
Wanted to do something for Pride month, even if it's only a little sketchy thing. So, happy pride!
Haven't ever really felt super comfortable participating since i'm not gay or trans, but there's a niche for me too and i shouldn't feel excluded...
Personal stuff aside, here's a sketch of Equustra enjoying a sit.
In the shade outside, out of the direct sunlight but enjoying the sunkissed breeze on a day where the temperature is just right. Sounds so nice ;___;
Yesterday was pretty much just like that and it was wonderful
Haven't ever really felt super comfortable participating since i'm not gay or trans, but there's a niche for me too and i shouldn't feel excluded...
Personal stuff aside, here's a sketch of Equustra enjoying a sit.
In the shade outside, out of the direct sunlight but enjoying the sunkissed breeze on a day where the temperature is just right. Sounds so nice ;___;
Yesterday was pretty much just like that and it was wonderful
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Hey, yo, you don’t gotta be gay or trans to be considered LGBT. If you’re Ace you belong just as much, these sorts of orientations have existed for a long while and those who try to act as if asexual and/or aromatic people aren’t LGBT are forgetting history and are simply doing what they had to fight against so many years ago and still do (aka exclusion and what-not)
Of course, you’re free to participate however you feel comfortable doing!
Of course, you’re free to participate however you feel comfortable doing!
can honestly say I've never felt part of the LGBT community
sort of tired of the automatic dismissal of my personal needs, and the derision I've had over the years. Also a lot of prejudice from both the straight and LGBT communities because 'I just don't feel the need' they can't classify me as straight or gay, since i'm not really either. not trans of any sort. 'you don't belong here' and 'there is something wrong with you' is the usual comments.
It is not that I don't like men or women. Or like them. In my case, I just don't particularly care.
sort of tired of the automatic dismissal of my personal needs, and the derision I've had over the years. Also a lot of prejudice from both the straight and LGBT communities because 'I just don't feel the need' they can't classify me as straight or gay, since i'm not really either. not trans of any sort. 'you don't belong here' and 'there is something wrong with you' is the usual comments.
It is not that I don't like men or women. Or like them. In my case, I just don't particularly care.
well. it gets worse when people find out I have children. I can get interested. but it's more of a mental and emotional trigger than a sensual or erotic one. Porn does nothing for me. I find both men and women pleasant to look at. I just don't find them desirable. I have my own personal likes and whatnot. to be fair, at 47 i have had three lovers, only one of which was initially attractive to my eyes.
I guess 'I'm not horny' does not make sense to a lot of people. When a lover asks me if I want to, and i say yes. It is because I want to please them. and I am willing to please them. I also like the closeness, the feeling of sharing myself with someone in an intimate way. Yes, eventually I do get aroused and enjoy myself. I just don't seek it out for myself unless I have an emotional need for closeness.
My parents for years thought i was simply homosexual or trans and not willing to 'come out'. They just didn't understand that 'I don't care' was a valid answer.
I guess 'I'm not horny' does not make sense to a lot of people. When a lover asks me if I want to, and i say yes. It is because I want to please them. and I am willing to please them. I also like the closeness, the feeling of sharing myself with someone in an intimate way. Yes, eventually I do get aroused and enjoy myself. I just don't seek it out for myself unless I have an emotional need for closeness.
My parents for years thought i was simply homosexual or trans and not willing to 'come out'. They just didn't understand that 'I don't care' was a valid answer.
You just described everything exactly how I feel :O
I draw nudity because I think anatomy is a fascinating subject, the times art gets a bit more spicy is due to my clients asking or when I need something that will sell faster :P. But none of the spicy subjects work on me per se.
It is probably the first time I talk with someone who thinks the way I do ^^;.
It is so awesome to know there are people out there who operate in similar frequencies ^.^
Best wishes and shine bright!
I draw nudity because I think anatomy is a fascinating subject, the times art gets a bit more spicy is due to my clients asking or when I need something that will sell faster :P. But none of the spicy subjects work on me per se.
It is probably the first time I talk with someone who thinks the way I do ^^;.
It is so awesome to know there are people out there who operate in similar frequencies ^.^
Best wishes and shine bright!
oh, anatomy is amazing. I use anatomy any time I drew something back when i was in high school. Had a talent for it too, I was able to draw anyone nude, and get their details pretty damn close to RL. can't see birthmarks, moles and intimate tatts, but you know... close.
I find anatomy fascinating. especially anthro anatomy and hybridization.
The only thing i've ever had a trouble drawing is horses for some reason. Always makes me shake my head.
I find anatomy fascinating. especially anthro anatomy and hybridization.
The only thing i've ever had a trouble drawing is horses for some reason. Always makes me shake my head.
If only more people would think like this. It is devastating when you are in a group of people and they suddenly start planning how they "will fix you" and by which means. It is hard to feel any belonging in such conditions. Standing alone and being discreet are usually the ways to avoid trouble =(.
This is one of the things people usually say. From my personal experience, I had people forcing me to watch porn, offering to "give me a good time", a kidnap attempt to a brothel/stripclub, an attempt to make me date someone they rest assured would "heal me from my problem", not to say the high levels of mockery. I read about some extreme cases of what people call "corrective rape", and it makes me hella scared.
Nowadays I just pretend I am into whatever leudness people throw on me so their "corrective" behaviour won't be triggered, but still it is something I'd rather not have to do =(.
Nowadays I just pretend I am into whatever leudness people throw on me so their "corrective" behaviour won't be triggered, but still it is something I'd rather not have to do =(.
Yeah, I don't understand why some people get so interested on changing those different from them. What is the point? And which kind of reward one would get from it? All that happens is me avoiding those with this behaviour or being more polished and less friendly. People online at least here seems more accepting but on the daily grind all I expect is the meanies to do their thing =(.
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