i went through that for a while. i tired to ignore my sexuality but it always crept up. the biggest clue was how women did not make me aroused at all. xÞ

it took me a while but i eventually accepted what i am and am pretty proud of it. i do not conform to societal norms and carry myself in a way that makes people think i am straight. its not intentional, i just do what i feel like doing. :Ð

QFT.

GW

uh............ yes?

'Quoted for Truth'
'GallenW'

I'd forgotten all about this. xÐ

I recall some parts of my own life here.
I reach a point where is stopped crying though, i knew it wasnt getting me anywhere... my main flaw was, trying to fullfill everyone else expectations, above mine. not worth it, even they know, or atleast they will, i saw my grandmother turning from social and comunicative to a bitter and frustated lady when she realize she could'nt do the things she wanted because she was to busy keeping an image, saw other relative going simply mad coz of family pressure... family fulfillment? no thanks only to a point

So many think of orientation as an unchangeable aspect of their lives, others think that lust is a part of them that will never ever go away. After reading the "Confessions" of Augustine though I'm beginning to think otherwise.

My intuition tells me you are most likely more adjusted than me. Get back soon, fun to chat! I sense a kindred soul.

GW

Great comic! You're very eloquent.

If it makes you feel any better, your parents don't seem like they would make a fuss (at least judging by that one panel)

Also, assuming you're Christian, the Bible is very vague about homosexuality. The Old Testament (the one that forbids seafood, mixed textiles and "laying with a man" among other stuff) has been translated countless times and many scholars believe it actually talks about temple prostitution, an old pagan tradition. And even then, those laws were meant for the Jews in Israel from thousands of years ago, not the Christians today.

In the New Testament, Jesus never said anything about homosexuality either. The only one who did was Paul, who lived years after Jesus died.

I know what you have been going through, man. I was kinda confused about my sexuality back in 2006 because I don't feel attracted to girls, only to males. And also, I'm a Christian too and I hate how devoted Christians twisted God's words. I know one thing is that God and Jesus love me, no matter what I am.

i believe this resonates with most folks who struggled (or are currently struggling) to find out who they really are. Sure, it may be noble to live up to other's expectations, but what about your own? i was one of those weirdos who didn't really have much trouble becoming comfortable within my own skin, as accepting my being of the man-on-man lovin' persuasion was only a small part of accepting the entire packaged deal of who i am today. We're all trying to make a living on this blue speck in the middle of outer space, why add the additional stress trying to live up to something you know that won't work for you? Just remember that life is what you make of it. You're at the controls, it's up to you to make sure your ship doesn't sink. The most important thing to remember is to never lose your sense of self.

I can relate to that. This is a beautifully done piece. =]
There are expectations so to speak and I'd rather not bring things up with family, so I end up in the closet.

Very well done... I was pretty lucky, I came out to my mom when I was like about 14, around a decade ago, she also knows about furry and such and isn't bothered... Though as far as the rest, I've always wondered what it would be like to live a more normal life, being straight, having a girlfriend and making a family... Especially from where I am. Hick town without any local gay communities really, quite a few homophobes, so I can't fully just be me, though its coming out bit by bit on its own without my control. I've hid it this long and I'm almost to the point where I just don't care if people know or don't know, though I'm not open about it. x__x

Either way, I can relate for the most part.

I was extremely closeted to myself and frankly I was homophobic to cover it up. The BEST thing I have ever done for myself is coming out of the closet. I have gone though many self realizations in life, but reached the pinnacle of sell understanding when I was comfortable with being gay. It was hard, it was emotionally painful, it was on of the roots as to why I was pretty much kicked out.... It changed my life. But in the long run it made me realize the direction I want to go and the people I want to be with.... That's my story in a nut-shell

It hasn't stopped me from pursuing my dreams.

I never got bullied for being partially homosexual o.,o
Could be some considerable fun to do some gay-basher-bash.

Man you should post this in other site too, as a good part of furries are gay. No offense to anybody, just that you only will find comments in one side only here.

Wow, I can relate. I feel those exact feelings, too. But as a bisexual I've always been turned on by women, then all of a sudden in my mid teens guys started turning me on as well, so it was all the more shocking. I was so confused for a while. And coming from an Asian family, I worry all the more about what my parents will think and fear I'll be shunned and all that. This was truely an emotional piece and one a lot of us can relate to

sounds like how I went through most of it

there are many furs who share your thoughts and feeling in such a complex idea that really isn't one idea at all but many.

Just be strong and don't ever let anyone stop you from being who you are. this thing also happen to me, and I make it all the way through with the help of my bf. Just........ be prepare for anything........

By the way, nice artwork and storyline.....

Thanks for making this, buddy. It's a very familiar bunch of thoughts.

that just hit me like a truck.

that is exactly my feelings, my dilemma, my family (im the only only child for around 6 generations in my family)

theres been a huge amount of change in my life recently and if just come to the conclution of what i am.

i think i need a sit down.....

...
ve been there many times....
but I believe we have the right to fight for our happiness as we are

It's the passing of your genes to your kids that gets me the worst.

im going through this right now

I am currently going though this.. :( * Hugs bud *