure they're also indifferent about your opinion. Boiled down? You are making zero impact and providing no information of substance.
There's no projection here. It's you spouting off words and then saying they don't mean what they very clearly do.
"but the fact of the matter is that obesity didn't use to be the pandemic it now is," This is called concern shaming. You don't care about these people, how they think or feel.
"And I never said I judge based on looks. But there's a difference between struggling with a thyroid issue and being a landwhale." What the fuck? Your mind is so ugly. I have no words.
"My mother has a thyroid issue... and has struggled with weight her adult life. But the fact is she's STRUGGLED to deal with it" Okay, so how exactly do you determine who you just as a "landwhale" and as someone who has "struggled"? Why are you making this judgement? Why are you saying you don't make this kind of judgement when you so very clearly did several times in this post alone? Your anecdotal stories about "My X is X, so clearly I know all about this" will find zero pity. You have observed one situation. One.
"Finally, where the hell are you getting this "willingly choose to be verbally abused for their appearance" nonsense?"
Right here: "Look, there's a LOT of people out there that lie to themselves about how and why they have weight issues, and I think THAT was what he was addressing. I don't think it was meant to be a jab at people with LITERAL health issues. I know that I for one really hate when people do the sorts of things where they lie to themselves about why they're fat, how they're fat, all that. I mean, I'm still pudgy over here, but at least I don't lie and say "I'm having trouble losing more weight because of X and Y"; I know it's 'cuz I've been drinking too much soda again lately."
So, how do you determine who is lying to themselves and who isn't? Are you a doctor? Do you know their physical and mental health history? Why does the word "landwhale" even pop into your head when you know zero information about a person and why they look the way they do? The situations you describe imply that fat people without a justifiable reason for being fat (which doesn't exist, btw) deserve to be ridiculed and criticized. If they're really so lazy, I'm sure they're also indifferent about your opinion. Boiled down? You are making zero impact and providing no information of substance.
There's no projection here. It's you spouting off words and then saying they don't mean what they very clearly do.
"Why does the word 'landwhale' even pop into your head when you know zero information about a person and why they look the way they do?" Because we have people with BMI indexes of 40+ when this DID NOT HAPPEN to anywhere near this degree 100 years ago. Makes me think that something happened societally, not genetically.
"...deserve to be ridiculed and criticized..." You're muddying the water here. Legitimate criticism is massively different from ridicule. One is pointing out legitimate problems, the other is simply making fun of a person for reasons. And I'm not speaking about specific people here; I'm talking in broad terms here.
Let's cut to brass tax: you don't know what I fully think on this at all, you're jumping to conclusions on what's here. Most likely you take issue with one specific thing I said, hence why you're coming at each little things I said and trying to take it all apart.
And I'm not gonna do that. If you want to talk about this topic directly, then I'm open to it. But I'm not gonna respond to these presumptive attacks on my values when you're basically guessing at what I really think or how I act (news flash: I would never be this harsh or clinical to a person if I were specifically talking about THEIR weight).
I doubt you actually care that much, I imagine this is all about "pwning" me and making yourself look good in your mind, so I don't expect this conversation to go on much further. But I leave that ball in your court.
"...deserve to be ridiculed and criticized..." You're muddying the water here. Legitimate criticism is massively different from ridicule. One is pointing out legitimate problems, the other is simply making fun of a person for reasons. And I'm not speaking about specific people here; I'm talking in broad terms here.
Let's cut to brass tax: you don't know what I fully think on this at all, you're jumping to conclusions on what's here. Most likely you take issue with one specific thing I said, hence why you're coming at each little things I said and trying to take it all apart.
And I'm not gonna do that. If you want to talk about this topic directly, then I'm open to it. But I'm not gonna respond to these presumptive attacks on my values when you're basically guessing at what I really think or how I act (news flash: I would never be this harsh or clinical to a person if I were specifically talking about THEIR weight).
I doubt you actually care that much, I imagine this is all about "pwning" me and making yourself look good in your mind, so I don't expect this conversation to go on much further. But I leave that ball in your court.
Yes, I know, fruits and vegetables are expensive, and Big Macs are relatively cheap and easy.
You're missing entirely the parts where I've been arguing that doing what is easy is exactly why people can't get their weight under control? All we can ever control in this world is ourselves and our choices, after all. We have to live in the world as it is, not as it "should be", which I think is where you're losing the thread.
Also, moral failing? Nah. Just a health failing I hate seeing people fall into far too often.
