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Hi, i may not know anybody here but i'm certain to talk for everyone to say we share the pain and send condolences. It surely is a hard and painful time and we all wish to offer support. We are really sorry for your loss and we can only hope and pray you will get better. Sincere condolences.
It's one thing to know of someone who took their own life. It's another if it's someone you know. I lost a friend to that a week ago and the effects are far from over. This applies to us both mentally and physically. I feel your pain and I'm feel awful that you have to go through this. May we both go through these trying times with strength and resolve. It's what they would have wanted.
Holy shit... I feel for you, I lost my childhood best friend for life to suicide. Nothing is more painful and confusing... I can see you already have tons of support but, nothing will truly help ease your mind aside from time... I really really cant send my condolences enough...
I hate to hear of these things... I hope you can find peace with it, as impossible as that sounds..
I hate to hear of these things... I hope you can find peace with it, as impossible as that sounds..
Hey guy, Lily is going to tell you something really important:
Fuck you. People like you are the reason people feel like shit about themselves everyday. This is why a lot of people don't care to bother with religion (Buddhism is cool, the dalai lama's writings got me through a rough patch, but nothing really religious about it more just how he dealt with losing his home after I lost mine) , and I can tell you that as someone who's entire childhood was spent getting beat up because I wasn't religious. Let me be very clear with you. When someone is grieving and you come here telling them how shitty the person they loved was, that doesn't make you the good guy. Personally I don't believe in any religion, and I don't speak for Pandora. However, if there is a hell I can tell you where you deserve to be right now. Someone this community cared about passed away because of circumstances that frankly are none of your fucking business. They're barely my business, but frankly I'm not the absolute shit bag who decides that i'm going to go prey on vulnerable people who just lost the most important person in their life and are having difficulty themselves. You're not a fucking savior, you're the Westboro Baptist church showing up at someone's funeral in protest. You are scum of the earth, and if there is a heaven Jesus would sooner spit in your face than let you in with this shitty behavior. I am truly sorry for your grandmother, but I want you to ask yourself "What if someone showed up at my grandmother's funeral and just said what I said?". You are the worst of what humanity has to offer. I hope you realize that and grow from this verbal beating. Sorry I didn't use a bunch of emojis, I'm not a boomer on facebook.
Fuck you. People like you are the reason people feel like shit about themselves everyday. This is why a lot of people don't care to bother with religion (Buddhism is cool, the dalai lama's writings got me through a rough patch, but nothing really religious about it more just how he dealt with losing his home after I lost mine) , and I can tell you that as someone who's entire childhood was spent getting beat up because I wasn't religious. Let me be very clear with you. When someone is grieving and you come here telling them how shitty the person they loved was, that doesn't make you the good guy. Personally I don't believe in any religion, and I don't speak for Pandora. However, if there is a hell I can tell you where you deserve to be right now. Someone this community cared about passed away because of circumstances that frankly are none of your fucking business. They're barely my business, but frankly I'm not the absolute shit bag who decides that i'm going to go prey on vulnerable people who just lost the most important person in their life and are having difficulty themselves. You're not a fucking savior, you're the Westboro Baptist church showing up at someone's funeral in protest. You are scum of the earth, and if there is a heaven Jesus would sooner spit in your face than let you in with this shitty behavior. I am truly sorry for your grandmother, but I want you to ask yourself "What if someone showed up at my grandmother's funeral and just said what I said?". You are the worst of what humanity has to offer. I hope you realize that and grow from this verbal beating. Sorry I didn't use a bunch of emojis, I'm not a boomer on facebook.
Oh and by the way, just a small parting shot:
If you want to get someone to believe in something, it's probably not best to do it in the way that makes you look both like and worst people alive and a selfish asshole. Nobody ever gets converted like this. Also Christianity is built on the concept of jesus forgiving people who believe in him for their sins, so it doesn't matter if someone committed a sin in your religion as long as they accepted Christ into their life when they were alive. Now that brings up the stupid idea that Christian's never sin, and the no true scottsman nonsense, but frankly everyone lies and everyone engages in wrathful and selfish behavior, and this is especially true of most of the Christian's I've met who believe as long as they believe in god they can pull stupid shit like this. So if that's your point about how one sin sends you to hell I want you to think of every time you've fucked up in your life, and trust me you're like 15 or whatever so you've almost certainly done something you shouldn't, and get back to me on how good of a person you are. You're not helping yourself, you're just making yourself look like the worst person you possibly can.
