
"Friday night: Party Night, date night, the start of the weekend. Whatever you want to call it. Every Friday night in the college district, everyone dresses up and goes out to enjoy themselves at bars, clubs, gatherings and party places. Now I'm getting dressed. Single and looking, I try to find the right outfit, but am I over dressed?
Sleeveless button up shirt: Its small and it shows my belly.
No bra so my breasts will push against the buttons upon my shirt. My cleavage will be natural.
An arm warmer on my left arm: Something to draw some attention to my torso.
Low rider pants: It hangs onto my hips, almost like they are about to slide down my body.
Thong panties: My low rider exposes them, giving a small sign that I want attention.
I have seen girls that wear much less. Some just wear a short dress and nothing else under it. Am I over dressed or should I expose more fur? What exactly do single guys on a Friday night look for in a girl physically?
Discuss? Is she over dressed or under dressed? What are your thoughts about woman's clothing and how that defines them?
Over Dressed © 2009 Alex Cockburn
Sleeveless button up shirt: Its small and it shows my belly.
No bra so my breasts will push against the buttons upon my shirt. My cleavage will be natural.
An arm warmer on my left arm: Something to draw some attention to my torso.
Low rider pants: It hangs onto my hips, almost like they are about to slide down my body.
Thong panties: My low rider exposes them, giving a small sign that I want attention.
I have seen girls that wear much less. Some just wear a short dress and nothing else under it. Am I over dressed or should I expose more fur? What exactly do single guys on a Friday night look for in a girl physically?
Discuss? Is she over dressed or under dressed? What are your thoughts about woman's clothing and how that defines them?
Over Dressed © 2009 Alex Cockburn
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"no you're great with what you feel like wearing, don't let the others tell you what to wear !"
that's what a casual person would say.
What a single man would tell her: "give me your vagina" if he really feels he is lonely. Just find some normal man good in his head and in his pants.
that's what a casual person would say.
What a single man would tell her: "give me your vagina" if he really feels he is lonely. Just find some normal man good in his head and in his pants.
That's an interesting question. I think that it's not quantifiable; the way she dresses expresses not just her tastes overall, but her mood at the time. I suppose it's a question of what she wants. If she wants to pick someone up on a physical basis, then the provocative elements are certainly a good choice. If she's looking for other things... Well, the possibilities are too numerous to really go into.
I know I sometimes dress in strange ways, but when one knows me, it makes sense. For instance, I may wear a pair of UV-reactive raver pants together with a flower-print Hawaiian shirt. Weird combination overall, but both make sense on me as an individual, and the moods they represent do fit together for me. So I think it's not a question of whether you're wearing appropriate clothing overall, but rather, of whether you're wearing clothing that expresses the mood that you wish to express.
I know I sometimes dress in strange ways, but when one knows me, it makes sense. For instance, I may wear a pair of UV-reactive raver pants together with a flower-print Hawaiian shirt. Weird combination overall, but both make sense on me as an individual, and the moods they represent do fit together for me. So I think it's not a question of whether you're wearing appropriate clothing overall, but rather, of whether you're wearing clothing that expresses the mood that you wish to express.
i think she's rather hot. i mean, think about it. if a lot of women are like that, then we've got a bit of a crisis. Those women would be trying too hard just to dress. anyways, it doesn't matter. what matters is that they should dress up whatever it is that they're comfortable with.
Im in college
No she is NOT over dressed. To be honest I personally think how skimpy some girls do dress while going out is just...bad. I discussed it once and my grandad made some comment like "thats not what you should be complaining about" but to be perfectly honest, it makes you look like a hussie. I think you should care more on looking good in general without overexposing. People should care about YOU not your looks. That doesnt mean you cant show off, but a lot of younger girls dress way to skimpily in public.
My thing with her dress in this picture is that that shirt is far too short. It should be like 50% longer. To be honest, she should wear whats comfy to her. Unless she is fishing for some one night stand, wear what you want, not what others want.
No she is NOT over dressed. To be honest I personally think how skimpy some girls do dress while going out is just...bad. I discussed it once and my grandad made some comment like "thats not what you should be complaining about" but to be perfectly honest, it makes you look like a hussie. I think you should care more on looking good in general without overexposing. People should care about YOU not your looks. That doesnt mean you cant show off, but a lot of younger girls dress way to skimpily in public.
My thing with her dress in this picture is that that shirt is far too short. It should be like 50% longer. To be honest, she should wear whats comfy to her. Unless she is fishing for some one night stand, wear what you want, not what others want.
She isn't overdressed at all. I actually think that people that "wear a short dress and nothing under it" like she sais do expose a bit too much. Having something more on is even more lovely when you're in search for something thrilling and misterious, leaving you the curiosity of "undressing" your loved one.