You're missing entirely the parts where I've been arguing that doing what is easy is exactly why people can't get their weight under control? All we can ever control in this world is ourselves and our choices, after all. We have to live in the world as it is, not as it "should be", which I think is where you're losing the thread.
Also, moral failing? Nah. Just a health failing I hate seeing people fall into far too often.
Food desert doesn't just mean that food is expensive, it means that people without access to cars have to travel at least a mile from their home to reach a grocery store, and food deserts are almost exclusively found in low-income areas, where people are often working two or three jobs just to get by and have neither the time, energy, or money to walk several miles for groceries and to spend the time required to prepare those groceries into a mean with equipment their apartment might not even have.
Truly, somebody who studies society must know nothing about society, while somebody who rejects the study of society as pseudoscience must therefor be an expert. Also, the earth is flat, gravity is fake, dinosaurs were made up, climate change is a hoax, and evolution is a scam. Anything else you want to fit in there?
I have a bachelor's in physics. So, you're not gonna convince me that you have a better understanding of the scientific method than I do.
The MAJORITY of institute-based social sciences do very poorly when it comes to objective investigation. Too common to see a presumption followed instead of reading the data without bias.
The MAJORITY of institute-based social sciences do very poorly when it comes to objective investigation. Too common to see a presumption followed instead of reading the data without bias.
I literally lived in a situation like this, no matter how much I tried I was just too poor to lose weight, I wasn't not ever eating, so I was taking in calories, I couldn't afford good foods and so the food I was in taking wasn't good, I knew that, but there was only one place to buy food, we had no car and it was a 45 minute walk. I didn't eat enough to keep my metabolism from going into "starvation mode" so when I'd lose weight I'd gain even more the moment I had food to eat again. I was active until the poor living conditions made me too ill to be particularly active, and yet I still had to make super long walks, so it wasn't as if I NEVER exercised. I was exhausted, I was sick, I was starving and still gaining weight and there wasn't anything I could do about it. I got a lucky break when a friend helped me out of the situation, gave me a boost and the help I needed to get where I am now, but this is ABSOLUTELY a thing, in my experience.
'Yes, I know, fruits and vegetables are expensive, and Big Macs are relatively cheap and easy.'
Not so! I feed my family on a very limited budget and strive to only buy fresh fruits and veggies to do so! Its all about the effort you put in to making a meal plan and looking for sales to match up with meals you can cook.
I have to admit we dont really eat fast food due to the cost! I can feed us with a curry or some other meal I cooked myself for pennies on the dollar compared to going out and eating at almost any fast food place. Home cooking will cost you far less if you just put in a little effort instead of sitting in your car at the drive through window.
Bottom line is that people are lazy and unwilling to really put effort towards making healthy changes.
*Disclaimer some people really do have a hard time due to health reasons. But it is still no excuse to let yourself become so unhealthy that you need a handicap sticker for your car... (I see this a lot, as well as my doctor, and with me I have bad knees so to see someone having trouble getting out of a car because they are just too big is a bummer.)
Anyhow not looking to bust into a huge long thing. Just wanted to put that out there that even if you only have 30.00 a week to eat you are more then capable of eating healthy no matter where you live. I move around a lot and have seen a wide range of prices on fruits and veggies. From Ca to Canada to In.
Not so! I feed my family on a very limited budget and strive to only buy fresh fruits and veggies to do so! Its all about the effort you put in to making a meal plan and looking for sales to match up with meals you can cook.
I have to admit we dont really eat fast food due to the cost! I can feed us with a curry or some other meal I cooked myself for pennies on the dollar compared to going out and eating at almost any fast food place. Home cooking will cost you far less if you just put in a little effort instead of sitting in your car at the drive through window.
Bottom line is that people are lazy and unwilling to really put effort towards making healthy changes.
*Disclaimer some people really do have a hard time due to health reasons. But it is still no excuse to let yourself become so unhealthy that you need a handicap sticker for your car... (I see this a lot, as well as my doctor, and with me I have bad knees so to see someone having trouble getting out of a car because they are just too big is a bummer.)
Anyhow not looking to bust into a huge long thing. Just wanted to put that out there that even if you only have 30.00 a week to eat you are more then capable of eating healthy no matter where you live. I move around a lot and have seen a wide range of prices on fruits and veggies. From Ca to Canada to In.