Also most of my friends and a lot of the littlefur community are LGBTQIA+, and christianity isn't big around that either, so I don't think you're going to change anyone's mind with this bullshit especially those of us who are LGBT who probably have hard it 1000 times in a 1000 ways by people who are not only better talkers than you but better people than you. Most of us find these communities because dick heads like you won't leave us alone.
In conclusion: You are insignificant in the grand scheme of things. Even if your religion is true you are one of trillions, a log scale so large that the brain actually is not able to picture it. The universe is vast and expansive and your existence inside it is mere seconds on a cosmic time scale. Many of us search for meaning in it, or comfort, or the closest thing we can get to it. You've spent your time harassing someone who found that and lost it. The mere moments of your existence have been used to hurt others, and it sickens me. Your existence, however improbable, remarkable and fleeting has been used to hurt someone who was already hurting. I hope you realize that and think about how that would have hurt you.
I hope you're happy now, but realize that that happiness is parasitic.
If you want to get someone to believe in something, it's probably not best to do it in the way that makes you look both like and worst people alive and a selfish asshole. Nobody ever gets converted like this. Also Christianity is built on the concept of jesus forgiving people who believe in him for their sins, so it doesn't matter if someone committed a sin in your religion as long as they accepted Christ into their life when they were alive. Now that brings up the stupid idea that Christian's never sin, and the no true scottsman nonsense, but frankly everyone lies and everyone engages in wrathful and selfish behavior, and this is especially true of most of the Christian's I've met who believe as long as they believe in god they can pull stupid shit like this. So if that's your point about how one sin sends you to hell I want you to think of every time you've fucked up in your life, and trust me you're like 15 or whatever so you've almost certainly done something you shouldn't, and get back to me on how good of a person you are. You're not helping yourself, you're just making yourself look like the worst person you possibly can.
Also most of my friends and a lot of the littlefur community are LGBTQIA+, and christianity isn't big around that either, so I don't think you're going to change anyone's mind with this bullshit especially those of us who are LGBT who probably have hard it 1000 times in a 1000 ways by people who are not only better talkers than you but better people than you. Most of us find these communities because dick heads like you won't leave us alone.
In conclusion: You are insignificant in the grand scheme of things. Even if your religion is true you are one of trillions, a log scale so large that the brain actually is not able to picture it. The universe is vast and expansive and your existence inside it is mere seconds on a cosmic time scale. Many of us search for meaning in it, or comfort, or the closest thing we can get to it. You've spent your time harassing someone who found that and lost it. The mere moments of your existence have been used to hurt others, and it sickens me. Your existence, however improbable, remarkable and fleeting has been used to hurt someone who was already hurting. I hope you realize that and think about how that would have hurt you.
I hope you're happy now, but realize that that happiness is parasitic.
as a christian, you should believe far better than this
if you wanted to "cause no pain", you'd have kept your mouth shut
you should believe that Christ judges all people fairly and justly in the afterlife, regardless of their deeds or misdeeds
you should be supportive of the living in a trying time, not hurling your beliefs describing graphic damnation of their loved one at them in order to guilt them because /you/ believe that that person committed a misdeed in how they lived and died.
it's not for /you/ to judge what happens in the thereafter for her, or Becca. if you believe in God, it's for him alone to decide, and regardless of any misdeeds she may or may not have committed in her time on earth, it's obvious that she made an indelible mark of good upon the communities she was a part of. If you cared about Pandora, you would understand that, as she is obviously grieving and does not need to hear your hurtful and useless opinions on what God may have planned for her, Becca or anyone else.
