
It's been a while since I've done a vent piece, 4 years I think?
I've been feeling really down since yesterday. A lot of little things snowballed into some icky feelings.
A lot of my early memories are of being told I can't do or like something because I'm a girl. Usually it doesn't bother me but a few incidents this week just kind of set me off. It's such a silly thing to be upset about. It just kind of comes with the territory of constantly being in male dominated hobbies and careers. I think with everything going on with the pandemic my brain just can't move on. :/ I'm hoping this little drawing and venting about it on FA will help.
Lots of hugs to everyone also not doing so well right now. I know I'm not the only one. Pawl says hi too.
I've been feeling really down since yesterday. A lot of little things snowballed into some icky feelings.
A lot of my early memories are of being told I can't do or like something because I'm a girl. Usually it doesn't bother me but a few incidents this week just kind of set me off. It's such a silly thing to be upset about. It just kind of comes with the territory of constantly being in male dominated hobbies and careers. I think with everything going on with the pandemic my brain just can't move on. :/ I'm hoping this little drawing and venting about it on FA will help.
Lots of hugs to everyone also not doing so well right now. I know I'm not the only one. Pawl says hi too.
Category Artwork (Digital) / Baby fur
Species Bear (Other)
Size 664 x 913px
File Size 257.7 kB
First, I want to say sorry that you are feeling down and I hope that you will feel better soon. I will be cheering and supporting for you!
Second, this drawing is too adorable and emotional, Blankit! I really love Kitty's cute purple dress, cute Pawl, how Kitty is holding Pawl, Kitty's shiny and crying purple eyes the best!
I just want to let you know that you can do anything that you put your mind into, even if you are doing "male dominated hobbies/jobs". Seriously, I mean this from the bottom of my husky heart that you are one of the nicest, most creative, and most talented artist ever! Seeing your art always makes me smile and my day a whole lot better! I really needed this. This drawing made my day! You should be really proud of yourself.
Your drawings always brings me so much happiness and joy and a lot of inspiration for making age regression and littlefur type stories. You are a really talented artist and a good friend and I am so fortunate and proud to call you my friend. I hope that this helps, Blankit and feel free to talk anytime. Have a good day! Also, hi Pawl! I believe that you can honestly do anything that you put your heart and soul in, Blankit! ^ ^
Second, this drawing is too adorable and emotional, Blankit! I really love Kitty's cute purple dress, cute Pawl, how Kitty is holding Pawl, Kitty's shiny and crying purple eyes the best!
I just want to let you know that you can do anything that you put your mind into, even if you are doing "male dominated hobbies/jobs". Seriously, I mean this from the bottom of my husky heart that you are one of the nicest, most creative, and most talented artist ever! Seeing your art always makes me smile and my day a whole lot better! I really needed this. This drawing made my day! You should be really proud of yourself.
Your drawings always brings me so much happiness and joy and a lot of inspiration for making age regression and littlefur type stories. You are a really talented artist and a good friend and I am so fortunate and proud to call you my friend. I hope that this helps, Blankit and feel free to talk anytime. Have a good day! Also, hi Pawl! I believe that you can honestly do anything that you put your heart and soul in, Blankit! ^ ^
Thank you very much, Austin. I am so lucky to have so many friends cheering me on! It is very rare that I feel this way since I do have so many wonderful people supporting me. Your comment certainly cheered me up a little.
Pawl says hi back. At least, I think he did. I don’t speak plushie very well.
Pawl says hi back. At least, I think he did. I don’t speak plushie very well.
NP, my super nice and talented bear friend. I am so glad that I can help you out a little. Keep up the super phenomenal job as always!
I don't speak plushie very well, not unless I magically get transform into a baby by someone booping my nose or if I get transform into a plushie..... Kitty might help me to talk to plushies, lol, jk. ^ ^
I don't speak plushie very well, not unless I magically get transform into a baby by someone booping my nose or if I get transform into a plushie..... Kitty might help me to talk to plushies, lol, jk. ^ ^
Offers a hug
You can do and like anything you want. You don't have to please or listen to anyone else's opinions.
The person that matters most is you and your feelings and if people cant accept that then you dont need them in your life.
I'm wishing you well and I hope you feel better once this all blows over.
You can do and like anything you want. You don't have to please or listen to anyone else's opinions.
The person that matters most is you and your feelings and if people cant accept that then you dont need them in your life.
I'm wishing you well and I hope you feel better once this all blows over.
Yeah I can imagine -.-
Never understood the labels of boys only or girls only (aside from locker rooms maybe)
But it's a good thing it never stopped you from doing your thing, even if it costs more power to do so.
Forgot to attach the link, but yeah.. here's the Sammy link: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/17991399/
Never understood the labels of boys only or girls only (aside from locker rooms maybe)
But it's a good thing it never stopped you from doing your thing, even if it costs more power to do so.
Forgot to attach the link, but yeah.. here's the Sammy link: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/17991399/
I’d be lying if I said Twitter wasn’t a big part of it, but it’s really just not worth saying anything about it on there. It will turn into a few supportive tweets and nothing will change *shrug* Some IRL stuff has been bugging me recently too. I’m feeling a lot better now though!
Aw Blankit.... I love your presence in the community! I can’t help but stop and write back!!
Those feelings are real and valid. It’s okay to sit with those emotions, it’s human. I’m sorry that you have had/ have to deal with that... I can resonate with what you’ve wrote because a lot of my earlier days i couldn’t do things because it wasn’t ‘manly’ enough. I’ve also been affected heavily by the sexism and toxic masculinity, but know that it doesn’t diminish the shining bright star you can be. Keep going, we’re rooting for you! Lots of love!
Polar pup pen pal,
Bwuu
Those feelings are real and valid. It’s okay to sit with those emotions, it’s human. I’m sorry that you have had/ have to deal with that... I can resonate with what you’ve wrote because a lot of my earlier days i couldn’t do things because it wasn’t ‘manly’ enough. I’ve also been affected heavily by the sexism and toxic masculinity, but know that it doesn’t diminish the shining bright star you can be. Keep going, we’re rooting for you! Lots of love!
Polar pup pen pal,
Bwuu
Thank you Bwuu!!
It just stinks all around honestly. I know many of my male friends who have really suffered from society's expectations on them as well. I think it's slowly getting better, hopefully kids these days have a much easier time then we did. Maybe that's why, as adults, we just all want to be happy babies together X3
It just stinks all around honestly. I know many of my male friends who have really suffered from society's expectations on them as well. I think it's slowly getting better, hopefully kids these days have a much easier time then we did. Maybe that's why, as adults, we just all want to be happy babies together X3
don't feel bad that you might have feelings that get hurt more easily!! i do too, and i don't think it's anything to be ashamed / embarrassed about. i think its better to experience and process your emotions rather than bottling them up!!
keep doing your best, and don't let anyone stop you from doing what you love!!
keep doing your best, and don't let anyone stop you from doing what you love!!
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