Females really have to put with with a horrible double standard in society, still.
You dress up to much, you're a prude, you dress too little, you're a slut.
I think the overdone or underdone is how it's presented in the details, and what kind of result she's looking to achieve.
The thong sticking up, the accessories that go with it that say "not an innocent girl" tie it all together, and those things project a more edgy image to anyone that might be looking.
If she's looking for Mr. Right Now, she'll probably find him with that kind of detail.
Mr. Right would probably see that and dismiss her.
As far as how much is covered, I think it's just right any way you project it. I tend to like to think i'm a wee bit more liberated then most people when it comes to how i think about things like this, and lord knows I do not dress like the average guy.
You dress up to much, you're a prude, you dress too little, you're a slut.
I think the overdone or underdone is how it's presented in the details, and what kind of result she's looking to achieve.
The thong sticking up, the accessories that go with it that say "not an innocent girl" tie it all together, and those things project a more edgy image to anyone that might be looking.
If she's looking for Mr. Right Now, she'll probably find him with that kind of detail.
Mr. Right would probably see that and dismiss her.
As far as how much is covered, I think it's just right any way you project it. I tend to like to think i'm a wee bit more liberated then most people when it comes to how i think about things like this, and lord knows I do not dress like the average guy.
"Single and looking"
But looking for what? The answer to that question determines if she is underdressed, overdressed, or dressed perfectly to achieve her goal. I would that she is dressed nicely if she is looking for a one night date, with a male she'd have encountered in a dance club. She is probably underdressed if she is looking for something more permanent, in my opinion.
That being said, dress codes varies upon cultures, gender, class, the location you are going, and a lot of other factors. So, it is quite hard to say.
But looking for what? The answer to that question determines if she is underdressed, overdressed, or dressed perfectly to achieve her goal. I would that she is dressed nicely if she is looking for a one night date, with a male she'd have encountered in a dance club. She is probably underdressed if she is looking for something more permanent, in my opinion.
That being said, dress codes varies upon cultures, gender, class, the location you are going, and a lot of other factors. So, it is quite hard to say.
I'm gonna agree And dis-agree. She is under dressed. Only in this modern world would such a half dressed Female be normal.
The tummy along with the shoulders should be covered. Only her neck and upper arms, arms and Her calves should be a visible feature for her to be clothed aproupriatly for Publick. Thats my point of view.
Keepa your flesh for yourself and your hubby :P.
But if your aiming to Flaunt it {At home} she is a tad bit over dressed...Lingery. I don't mind jeans but A girl should not be showing Cleavage or Tummy in Publick as far as I'm concerned. So she aint no ware close to being dressed conservatively.
But then again being a passife Douch, I wouldn't mind flirting with her dressed like that. Erg. I do agree With
http://www.furaffinity.net/user/nihulus/
On the shirt though.
Oh well. I hope that helps :)
<3 The Art Work Though, Keep it up. :D
The tummy along with the shoulders should be covered. Only her neck and upper arms, arms and Her calves should be a visible feature for her to be clothed aproupriatly for Publick. Thats my point of view.
Keepa your flesh for yourself and your hubby :P.
But if your aiming to Flaunt it {At home} she is a tad bit over dressed...Lingery. I don't mind jeans but A girl should not be showing Cleavage or Tummy in Publick as far as I'm concerned. So she aint no ware close to being dressed conservatively.
But then again being a passife Douch, I wouldn't mind flirting with her dressed like that. Erg. I do agree With
http://www.furaffinity.net/user/nihulus/
On the shirt though.
Oh well. I hope that helps :)
<3 The Art Work Though, Keep it up. :D
well to me it depends on if she wants a good man that would treat her nicely and help build a relationship with her in body and soul.
or if she just wants to be the girl guys flock to for a quickie and or see how much semen they can squirt on her sexually ravaged body weather she wanted it or not.
or if she just wants to be the girl guys flock to for a quickie and or see how much semen they can squirt on her sexually ravaged body weather she wanted it or not.
Looks fine... maybe a little self-conscious with the hair framing her face kinda dark, and the flattened ears.
The more a girl worries about what she looks like, the more it SHOWS that she worries about how she looks, and while I don't want someone who looks like they were dragged through an alley, my preference in a girl's appearance is casual, natural, little/no makeup, etc etc so that the real person shows through. Some people could say this girl's outfit is too revealing and it can show either 1) she's all about shock and turning heads, or the inverse, 2) she doesn't know how to gain the attention she wants so she does whatever she thinks will grant her any attention at all. But, as long as there are no neon colors :P I think she could pull it off if she still acted herself, but maintained a little self-confidence... or at least I'd talk to her anyway.
