(this here is a post i made on twitter! This took place on the final day)
To CeresHoss a gift to Shuly that made this moment special for me, it touched m heart so much, that i had to draw it. Thank you for telling me what i needed to hear. i am a good girl... i love you 🧡
It really sucks when you have to leave, to hide who you truly are at home among humans that will treat you differently because of your heart and true form. so thanks to everyone who left a comment on twitter, i thought i would share here on FA as well!
Butterscotch (me)©herself
Ealana©herself
Art by Gill Panda
To CeresHoss a gift to Shuly that made this moment special for me, it touched m heart so much, that i had to draw it. Thank you for telling me what i needed to hear. i am a good girl... i love you 🧡
It really sucks when you have to leave, to hide who you truly are at home among humans that will treat you differently because of your heart and true form. so thanks to everyone who left a comment on twitter, i thought i would share here on FA as well!
Butterscotch (me)©herself
Ealana©herself
Art by Gill Panda
Category Artwork (Digital) / Fat Furs
Species Canine (Other)
Size 1280 x 1222px
File Size 1.41 MB
Such a sweet and tender moment. A very well done peace that captures the emotions of the moment perfectly.
As I said on twitter this hits close to home. Reminds me I'm not the only one who sometimes needs others to say words like that. We're all here for each other and sometimes all one needs is just to hear the right words.
As I said on twitter this hits close to home. Reminds me I'm not the only one who sometimes needs others to say words like that. We're all here for each other and sometimes all one needs is just to hear the right words.
I have no words 4 how incredible this is. In more ways then 1. And, having a scarred heart, I can understand that being with others who actually care about u can really make a world of difference.
So I work hard 2 help others, by giving compliments, encouragement, telling jokes and more. Anything 2 make others' day just a little brighter.
So I work hard 2 help others, by giving compliments, encouragement, telling jokes and more. Anything 2 make others' day just a little brighter.
How beautiful and wonderful! You have lots of people who have your back, and your feelings are very valid!
I’m also geeking out a little bit, because I didn’t know you were Butterscotch, and I have an adorable picture of you, myself, and Keggy and MFF! I’d be happy to forward them to you if you’d like! ^.^
I’m also geeking out a little bit, because I didn’t know you were Butterscotch, and I have an adorable picture of you, myself, and Keggy and MFF! I’d be happy to forward them to you if you’d like! ^.^
I've been on HRT for over 2 years, and I still hide myself from the world.
It isn't just of what other people might say or do, but I also just have a hard time accepting myself.
But it certainly helps, even just a little, to have people like this that support you in life.
Beautiful pic, Gilly ~
It isn't just of what other people might say or do, but I also just have a hard time accepting myself.
But it certainly helps, even just a little, to have people like this that support you in life.
Beautiful pic, Gilly ~
I like this a lot, great subject
Yet, this incident last year is still in my head when I got told I would hurt transpeople just by changing a characters sex, because I felt being herm just didn't feel right for that character anymore. Also, I should watch my mouth, otherwise I would be another JasonAfex, which was delivered in the manner of a threat or insult.
Now I know all of this this isn't about me, but it sucks so bad that the first conscious interaction with a transperson I had had to go like this. I catch myself automatically assuming that probably all of these folks are intolerant people shoving some agenda down my throat that I have no affiliation with.
Probably just the loud minority even normal transpeople dislike, but it poisened the well for me and them and now I have to fight a growing bias that I never wanted to have in the first place, which sucks again, because it would be easier to get over with if I had contact with an actual transperson, but I don't...
Yet, this incident last year is still in my head when I got told I would hurt transpeople just by changing a characters sex, because I felt being herm just didn't feel right for that character anymore. Also, I should watch my mouth, otherwise I would be another JasonAfex, which was delivered in the manner of a threat or insult.
Now I know all of this this isn't about me, but it sucks so bad that the first conscious interaction with a transperson I had had to go like this. I catch myself automatically assuming that probably all of these folks are intolerant people shoving some agenda down my throat that I have no affiliation with.
Probably just the loud minority even normal transpeople dislike, but it poisened the well for me and them and now I have to fight a growing bias that I never wanted to have in the first place, which sucks again, because it would be easier to get over with if I had contact with an actual transperson, but I don't...
