*gives her a soft hug.....

V.

*hugs back*

Sounds like you've had it pretty badly...It likely means nothing coming from someone you don't even know, but I'm sorry. It sounds like you've moved past it though, so that's good.

I came out to my mother as trans, and she pretty much told me her beliefs wouldn't allow her to see me as her daughter, and in the end I ended up telling her I didn't wish contact with her ever again. I'm trying to move past, but forgetting a parent isn't the easiest thing to do

I was lucky, when I told my mother I was Bi the only response I got was "Okay" and that was that. I think perhaps I used the wrong phrase when I said you had already moved past it, but I think it's good that you're trying. I think it's pathetic that a mother would let ridiculous beliefs prevent her from loving you. If they can't love you for who you really are then they don't deserve to be your parent.

That is exactly where I stand on this, and I no longer consider her my mother.

I need to move out of this province, but I need about $2000. I have no idea how I'm going to accomplish this. Most of my friends are in Toronto, and my fiancee is in Indiana

I think that's a healthy position. If she can't be supportive, it just isn't healthy.

I'd offer to help out, even just a few dollars, but my whole family is in a nasty financial position right now. I hope things go well for you.

Thanks, hun