Sometimes I fear these Pinktobers will be pulling the curtain too far back, but I think it's important to see relationships are complicated and take work. When I first met :SnowyCheshire: he was obviously very intelligent and nice, but what he was showing me obviously wasn't the real him. I demand honesty, my lovelies--honesty of myself, and honesty of others. If you come to me parroting what I say back to me, holding back your own views and perspectives just so that I'll like you--that's dishonesty. If you come to me pretending you're something you're not for my sake? That's not you. I want, and always want the real and authentic you. I spent years pretending to be something I wasn't for the sake of someone else, and I know a relationship can't survive when people do that. Is it possible things might not work out if you show the real you? Yes, but in the long run you'll be much happier with someone who sees the real you and loves you regardless of any faults you think you may have.

Nivvy heard what I had to say, got an outside view he respected above all else, did some hard introspection, and took a risk. Now, I'm not perfect by any means. I would later need to challenge myself and take a risk just like he did, but his actions allowed us to even get deeper feelings started. The person he was pretending to be was nice--the real him is charming, passionate, playful, logically minded, warm, endearing, responsible...and I love him to death. <3

Thank you so much for the question/s! If you'd like to ask one, you can head over here: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/38365724/ and ask away! Questions are picked at random so things stay fair~ The month is almost over, but there is still time to get in a question and have it answered!

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P.S Kim is surprised in the bottom panel because when I do call people out on these deeper things like this, they often just fade away--but Nivvy didn't. He really surprised me. <3