Good afternoon and welcome aboard for another lovely day, another FURRY THURSDAY!
*shrugs* Not really. This is actually a comic about a much deeper and more universal issue, I suppose. *snofts*
The other evening I was texting back'n'forth(side to side) with a new friend and the notion cam up of displeasure with one's appearance. *sets her chin* This has long been a bit of a sticking point with me... Now, I know that my gears don't turn the way most people's do. I also know that for most folkes the concepts of "beauty" and "attraction" are two Veeeeeeeeeeerrrrryyyy[/u] different types of sausage.... and for the purposes here, I don't care. This point still rings true for me on a very personal level. *tilts her head* Throughout my life I've known so many... beautiful.... gorgeous... people, women, men, all things in-between and outside. *nods slowly* And I've loved many of them... in word and body. Oh indeed.... And on this point I honestly feel a bit lucky, blessed, after a fashion, that for me "attraction" and "beauty"are basically the same.
But that's just the personal side of this... *sighs* Truth being, we, as a culture, I don't care where you're from, what language you speak, what color hat you wear, doesn't matter, we are brought up to be very.... sad, lonely and superficial creatures. "Good-looking" or "Hawtness" is pushing before any traits that genuinely matter, physical happenstance and genetic accident taught to be so much more desirable than kindness of spirt, compassion and genuine love. *shakes her head slowly* This won't do.
Maybe you see yourself as ugly. Maybe you see yourself as being 'fat' or short or flat-chested, bad hair, whatever. None of these things reflect being UGLY. *stares intently* Ugliness is something much deeper, darker and richer in it's distaste than that. Ugliness is a cruelty of the spirit, like "hate" and just as such it spreads and infects like a virus. Ugliness poisons people just as quickly as any 'meme'...
*steeples her fingers* Stop writing your stupid mean-spirited comment. *smiles* There's already enough ugliness in the world. Go and look in the mirror and look HARD. Chances are you will see somethings you don't like in there. But you might also see just how beautiful you really are ...at least, to some of us. *blows a kiss* Love yourselves and love each other, fuzzbutts. Blessed be.
*shrugs* Not really. This is actually a comic about a much deeper and more universal issue, I suppose. *snofts*
The other evening I was texting back'n'forth(side to side) with a new friend and the notion cam up of displeasure with one's appearance. *sets her chin* This has long been a bit of a sticking point with me... Now, I know that my gears don't turn the way most people's do. I also know that for most folkes the concepts of "beauty" and "attraction" are two Veeeeeeeeeeerrrrryyyy[/u] different types of sausage.... and for the purposes here, I don't care. This point still rings true for me on a very personal level. *tilts her head* Throughout my life I've known so many... beautiful.... gorgeous... people, women, men, all things in-between and outside. *nods slowly* And I've loved many of them... in word and body. Oh indeed.... And on this point I honestly feel a bit lucky, blessed, after a fashion, that for me "attraction" and "beauty"are basically the same.
But that's just the personal side of this... *sighs* Truth being, we, as a culture, I don't care where you're from, what language you speak, what color hat you wear, doesn't matter, we are brought up to be very.... sad, lonely and superficial creatures. "Good-looking" or "Hawtness" is pushing before any traits that genuinely matter, physical happenstance and genetic accident taught to be so much more desirable than kindness of spirt, compassion and genuine love. *shakes her head slowly* This won't do.
Maybe you see yourself as ugly. Maybe you see yourself as being 'fat' or short or flat-chested, bad hair, whatever. None of these things reflect being UGLY. *stares intently* Ugliness is something much deeper, darker and richer in it's distaste than that. Ugliness is a cruelty of the spirit, like "hate" and just as such it spreads and infects like a virus. Ugliness poisons people just as quickly as any 'meme'...
*steeples her fingers* Stop writing your stupid mean-spirited comment. *smiles* There's already enough ugliness in the world. Go and look in the mirror and look HARD. Chances are you will see somethings you don't like in there. But you might also see just how beautiful you really are ...at least, to some of us. *blows a kiss* Love yourselves and love each other, fuzzbutts. Blessed be.
Category Artwork (Traditional) / Comics
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I'm faving this super hard because I relate. I cannot convince myself that I'm physically attractive in any way, but rather than let it depress me I've accepted it as a fact. I live with it. It is a part of me, and I can do little to change it without changing WHO I am. And I simply can't muster the effort or motivation to do that. I don't see it as a problem because I'm still happy with myself as an identity, but for those who can't look past their appearance and feel ashamed, they need to see this. They need to understand their worth as a person, not a bag of flesh and blood.
*Swivels ears and smiles gently* Quite a lovely piece with an even lovelier statement,as you know already how much I agree with this statement. As we conversed quite a bit on the topic. *Chuckles* You also know my views on my 'looks' but I also don't think I am downright ugly. *Waves paw to the side with a smile* But no need in worrying about that. I do very much like your take on this particular subject,and how you've portrayed a lot of people's feelings in it as well.
*Places her paw on your shoulder* You're a very sweet woman,and I am sure that this made a lot of people smile. Blessed be,love.
*Places her paw on your shoulder* You're a very sweet woman,and I am sure that this made a lot of people smile. Blessed be,love.
I can actually relate to this. I have trouble seeing any beauty in me. No matter how many times my boyfriend and my pet tell me how beautiful, cute, or sexy I am I don't see it at all. Despite this I am glad I have two men in my love who, no matter how much I deny this are patient with me and tell me this each chance they get even when I get down on myself in saying I am not.
The greatest monsters that one sees is not the kind that dwells in trees, no dragon large or demon small nor king who sits in vaulted hall. The true beast that stalks the night and holds a knife against your life sits and waits behind the glass who walks your shadow and sips your glass. Your darkesy self who's full of hate with all the whispers meant to castigate, listen not to this hated fiend for your true worth is plain to see.
Haven't given you one of these in a while so *throws it up*
Haven't given you one of these in a while so *throws it up*
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