Drawing and painting a whole image about a moment the artist considers extremely touching is not well described by "just mentioning being trans". All I did was sharing my only expierence with a person I definitely knew was trans (who presumed to speak for all transpeople, apparently) and nope, hurt feelings weren't part of the equasion, but the mere fact that you brought that up to me reveals what sphere you dwell in ~ have a nice day.
I never said "transpeople don't like me".
I suggest you take your edgyness somewhere else since it is very unfitting, ESPECIALLY with you not writing something nice for Gill's work first, but instead trying to pour oil into a non-existing fire.
I also want to add that you are the third person now who doesn't seem to read or understand what I actually say.
T.F. Write, who is a real-life pro trans activist told me this "oh, sorry to hear that, that was an unfortunate thing to happen".
That was the best answer one can give and I honestly find it baffling what you seem to take away from what I initially wrote, prompting your reply.
I suggest you take your edgyness somewhere else since it is very unfitting, ESPECIALLY with you not writing something nice for Gill's work first, but instead trying to pour oil into a non-existing fire.
I also want to add that you are the third person now who doesn't seem to read or understand what I actually say.
T.F. Write, who is a real-life pro trans activist told me this "oh, sorry to hear that, that was an unfortunate thing to happen".
That was the best answer one can give and I honestly find it baffling what you seem to take away from what I initially wrote, prompting your reply.
If they liked you before, they sure don’t now LOL
The point is your comment was completely rude, unnecessary, and whether you intended it to or not (which isn’t something you get to decide), it’s designed to make the OP and other trans folks reading your sob story feel guilty when nobody asked for your commentary in the first place
also I commented on twitter already but nice try
The point is your comment was completely rude, unnecessary, and whether you intended it to or not (which isn’t something you get to decide), it’s designed to make the OP and other trans folks reading your sob story feel guilty when nobody asked for your commentary in the first place
also I commented on twitter already but nice try
The majority of this comment is bringing unnecessary, anti-trans baggage into a trans person's mentions. The facts are that you're not even listening to people who are trying to tell you how tonedeaf you're being, rather, you're chalking it up to "loud transpeople." You don't actually care enough to at least consider the criticism you're being handed, or understand the insulting nature of your actions which cause frustrated reactions to your words.
If you would like to be liked by trans people:
1: Don't make a woe-is-me story about trans people, especially not in an emotional piece like this. Wrong forum, bud.
2: "Trans people," not "transpeople."
3: Refrain from using "Herm," its dehumanizing and fetishism of trans people and serves to piss us off before youve even made a point.
If you would like to be liked by trans people:
1: Don't make a woe-is-me story about trans people, especially not in an emotional piece like this. Wrong forum, bud.
2: "Trans people," not "transpeople."
3: Refrain from using "Herm," its dehumanizing and fetishism of trans people and serves to piss us off before youve even made a point.
This may not be as hopeful as I want it to sound but, here goes. As someone who hasn’t really experienced a whole lot since admitting my own gender, I’m sure that I will go through something like this myself, along with countless others. And although I may not know what to say for your particular situation, I hope that one day you’ll be able to love yourself as who you are and who you want to be. No matter who you are currently, I want you to know that you are beautiful. I think you are strong for showing us this. Those first baby steps were and are still hard for me, I can only imagine this forced you to be stronger than you have to be. You’ve been an inspiration to what I could be, as an artist, and as a person, and I think it sucks ass that you have to go through this. So stay beautiful, stay happy, and I hope you have a Merry Christmas Gill.
This made me smile as much as it made me cry. I feel like I also have to hide, like I can't even take steps towards my goal because I can't even afford it. It's... pretty crushing...
I can only imagine how you must've felt. I don't know you so well, I just know you as the mama panda who's a really talented artist. And hearing you had a moment like this, one that was something you needed to have made me smile for a moment when I was feeling down.
I can only imagine how you must've felt. I don't know you so well, I just know you as the mama panda who's a really talented artist. And hearing you had a moment like this, one that was something you needed to have made me smile for a moment when I was feeling down.
My mate has been going through similar for most of his life and I'm Soo happy to call him my husband! My best friend from highschool is going through the same along side is and I'm proud to call her my sister! There are times when they feel like they should hide or be afraid to be who they are and I will always be there to stand for them no matter what!
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