No, I'm BAD at empathy. But that doesn't mean I'm without SYmpathy. I know how hard these things are to get past sometimes, but they CAN be passed.
I'm not great at putting myself in someone else's place AND mindset, but just being me in their situation isn't hard to imagine. Seriously, you go on about me being a "internet tough guy", but I'm not callous to how hard weight loss can be even for those without weight issues. I've BEEN there. But because I've been there, I know it can also be done.
Seriously, I can't imagine how un-charitably you're reading what I'm saying to accuse me of being as heartless as you think I am.
I'm not great at putting myself in someone else's place AND mindset, but just being me in their situation isn't hard to imagine. Seriously, you go on about me being a "internet tough guy", but I'm not callous to how hard weight loss can be even for those without weight issues. I've BEEN there. But because I've been there, I know it can also be done.
Seriously, I can't imagine how un-charitably you're reading what I'm saying to accuse me of being as heartless as you think I am.
http://americannutritionassociation.....s-food-deserts
Question, why do you hate poor people so much?
Question, why do you hate poor people so much?
Well, not all of them. But the ones who are STILL upset were. Shepherd and NIMZ each seemed rather personable from their replies.
But yes. SOME of the replies wanted to be offended so they could display what good people they are by standing up for the overweight against us "bullies". I dislike when people as so sadly transparent.
But yes. SOME of the replies wanted to be offended so they could display what good people they are by standing up for the overweight against us "bullies". I dislike when people as so sadly transparent.
Ah, you're assuming based on his profile, which may or may not be out of date (his age clearly is if he's graduated college). Umm...don't do that? Ask him directly, at least. Also, if he's still in that age-range, he'd be on his parent's plan potentially, which means it comes down to whether or not his parents have insurance. So...stop guessing.
*eyeroll* This is what I hate about dealing with children: you all assume you know everything when you clearly do not. However, I'm SUPER weary of dealing with you, so I'm not feeling like going fully into why you're wrong on me thinking "all fat people must be lazy slobs". Your understanding of my views is very reductionist as well as black-and-white, and I'll thank you to consider maybe I can think that people aren't doing the best for themselves while still not thinking them bad people.
I know you won't, because you are an un-cheritable brat from what I can see.
I know you won't, because you are an un-cheritable brat from what I can see.
Wow, you clearly didn't read what I wrote, but alright. Guess an asshole is always gonna be an asshole. And apparently, you didn't actually read ANY of the comments over the last 10 months, but hey...Who am I to judge the way you are. Maybe you like being an insufferable asshat. No need to reply, I honestly don't care. I just like stirring dickbags like you up sometimes.
This reminds me of my time in army basic training. I went in a soft 230 pound fatass and came out a solid 180 pound soldier. "A rubber fucking machine," as my drill sergeant liked to say. I was awarded the "most motivated soldier" award because of my improvement and also because I was nearly 30 when I went in.
This pic speaks volumes to me, probably only in a way that him and those like us could understand. Not just in military, but anyone that wanted to reach for something when almost no one believed in you...
I had to go through this exact same thing. I wasn't fit in anyway when I first joined and they told me that I may not make it because of that.
Truth be told there were alot of people that said I couldn't do it, some were even family...
It took me 6 months (on account that I got sick while there) but to see the look on the faces of everyone that said I couldn't was the second best thing I saw when I came home wearing my uniform.
The first was seeing my family again (well the ones who believed in me).
Thanks or making such an amazing picture. Hope that we can see more like these.
I had to go through this exact same thing. I wasn't fit in anyway when I first joined and they told me that I may not make it because of that.
Truth be told there were alot of people that said I couldn't do it, some were even family...
It took me 6 months (on account that I got sick while there) but to see the look on the faces of everyone that said I couldn't was the second best thing I saw when I came home wearing my uniform.
The first was seeing my family again (well the ones who believed in me).
Thanks or making such an amazing picture. Hope that we can see more like these.
Indeed!
Having had a front seat row to the mental hell this can be, regardless if one is on a military path or not (as I'd been overweight pretty well all my life, and bullied for it, just, well, less relentlessly).
Because of the misery that was I much rather try to inspire and help folks who may have a similar struggle, and I have been approached by many after posting it on my page, to whom I had the opportunity to try and help (and hopefully have provided keys to success for).
Nor do I go out of my way to judge folks who choose not to engage in that change. I much prefer to lead and bring folks to change via inspiration, not blunt force trauma...
V/R,
Cap Mag.