The more a girl worries about what she looks like, the more it SHOWS that she worries about how she looks, and while I don't want someone who looks like they were dragged through an alley, my preference in a girl's appearance is casual, natural, little/no makeup, etc etc so that the real person shows through. Some people could say this girl's outfit is too revealing and it can show either 1) she's all about shock and turning heads, or the inverse, 2) she doesn't know how to gain the attention she wants so she does whatever she thinks will grant her any attention at all. But, as long as there are no neon colors :P I think she could pull it off if she still acted herself, but maintained a little self-confidence... or at least I'd talk to her anyway.
I honestly think that in todays age to much skin is show. I wear layers when I go out. One for practical reasons, two for the asthetic value. I don't enjoy small amounts of clothing. I enjoy layers of clothing covering arms, stomach, legs, torso, and hips. Part for me is because it leaves much for the imagination. Its sort of like, if you see how your favorite foods get made, shipped, processed then something down the line will make it less appetising. I enjoy not knowing the color or texture of skin until I can touch it my self. Outside of that who would want to ruin the suprise. Humility, modisty, and self respect are forgotten by most in this day and time. I appriciate all those prelisted aspects of a personality.
Underdressed I think, bay a little... But then, that depends on her personality... her comfort zone, her feelings about herself and *why* she is dressing that way... does she just like it, does it feel good or natural? Is she doing it for the same reason some might put on a comfy t-shirt or baggy pants on their day off? Is she doing it because she likes dressing up (or down?)
Or is it purely to get that attention... to attract, to gain attention? And if so, what level of attention is she striving for? Sex? For the night, a week, a semester?
Or a relationship? Is she attracting the right kinds, or willing to weed through it all to find the right mate, is she dressed for the mate she wants... Would she be happy to dress that way for them for the rest of the night... a week... a month, a semester? Or would it be a chore, would she be showing too much/or little of herself, and always be feeling like she *wasn't* herself, just for that attention?
That is the real answer to the question in a way, aesthetically, she's beautiful, she could wear a little more, a little less... and most might agree, she's just fine... short of totally nude in public... the relm of fantasy, or wearing a parka and snow pants... one could imagine seeing a girl like her out and about, if not at a bar or party, than even at the supermarket or the mall...
What we see, when we see her, and judge her, or coax her to wear more, or less... Well, that's more complicated than 'over or under-dressed' , but one, big key, for me certainly, is weather she's happy with it... does she *like* it, if not... that shows, and will always be a factor on how attractive someone seems... if they're happy, it shows, and is attractive.
Or is it purely to get that attention... to attract, to gain attention? And if so, what level of attention is she striving for? Sex? For the night, a week, a semester?
Or a relationship? Is she attracting the right kinds, or willing to weed through it all to find the right mate, is she dressed for the mate she wants... Would she be happy to dress that way for them for the rest of the night... a week... a month, a semester? Or would it be a chore, would she be showing too much/or little of herself, and always be feeling like she *wasn't* herself, just for that attention?
That is the real answer to the question in a way, aesthetically, she's beautiful, she could wear a little more, a little less... and most might agree, she's just fine... short of totally nude in public... the relm of fantasy, or wearing a parka and snow pants... one could imagine seeing a girl like her out and about, if not at a bar or party, than even at the supermarket or the mall...
What we see, when we see her, and judge her, or coax her to wear more, or less... Well, that's more complicated than 'over or under-dressed' , but one, big key, for me certainly, is weather she's happy with it... does she *like* it, if not... that shows, and will always be a factor on how attractive someone seems... if they're happy, it shows, and is attractive.
I would love to leave a more substantial comment and answer your question and give reason to debate but i feel whatever i write will be rambly and nonsense. Sometimes the vanity and materialist world we live in can mean we are purely defined by what is seen on the outside. Surely this is not just about what one wears but how one is judged by what they were and how they look and how they are controlled by that fear of rejection or fear of judgment. Do i think that this is a problem of females dressing and males judging? no but i think that was still live in an incredibly sexist and chauvinistic society. there is a long way to go before it is even close to being equality but i do not think that the blame can solely be laid at the door or men. but anyway i have begun rambling what I really wanted to say was I think its great how you can draw a beautiful picture that can ask a complex question to which there is never just a simple answer and it can help to inspire debate so i just wanted to say well done for that :)
I have to say underdressed. I'd perfer a comfortable threadbare coat over exposed panties anyday.
Of course, I may be judging by how snuggleable people look there.
But also I like to see nice, solid garments as well, such as uniform style thingies and such.
But scant clothes... those provide a rather empty wall to hide behind, yes?
Of course, I may be judging by how snuggleable people look there.
But also I like to see nice, solid garments as well, such as uniform style thingies and such.
But scant clothes... those provide a rather empty wall to hide behind, yes?
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