This is long overdue but I’ve felt so nervous about this so I waited and waited and waited ;; all my life, I never knew who I was or who ppl wanted ME to be. I never quite got the hang of being myself because I thought ‘myself’ wasn’t something everyone wanted me to be. I changed myself to fit or match everyone else’s personalities, their likes/dislikes, etc. in hopes that it’ll help them like me more. I’ve always struggled with my identity, including my gender identity. You’ve all seen me call myself many things (genderfluid, trans, non-binary, etc.) but now, the labels don’t matter as much to me...so, with that having been said, you may refer to me with any pronouns you’d like. She/her, he/him, they/them, whatever you’d like. I’m trying so hard to just find ‘myself’ and be whoever I wanna be, whoever I’m meant to be. I’ve struggled so long with being MYSELF because I always tried to mold myself into being who I thought ppl wanted me to be (my family, my friends, etc.). I wanted to be the perfect daughter, the perfect employee, the perfect student, the perfect artist, everything...but I just wanna be...me. I still would like ya’ll to call me Benji, it’s still a sentimental name to me ;; <3 Thank you for reading (also the outfit Benji is wearing here is from a drawing my friend offbrandsalt *on Instagram* gifted me)!!