
I would like to know what i should do or how or whatever you have to say or think of what i will talk you about..
I'm a 21 years old woman who had so bad experiences in life.
I first had a 1 year relationship to learned that he slept with a friend of mine a day when he was drunk.. he was sorry but idk couldn't pass over it.
I also had a longway relationship mostly looking like a catfish shit and the last one was a guy lying to get me to satify his sexual pulsion.
Actualy i don't know what to do i know a guy really sweet and everything seems mostly perfect (also in the fandom so dont have to expalin all the furry shit so just better). I meet him on fb maybe 2-3 years ago and with my experiences i hate using social network to communicate and can become really stressed for a simple question like ''you you like to come meet me'' and i just quit the conversation for a long time... weeks... months sometimes.
I don't know how to deal with that.. do i love him?..i it a good thing or i will be hurt again. I can play the strong woman but inside i'm lost and don't know where to go.. even had to take a break from college to calm down (already did a burnout so not taking risks)
I know you are not me but what would you do if you were me?
Anything would be amazing and maybe help me why not.
So now you know my struggle and can help you figure out the person behing the art.
Also for any questions as dumb or as intense as it can be it's the time xD
Sorry for that little vents and hope you a good night and way less struggles then me
I'm a 21 years old woman who had so bad experiences in life.
I first had a 1 year relationship to learned that he slept with a friend of mine a day when he was drunk.. he was sorry but idk couldn't pass over it.
I also had a longway relationship mostly looking like a catfish shit and the last one was a guy lying to get me to satify his sexual pulsion.
Actualy i don't know what to do i know a guy really sweet and everything seems mostly perfect (also in the fandom so dont have to expalin all the furry shit so just better). I meet him on fb maybe 2-3 years ago and with my experiences i hate using social network to communicate and can become really stressed for a simple question like ''you you like to come meet me'' and i just quit the conversation for a long time... weeks... months sometimes.
I don't know how to deal with that.. do i love him?..i it a good thing or i will be hurt again. I can play the strong woman but inside i'm lost and don't know where to go.. even had to take a break from college to calm down (already did a burnout so not taking risks)
I know you are not me but what would you do if you were me?
Anything would be amazing and maybe help me why not.
So now you know my struggle and can help you figure out the person behing the art.
Also for any questions as dumb or as intense as it can be it's the time xD
Sorry for that little vents and hope you a good night and way less struggles then me
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Well the real question you need to ask yourself is if you’re mentally prepared to have another person with you emotionally. I’ve had an S/O that i had for over 3 years but the relationship became toxic to me.
And if you’re answer to this is even a studder of no, i would say wait until you feel emotionally prepared to have another s/o in your life. Of course keep them as a friend and such, but you have to be ready yourself to make such a commitment, you know?
Sorry, i really empathize with you and I want to help, even if we’ve never like, ever talked :)
And if you’re answer to this is even a studder of no, i would say wait until you feel emotionally prepared to have another s/o in your life. Of course keep them as a friend and such, but you have to be ready yourself to make such a commitment, you know?
Sorry, i really empathize with you and I want to help, even if we’ve never like, ever talked :)
Thats one solid piece of advise
In my opinion you should indeed listen to both your hart and brains
Dont take risks or do something to harsh that could break things even more
Believe me i ve def had my piece of shit in life as well and can relate a lot
But stay positive and strong
I wished i could help you
If you ever feel the need to talk or have a listening ear ill be there ok 😉
I love this artpiece 😁
I wish you the best of luck whatever may happen ok 😉
As long as you yourself are happy and healthy
Thats the most important thing ☺
In my opinion you should indeed listen to both your hart and brains
Dont take risks or do something to harsh that could break things even more
Believe me i ve def had my piece of shit in life as well and can relate a lot
But stay positive and strong
I wished i could help you
If you ever feel the need to talk or have a listening ear ill be there ok 😉
I love this artpiece 😁
I wish you the best of luck whatever may happen ok 😉
As long as you yourself are happy and healthy
Thats the most important thing ☺
I think you shouldn't feel forced to think about him as a boyfriend.
I mean, you had a lot of trouble with your past relationships, maybe you should start with just a strong friendship with him. Don't be afraid to talk, write and anything...Only knowing him better will allow you to discover if he's the right one or just another trap.
Even see each other would be a good thing to do before sarting a relationship.
Maybe the best way to know a person better is to know his friends too, and see who are they and how they consider him.
Sorry, my english is not the best, but I wanted to try to help.
Wish you the best, and very nice art!
I mean, you had a lot of trouble with your past relationships, maybe you should start with just a strong friendship with him. Don't be afraid to talk, write and anything...Only knowing him better will allow you to discover if he's the right one or just another trap.
Even see each other would be a good thing to do before sarting a relationship.
Maybe the best way to know a person better is to know his friends too, and see who are they and how they consider him.
Sorry, my english is not the best, but I wanted to try to help.
Wish you the best, and very nice art!
The hard thing is that he's really far from me (like hours airplane trip) and everytime i talk to him it always end up being ''when will you come'' or ''you want me to come'' even if i do my best to talk about general stuff or learn more about him! thanks for your help and your english is just fine (i'm french canadian so i know you struggle xd)
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