this is she!!!
shes some sort of venomous/poisonous animal flower/venus flytrap plant species
shes technically nonbinary/ and a trans girl because in her species the males are usually brightly colored the females are dull dark colored but they can both lay eggs and/or breed so basically their biology has no gender construct also poly relationships are common within their species but it is also not uncommon for one or two to be the alpha relationship leaders within a group, there are also some who just choose one partner so yeah!