This illustration is all about fettishes that people view as destructive. You can tell people that what they're doing is destructive all you like, but that's not going to change their mind. Chances are they already know but the fettish makes them happy.

People know their "destructive" fettishes more than they know the soundness of your perspective, and if the intent is to help the person, maybe it's better to take the time to empathize.

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