
Finger Fidgeting Love
This is the first picture out of many that I did when I was down…
A lot of my images do have a similar concept or idea in them: snuggling. In this one, we have a small couple, snuggling in bed. One brings his mate close to him while the other calmly and tiredly fiddles with his finger like a child.
In my eyes, it is rather cute to see one fiddle with a small attachment from the other, just playing with it idly, staring into space with it. Soon, the other would whisper the words “What is on your mind?” A lot of times, when someone is asked that question, they would draw a blank or refuse to answer it. They either don’t really know how to put it, or they are too embarrassed to talk about it. If one trusts the other, wouldn’t sharing things on their mind slip out without worry? Or would it be harder to expel it from the fear of embarrassment or shame? Its hard to know what the other’s tolerance are to “surprises”. One should not push the other to expel what he/she is thinking. Curiosity hurts, knowing the truth may hurt even more…
Finger Fidgeting Love © 2007 Alex Cockburn
A lot of my images do have a similar concept or idea in them: snuggling. In this one, we have a small couple, snuggling in bed. One brings his mate close to him while the other calmly and tiredly fiddles with his finger like a child.
In my eyes, it is rather cute to see one fiddle with a small attachment from the other, just playing with it idly, staring into space with it. Soon, the other would whisper the words “What is on your mind?” A lot of times, when someone is asked that question, they would draw a blank or refuse to answer it. They either don’t really know how to put it, or they are too embarrassed to talk about it. If one trusts the other, wouldn’t sharing things on their mind slip out without worry? Or would it be harder to expel it from the fear of embarrassment or shame? Its hard to know what the other’s tolerance are to “surprises”. One should not push the other to expel what he/she is thinking. Curiosity hurts, knowing the truth may hurt even more…
Finger Fidgeting Love © 2007 Alex Cockburn
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when you are dwelling, those who know can often see... and when confronted, even politely and with sincere concern, we are afraid of what will happen if we share our true feelings... often one can wonder in hindsight, whether or not they DID reveal those feelings, what other course fate may have had. i've been there. sometimes its that we feel like our true feelings will cause pain, and we hold our pain inside for want of keeping others from hurting...
I think people do that to me sometimes, but the truth is... knowing that someone is hurting all by themselves hurts me a hundred times worse than if they just tell me... for some people, though...the curiousity hurts far more than the truth ever could...
Its a beautiful piece Alex... very beautiful.
I think people do that to me sometimes, but the truth is... knowing that someone is hurting all by themselves hurts me a hundred times worse than if they just tell me... for some people, though...the curiousity hurts far more than the truth ever could...
Its a beautiful piece Alex... very beautiful.
Such a cute scene...
And as for me, I generally answer honestly when asked. After all, it is my firm opinion that honesty and communication are absolutely vital to a functioning relationship. If she didn't want to know, she shouldn't have asked. If she's offended by the way I think, then maybe I'm not the one for her.
And as for me, I generally answer honestly when asked. After all, it is my firm opinion that honesty and communication are absolutely vital to a functioning relationship. If she didn't want to know, she shouldn't have asked. If she's offended by the way I think, then maybe I'm not the one for her.
My girlfriend will ask me that and I honestly go blank, because often, you're really not thinking anything at all, just sorta of living the moment.
With me, I have too many situations where I'm constantling Having to be thinking about something, so those chances where I can actually go blank are the ones I enjoy the most.
With me, I have too many situations where I'm constantling Having to be thinking about something, so those chances where I can actually go blank are the ones I enjoy the most.
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