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You were here for me for 9 years to bring me trough all the days. I thank you for that. I hope you can forgive me for what I have done. I couldn't help you. I ... I chose to put you down before the epileptic seizure's do. Last night was hell, you were in seizures most of the time. Than daybreak came and you were better. I had hopes this was just a bad dream, and we will forget it soon. We had a nice day together, and you were there with me. It was fine. Than came the sunset, and the seizures. I just hope you didn't know where I was taking you. Than came needel... You were gone. I toked you home, dug your grave with out a brake in the light of a spot light. Nice and deep, at the back of the yard. I curled you up in to your blanket nice and warm. Placed you into your final rest.
I hope I did the right thing, I hope it was good to be together with me, that I was good owner because you were a good boy. I will remember you, please if there is an afterlife may we meet on the other side again when my time will come as well. Farewell.
You were here for me for 9 years to bring me trough all the days. I thank you for that. I hope you can forgive me for what I have done. I couldn't help you. I ... I chose to put you down before the epileptic seizure's do. Last night was hell, you were in seizures most of the time. Than daybreak came and you were better. I had hopes this was just a bad dream, and we will forget it soon. We had a nice day together, and you were there with me. It was fine. Than came the sunset, and the seizures. I just hope you didn't know where I was taking you. Than came needel... You were gone. I toked you home, dug your grave with out a brake in the light of a spot light. Nice and deep, at the back of the yard. I curled you up in to your blanket nice and warm. Placed you into your final rest.
I hope I did the right thing, I hope it was good to be together with me, that I was good owner because you were a good boy. I will remember you, please if there is an afterlife may we meet on the other side again when my time will come as well. Farewell.
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I don't know the medical on your dog, but my guess would definitely no. Seizures don't just happen out of the blue and then vanish, it just don't work this way. Seizures are usually just the symptom of another, serious illness. That's the sad thing, of course you could blame yourself, the usual "what if...?", but trust me, that is useless. You decided what had to be the best for your dog. Just guessing that it maybe just could have gotten better also means that your dog would have suffered more in the much more likely possibility that it would not have gotten better.
I know this sounds harsh, but most of the time there is no "good" solution, just the choice between a bad and a bad one. We can only choose the less bad one, even if it's not the less one for ourselves, but for the ones we love. If someone claims afterwards that you chose the wrong one, ask him if he ever was in such a situation. If he would answer "yes", you can bet he's lying.
I know this sounds harsh, but most of the time there is no "good" solution, just the choice between a bad and a bad one. We can only choose the less bad one, even if it's not the less one for ourselves, but for the ones we love. If someone claims afterwards that you chose the wrong one, ask him if he ever was in such a situation. If he would answer "yes", you can bet he's lying.
That's hard to hear, and I know how painful this is. I had to say good bye to four dogs in my life, those were among the hardest moments in my life and it still hurt me to remember these moments. They were family and it's as painful as any other beloved family member dies. But it had to be done when they would otherwise suffer. Our furry companions gave so much to enrich our lives, it would have been very selfish to request they would stay longer in their suffering just to please us. That thought to let them live out of my own selfishness would have been much, much worse for me. As hard as it may sound, but to give them peace when they need it is the only thing we can do, the best we can do, out of compassion for them
Well, for this I have to be hard again and say, no matter how much we think that our dogs and cats are smart, but this kind of smart, to understand what happens to them, they sadly don't have. That's why they need us to do the decision.
Let me tell you a story: I still remember that moment when we had to put down one of our dogs. He suffered from massive dysplasia to a degree that no pain killer would work anymore. I still remember his look and I still imagine that it was a pledge for help. Maybe it was, I couldn't tell, but it sure looked like this. But there was nothing more we or any treatment could do, he was barely able to move anymore, we had to carry him to the vet. When his time came, I was with him and he snuggles with me and was happy that I was there. He went to sleep peaceful. So in the end I gave him what he begged for, the pain ended for him.
Like I said, don't think what was the best for you, think what was the best for him, and that's what you did. There is no discussion about it.
Let me tell you a story: I still remember that moment when we had to put down one of our dogs. He suffered from massive dysplasia to a degree that no pain killer would work anymore. I still remember his look and I still imagine that it was a pledge for help. Maybe it was, I couldn't tell, but it sure looked like this. But there was nothing more we or any treatment could do, he was barely able to move anymore, we had to carry him to the vet. When his time came, I was with him and he snuggles with me and was happy that I was there. He went to sleep peaceful. So in the end I gave him what he begged for, the pain ended for him.
Like I said, don't think what was the best for you, think what was the best for him, and that's what you did. There is no discussion about it.
Sorry for your lost. I know what you are going through as I had to put my little girl down back in June. She was such a sweet cat.
My Aunt sent me a link to this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V213BsnsQBs Just a heads up, it will make you cry but it should help a little bit.
My Aunt sent me a link to this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V213BsnsQBs Just a heads up, it will make you cry but it should help a little bit.
Az első háziállatom egy tengeimalac volt, 9 évesen távozott. Ez kb matuzsálemi életkor náluk, és bár nem olyan okosak mint a kutyák, nagyon szeretnivaló kis gombóc volt. A legutóbbi malacom Januárban halt meg, olyan 5 év körül lehetett, nagyon megsirattam szegényt. Részvétem és nagy ölelést küldök!
Köszönöm. Jó ha megélik a matuzsálemi kort és öregség viszi el. Én kutyusom még élehet volna jó pár évet ha nincs ez a epilepsziája. Mikor nem volt rohama semmi gond nem volt napközben együtt kelt járt velem mig dolgoztam. Aztán jöt este az ujjab összesés rángató görcs... nem is folytatom. Éljenenk hosszú szép életett a kedvenceid.
I sympathize with you on your loss. I had to put my beloved Abby three years ago this past March. That girl was THE best companion I ever had.
Putting her down was the hardest thing I had to do. I cried for a few days and still even sometime after, I still felt something was missing. Even my bed looked empty without her there. She would nap on my bed when I did art in her later years. I had her cremated so she can always be with me and the family.
Putting her down was the hardest thing I had to do. I cried for a few days and still even sometime after, I still felt something was missing. Even my bed looked empty without her there. She would nap on my bed when I did art in her later years. I had her cremated so she can always be with me and the family.
It has been rough days for you for sure, with all that is happening. Heh..This photo makes me remember my first dog, you know that warm sad kinda feeling when you miss the fond memories. Anyways you need to take time off with all that is happening now. Hopefully everyone understands, and if not, fuk em. I know I am just a stranger with cheap words but I truly hope you will be alright with time. Life sure keeps reminding us how fleeting it is, and we must cherish every moment. I know how it feels to see your four legged friend's health grow worse, and it is a decision one never wants to make. I know if I could, I would give years from my own life to have my best friend with me again even if for a moment. But, we must let them rest.
I am sorry, got emotional.
I hope you will be alright, do not guilt trip yourself over your decision.
I am sorry, got emotional.
I hope you will be alright, do not guilt trip yourself over your decision.
Sorry to hear this. I had a mini cocker spaniel for almost 20 years. After 5 years with no dog we got a big female black lab and she is great. She's 7 now and aging fast but hopefully will be around for 10 more years. they are not just dogs,, they are our everything. I hold hope that we will meet again.
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