
I'm not prone to getting all emo about anything, but Valentine's is one of those days that reminds me that I lack a significant other. Normally, it doesn't bug me, but once in a while it's like a kick in the gut. About once a year, actually.
Not as broken up as it may look, hence the pic being 2 days late.
I think I'm allowed to be depressive once or twice a year.
Not as broken up as it may look, hence the pic being 2 days late.
I think I'm allowed to be depressive once or twice a year.
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*shakes my head*
I'm one of those people in the above post. Getting mad or depressed about V-day isn't really what you should do... it's not what it seems.
Yes, there is a commercial side of it, but if you look at it that way, it just makes it worse. I take this day to look at all the people I care about, wether my one true love, my closest friend, or even a favorite pet who makes me happy when they're around.
The concept to me is to just remember the people who make you happy in your life, and who you feel something for; even if it's just a drinking buddy or some old friend from back in the day.
so maybe look around you a bit, and see some of those buds and companions with new eyes. :3 You'll find it's not so bad after all. Besides... what's better than laying on the couch with a bunch of friends, watching a movie and eating chocolates? Very little says I. ^^
I'm one of those people in the above post. Getting mad or depressed about V-day isn't really what you should do... it's not what it seems.
Yes, there is a commercial side of it, but if you look at it that way, it just makes it worse. I take this day to look at all the people I care about, wether my one true love, my closest friend, or even a favorite pet who makes me happy when they're around.
The concept to me is to just remember the people who make you happy in your life, and who you feel something for; even if it's just a drinking buddy or some old friend from back in the day.
so maybe look around you a bit, and see some of those buds and companions with new eyes. :3 You'll find it's not so bad after all. Besides... what's better than laying on the couch with a bunch of friends, watching a movie and eating chocolates? Very little says I. ^^
The holiday of St. Valentine is actually a pagan festival in which the males would kill animals, smeer the blood over their naked bodies and run screaming through the street. So, just think of it in that concept rather then the loved up commerical holiday its been turned into by the sweet companies.
And don't see your being single as a handicap, see it as a blessing. I do :D
R.
And don't see your being single as a handicap, see it as a blessing. I do :D
R.
I know how you feel, Aubrin, however V-Day hits me harder than what you may think.
After my grandfather passed away in 2003, my graduating year, I've decided to completely abandon all love on V-Day and change it to "Chocolate Day" on the 15th, because that's when all chocolate for V-Day gets jacked down and I can buy a ton of it.
As well, a few other bad things happened to me on V-Day as well, but I'm not going to get into that.
But worry not, little pengi, you have plenty of people watching you, so I would believe that's a lot better than having a significant other, but that's just my point of view.
After my grandfather passed away in 2003, my graduating year, I've decided to completely abandon all love on V-Day and change it to "Chocolate Day" on the 15th, because that's when all chocolate for V-Day gets jacked down and I can buy a ton of it.
As well, a few other bad things happened to me on V-Day as well, but I'm not going to get into that.
But worry not, little pengi, you have plenty of people watching you, so I would believe that's a lot better than having a significant other, but that's just my point of view.
Boy do I know that feelin, Aubrin.
Check out my Journal (Feb. 14th). I know exactly how ya feel. *hugs*
I do hope things do begin to look up for ya and hope you find that special someone that will fill your life with love and excitement!
*pats your back* Take care of yourself! And have a good one! Good work on the drawing, Aubrin! *smiles*
Check out my Journal (Feb. 14th). I know exactly how ya feel. *hugs*
I do hope things do begin to look up for ya and hope you find that special someone that will fill your life with love and excitement!
*pats your back* Take care of yourself! And have a good one! Good work on the drawing, Aubrin! *smiles*
I have quite a story to tell you. I have a father that hasn't been the kind he should have been. I grew up not knowing the love of a parent, don't get me wrong he's wasn't a horrible father it's just that he didn't give me the love I needed. Oh sure he provided for me and gave me what I needed, but the love was never there. I guess what I'm trying to say is that relying on a mate or in my cause a parent will never fulfill your love need. My dad had divorced my mom 3 years ago, because he thought she didn't love him. And to this day he's still looking for a person to call his. He's on his second girlfriend and I, and my 4 other siblings don't like how he's living his life. I being the only one that live with him have to be exposed to his love affairs. I know this is stupid coming from some1 that looks at porn, but trust me. The only way you'll truly be loved is by God. I know this may not make sense or be awkward, but I think I am struggling with the same thing. I am 20 now and I look toward porn for pleasure. But I know better, but I choose to do so. I watch shows and movies and alot of crap like that that show how ppl are disappointed in ppl because they hurt them. But the truth of the matter is, we being unperfect will always let others down. So by looking toward worldy things for pleasure is futile. It helps for a while, but in the end, you'll never be satisfied. Don't get me wrong, it's ok to have a mate, but don't look toward them for it all.
P.S. I don't even know why I posted this. I bet I'll get bashed for this but I guess it's how I felt and that's what matters more than what your mind thinks. Sometimes I do miss having some1 to call my own just like you just never got the nerve to do something. To be perfectly honest I never had a date let alone had any relationships. So don't feel bad.
P.S. I don't even know why I posted this. I bet I'll get bashed for this but I guess it's how I felt and that's what matters more than what your mind thinks. Sometimes I do miss having some1 to call my own just like you just never got the nerve to do something. To be perfectly honest I never had a date let alone had any relationships. So don't feel bad.
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