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I almost cried clicking this. I grew up in a home like this and every time they argued they would yell so I would run and hide somewhere trying to not hear it because I was scared. I would question dying to escape it and I grew up praying for it to stop every day. It never did.
I grew up like this as well. Everything was good when I was a kid, but things got more and more complicated as time passed. They started fighting more and more and after my brother was born everything went downhill. There was this one time where the fighting was so bad my mother went out in the streets yelling like a mad person with my dad after her while I stayed behind crying. And there's the thing, they loved people to watch their fights, maybe so that they'd pick their side. It was crazy.. Nowadays, they fight less, but it still happens from time to time.
I feel you.
I grew up in a family like this.
And it's really hard to come to terms with it when they start acting like it's your fault.
When I was small my parents would constantly use me for their fights, from leaving me abandoned on a random street, inside a car, faking suicide on my mom's part or constant physical abuse from my dad.
I endured 10+ years of this with them, they stopped and calmed down when my brothers got older and started having their own life, I was still depending on them as a 16 year old usually does.
They started demanding trust, and for me to love them, it was understandable for a parent to want affection from their child. But considering how mentally scarred I was with all the things they involved me with when I was younger, I just couldn't.
To this day, they still question why I'm not close to them "like a family should be", and that "it's just a phase".
I can thank them for two things though, I learned how to take care after myself since an early age, and also I can thank them for my crippling anxiety.
Stay strong ♥, you're not obligated to have a relationship with toxic people, no matter if it's family or friends
I grew up in a family like this.
And it's really hard to come to terms with it when they start acting like it's your fault.
When I was small my parents would constantly use me for their fights, from leaving me abandoned on a random street, inside a car, faking suicide on my mom's part or constant physical abuse from my dad.
I endured 10+ years of this with them, they stopped and calmed down when my brothers got older and started having their own life, I was still depending on them as a 16 year old usually does.
They started demanding trust, and for me to love them, it was understandable for a parent to want affection from their child. But considering how mentally scarred I was with all the things they involved me with when I was younger, I just couldn't.
To this day, they still question why I'm not close to them "like a family should be", and that "it's just a phase".
I can thank them for two things though, I learned how to take care after myself since an early age, and also I can thank them for my crippling anxiety.
Stay strong ♥, you're not obligated to have a relationship with toxic people, no matter if it's family or friends
I feel you, my childhood was kinda the same. When I was young, my dad used his belt as a whip to hit me with, and when I became a teenager, it was worse.
I was smacked by my wooden katana, and it broke, causing the sharp edges to cut me, I was slapped in the face, and he yells at me for no reason.
He once threatened to get rid of all of my stuff and valuables in my room, when I ask him for something, he laughs at me and my requests, he never listens to me, and he called a cop on me when I was telling him many times to wear his seatbelt because he never does.
Not too long ago, I was doing something of my own, and my dad interfered. I told him to mind his own business and leave me alone, because that’s what he needs to do. Before we got home, he told me that his way of solving problems is to not take me anywhere fun anymore, and I told him that that’s not right. When we got home, I tried to tell him, “I don’t get in your business all the time, you should do the same.” Every time I tried to tell him that, he shushed me.
The way he treats me is affecting my life, and I’m starting to turn more into him than I’m turning into my innocent self. I can’t deal with it anymore
I was smacked by my wooden katana, and it broke, causing the sharp edges to cut me, I was slapped in the face, and he yells at me for no reason.
He once threatened to get rid of all of my stuff and valuables in my room, when I ask him for something, he laughs at me and my requests, he never listens to me, and he called a cop on me when I was telling him many times to wear his seatbelt because he never does.
Not too long ago, I was doing something of my own, and my dad interfered. I told him to mind his own business and leave me alone, because that’s what he needs to do. Before we got home, he told me that his way of solving problems is to not take me anywhere fun anymore, and I told him that that’s not right. When we got home, I tried to tell him, “I don’t get in your business all the time, you should do the same.” Every time I tried to tell him that, he shushed me.
The way he treats me is affecting my life, and I’m starting to turn more into him than I’m turning into my innocent self. I can’t deal with it anymore
I have a Broken Family This Year, 3 mouths ago my Dad Vanished me and my mom out of my home Village & my house my mom and i live in my Grandma's * my Grandpa's House about 8 days and i started a new life My mom Founded a Rental apartment for me and my mother to stay we buy alot of food and More Things we need i was sad and i lost trust of my Dad My mom Fell out of love from my Father, i also have a Sister she is living with my Dad i would never see my sister again in person but i can still see her in Facebook.
Well my new life just started. :(
Well my new life just started. :(
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