"And Jesus said unto him, Why callest thou me good? there is none good but one, that is, God." - Mark 10:18
everyone has flaws, everyone makes mistakes, everyone has the opportunity for turning themselves around and finding redemption in life and beyond, get out of here with your judgment and spend your time in reflection together with your own family.
if you wanted to "cause no pain", you'd have kept your mouth shut
you should believe that Christ judges all people fairly and justly in the afterlife, regardless of their deeds or misdeeds
you should be supportive of the living in a trying time, not hurling your beliefs describing graphic damnation of their loved one at them in order to guilt them because /you/ believe that that person committed a misdeed in how they lived and died.
it's not for /you/ to judge what happens in the thereafter for her, or Becca. if you believe in God, it's for him alone to decide, and regardless of any misdeeds she may or may not have committed in her time on earth, it's obvious that she made an indelible mark of good upon the communities she was a part of. If you cared about Pandora, you would understand that, as she is obviously grieving and does not need to hear your hurtful and useless opinions on what God may have planned for her, Becca or anyone else.
"And Jesus said unto him, Why callest thou me good? there is none good but one, that is, God." - Mark 10:18
everyone has flaws, everyone makes mistakes, everyone has the opportunity for turning themselves around and finding redemption in life and beyond, get out of here with your judgment and spend your time in reflection together with your own family.
I'd say so.
although I myself am not a christian, I stopped believing in God when I was 9. but I understand the religion very well and think I have a solid grasp on what being a "good christian" ought to be, and he isn't doing it.
I have made harsh judgments throughout my life, some which I have come to regret. one of those was about Becca. I don't have excuses for it, it was a terrible judgment which I'm sorry for making. this hateful judgmental comment towards her (and you) was shown to me by someone, and I felt that I should speak up and say something. Becca proved through her deeds and actions in the community that what I had said was wrong, and although it's too late for her to hear my apology, I still make it, and it is offered for anyone else who would have it.
although I myself am not a christian, I stopped believing in God when I was 9. but I understand the religion very well and think I have a solid grasp on what being a "good christian" ought to be, and he isn't doing it.
I have made harsh judgments throughout my life, some which I have come to regret. one of those was about Becca. I don't have excuses for it, it was a terrible judgment which I'm sorry for making. this hateful judgmental comment towards her (and you) was shown to me by someone, and I felt that I should speak up and say something. Becca proved through her deeds and actions in the community that what I had said was wrong, and although it's too late for her to hear my apology, I still make it, and it is offered for anyone else who would have it.
It’s not that Christianity that is bad, it’s just some people that are mean or can just be insensitive whether it’s on purpose or accidentally and that does not mater what their religion is. Whatever your religion is or if you even have a religion she surly is in a place where she doesn’t suffer anymore whether it was from physical pain or mental pain. I hope you recover from her death soon.
I give you all my condolences. She must have been an amazing person and an inspiration to you. I wish there was something I could say that could make you feel better. Shit’s hard, and that numb feeling is too much to get past, I’m sure. I hope your friends have been assuring themselves to be there for you.
With this comic, you’ve immortalized her soul into the internet. Unlike thirty years ago, people from the future can go back in time, read through your comic, and can get to know who she was as a person and how lovely a person she is. Try to take comfort in knowing you’ve helped her have an effect on a loving community, and will be an inspiration for future generations, likely forever. I’m sure she’d be happy to know as well~
With this comic, you’ve immortalized her soul into the internet. Unlike thirty years ago, people from the future can go back in time, read through your comic, and can get to know who she was as a person and how lovely a person she is. Try to take comfort in knowing you’ve helped her have an effect on a loving community, and will be an inspiration for future generations, likely forever. I’m sure she’d be happy to know as well~
*hugs tightly.* I am sorry for your loss, hun. I really am. Don't look to the haters. Focus on the ones that do support you through thick and thin. They really matters in life. Your mama would be proud of you no matter what you do. It is okay to cry it out. It is okay to be frustrated. It is okay to be confused and not understand. No one truly understand why some people just.. do that. I definitely don't. But just never hide your emotions.. Never bottle them up. Allow yourself to be who you are but at the same time.. allow yourself to grieve.
Pain is a powerful thing.. it can numb so many of us. It can make us do things that we don't normally do. It controls you. Depression is the same way. Just know this, hun.. You are still loved by her just in a different way.. Spiritually wise. I believe that. I really do.
Pain is a powerful thing.. it can numb so many of us. It can make us do things that we don't normally do. It controls you. Depression is the same way. Just know this, hun.. You are still loved by her just in a different way.. Spiritually wise. I believe that. I really do.
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