Having had a front seat row to the mental hell this can be, regardless if one is on a military path or not (as I'd been overweight pretty well all my life, and bullied for it, just, well, less relentlessly).
Because of the misery that was I much rather try to inspire and help folks who may have a similar struggle, and I have been approached by many after posting it on my page, to whom I had the opportunity to try and help (and hopefully have provided keys to success for).
Nor do I go out of my way to judge folks who choose not to engage in that change. I much prefer to lead and bring folks to change via inspiration, not blunt force trauma...
V/R,
Cap Mag.
This is true,
But there is a limit to the body fat % that it will allow, usually 24 - 26%. I was... Well, I was at or over 50% at my peak weight, so while I got into a military college, I was unable to meet criteria to go through MEPs and be eligible for those programs until some time later...
V/R,
Cap Mag.
But there is a limit to the body fat % that it will allow, usually 24 - 26%. I was... Well, I was at or over 50% at my peak weight, so while I got into a military college, I was unable to meet criteria to go through MEPs and be eligible for those programs until some time later...
V/R,
Cap Mag.
I appreciate you sharing this with the community! It inspires even me... although my issue is not one of weight but overall fitness. Regardless, I don't think I have the mental parts to work in the military... but it's inspired me to try and get back into some sort of shape again.
Great piece, feel it really hits that spot... Thou Navy tried to make me less skinny XD.
Been years since basic for me... Was no cake walk till I broke... That first phone call home in what seemed like years... My mothers voice and broke down into so many tears... I never broke under the RDC's to that point never did before or after that call, but after that call I had that focus, that determination that I was worth a damn to myself and there was nothing that could throw at me I could not handle.
To any my brothers and sisters of the Armed Forces thank you. Knew I should have never left but life had me move onto having a family outside Navy. I would go through basic again too if opportunity presents itself but I am crazy like that.
Been years since basic for me... Was no cake walk till I broke... That first phone call home in what seemed like years... My mothers voice and broke down into so many tears... I never broke under the RDC's to that point never did before or after that call, but after that call I had that focus, that determination that I was worth a damn to myself and there was nothing that could throw at me I could not handle.
To any my brothers and sisters of the Armed Forces thank you. Knew I should have never left but life had me move onto having a family outside Navy. I would go through basic again too if opportunity presents itself but I am crazy like that.
I had tried to go into the military myself. But I made the mistake of revealing my ADD at MEPS. So now I have a giant DQ. I cannot join the Army, Air Force, Navy, Coast Guard, the National Guard, or the Reserves.
Still love this comic. It's extremely uplifting. Need more comics like this.
Still love this comic. It's extremely uplifting. Need more comics like this.
I don't have the calling to enter into the armed forces, but I will say I do have the drive to get in shape again. That desire to go beyond what you feel is your limits. Also, I have quite a few over-weight friends and they struggle to do things. I don't ever want to struggle to dance.... I love DDR ;A;
This is a well done and well executed piece. The artist and commissioner should feel proud of themselves. And although I have no real political stance on body types or body issues I feel as though I must admit... I'm mainly faving this so I can read through the hilarious string of comments the next time i need a cheap laugh.
*grabs popcorn*
...priceless!
*grabs popcorn*
...priceless!
I can relate to this comic I graduated from MP school on Feb 2016 & among the soldier there was this guy 6 foot something around 200-250 pounds he almost didn't pass his last APFT but if it wasn't for his determination & the help of us to motivate(not insulting him like the comic) he pass his run under 18 min it was like around 00:15:45-00:16:00.so for those either joining or join in & are in basic don't be the ass hole in the platoon try to be a leader or motivator
as a personal piece showing the struggles of one trying to achieve their dream and goal you did a fantastic job in just a few small panels.
seeing something like this makes me want to strive and try a little more for the things i want. i don't really have many goals or dreams like the character here does, but this piece certainly is something of an inspiration ^^
seeing something like this makes me want to strive and try a little more for the things i want. i don't really have many goals or dreams like the character here does, but this piece certainly is something of an inspiration ^^
Great piece! I too have dealt with a negative body image when I was younger which instead lead me to gain weight rather than lose a lot unhealthily; I could tell a great difference in my appearance in eight grade versus ninth. In fact, I'm still very picky about how I look in photos and videos, but I've learned to laugh at myself and let my personality dominate my appearance. What still surprises me is knowing I completed my first 5K not too long ago, alternating between jogging, walking, and then sprinting to the finish.
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