I was bi before but I was like selective? Not to be gross, but like backs on women fronts on men. It's weird, I think it was a 'fluid' thing within being bisexual? But now I like all, well butts lol :p

hope that's not gross I thought you might find it interesting. I'm like open to other types of guys/characters now too :x

it said tomboy, as long as you don't say 'bi men don't exist' etc haha :)

do you agree furry is a support group for this stuff like even /especially/ bi? :x Like I've been around since the MUCKs (like online/telnet d+d type things but it was just a furry chat too) and it was like, an open environment where people just allowed me to 'cuddle' regardless of gender :p cuddle in quotation marks but I really did, it was a safe environment where I felt like I could do that and nobody would judge :x And like bi stuff.... I'm a fennec, species is a fun way to try out 'different' men or even women, it's interesting. I got to be as cute as species as I wanted and my first art I liked was like 'cute' guys like felines or something. I dunno :) Maybe you've had a similar experience though? Like maybe there was some fem lynx or something? A little tomboyish for a feline I guess :) I dunno

The fandom is supportive of people, was then but not sure what it's like now. We should just get along but it seems like people don't.

yeah I know, back then it /did/ feel like it was "most of us were bi or something else going on", maybe nowadays it's gotten bogged down with odd kinks or something. There was the study or survey a while ago that the fandom was like 90% bisexual or something? But not sure if it applies now. It's cool though now at least, things like cuntboys (pardon my French) didn't exist. I was really confused at first, still not sure if any of those people are FtM?

Not gonna say the MUCK stuff didn't get off track, one relationship almost resembled pederasty :( (like how some furries make it "spiritual") but I'm just, my memory's been a lot better recently and it really was good memories for the most part :x

I feel like it's the individual's decision to define their identity and how that identity grows with them.
Personally, I struggled with romantic and sexual attraction for a long time, only recently I've been able to decide that it's a part of me and therefore is a part of what makes me 'me'.
It's quite normal for people to have preferences on anything, attraction to others is included. I see myself as one who wants to see the best in others and have found that there are many 'traits' and characteristics that are attractive to me, but less so to others. You are completely unique with your likes and dislikes.

I actually find it comforting to think of everyone as bisexual to a degree. Sexuality (in my opinion) is a spectrum and not a grid. Some days I feel more attracted to one gender or another. To me, if I want to be with someone, it's because I am comfortable being myself with them and them feeling comfortable with being themselves with me.
In short: Everyone can be bi, men, women and others.

The furry community as a whole is a large collection of people who want to be open with each other. Those who create 'fursonas' and 'personas' often use them as a form of self representation. (This is different for everyone though.) Since I haven't been in the fandom for that long, I cannot give an accurate opinion of how the community has changed over time. I can understand that the community is a way for people to express themselves.
At the furry meets that I have attended, everyone was quite welcoming and I received many hugs (which I really love), however in more recent times I have found myself becoming less involved with the community due to the hostility and dramatisation (lack of a better word) towards members. I have seen the community split into factions and cliques (both online and in person). I can understand that people want to be around people with similar thinking, but having unhealthy obsessions of sticking in these clique is harmful to the community and also can get newer members sucked into a crowd that they don't agree with or don't want to be in.

thank you for that :) I get worried that I'm not conveying what I want to say completely, but that pretty much nailed all the points I was trying to make. And about unhealthy obsessions, I agree as far as specific fetishes, they're fine to have but if there are people who need them to enjoy themselves that can feel a little scary :( I probably have plenty of fetishes I just always get confused by the super-specific ones. I know how all of mine relate to sex on some level, it's when you see the fetish that seems so removed from sex? Like I guess I enjoy..... not "zoo" but pretending real furries would live a primitive sort of life, and ties in with my feelings at least for a man bisexuality can feel 'simple' and it's also to me the traditional way a fetish is supposed to be where it 'makes the person happy to think about even when it's not arousing' :p The part in quotations, I'm afraid many of the random online fetishes aren't like that :(

um could you maybe listen to this? :) I try to keep my music 'asexual' but I guess this one slipped through

http://www.furaffinity.net/view/27202599/

so like you can't see the icon too well

http://www.limelightstudios.co.uk/w.....ox-431x575.jpg

kind of shy looking fox maybe peeking out from a shield emblem (like academia :p and also the branches could be branches of academia as well? :p) So yeah the song title is a dumb sex joke but I think maybe I legitimately wanted to try a relationship with both a man and a woman in college :x Not necessarily /same time/ but just be open about it, and if people found out, don't care too much :x

did I even read 'jerusalem' subconsciously? Like a promised land? :x

i made a journal about I'm 'binary-biased', sorry :x but at this rate I might be open to anybody by tomorrow and that's ok with me :)

you might find 'Huehuecoyotl' interesting as far as orientation/gender stuff. It's basically furry stuff like how many hundred years ago haha :) supposed to be a yote and everything

hey only with your permission, but can I link this image/the comments for this forum thread just to try and un de-rail it, haha

http://forums.furaffinity.net/threa.....645955/page-10

Sure, go ahead.

BISEXUAL POWER!!!! :D
You have specials power now :D