Amazing Kalina Bi Flag avi by my wonderful wife!
Art by guro.teeth
Kalina drkrogue
Since it's Pride month I thought it would be nice to share my own story.
I myself, am a bisexual demisexual woman.
For most of my life, up until about 5 years ago, I was basically in denial about my sexuality. I thought I was straight most of my life, regardless of being attracted to women.
I always knew I was always demisexual, as I never found anyone attractive other than people I already knew personally. I never had one night stands or ever found myself wanting to have sex with people I didn't know.
It wasn't until recently that I've accepted the bisexual side of myself as well. I was surrounded by bisexual erasure for most of my life. From the media "it's just a phase" and even some of my friends (who were even gay themselves) with the belief that a person is only bisexual until they are in a relationship. As if the relationship determines your sexuality...
Even some friends expressed dislike for bisexual people, from them having bad personal experiences with other bisexual people. It all made me feel bad about myself and deny who I really was.
Eventually, I removed myself from the negative friends, and was able to accept myself. I started talking to and meeting other people who were more accepting and understanding of bisexuality.
I was finally able to feel comfortable in my own sexuality and be proud of who I am, so I am super happy and grateful for my wife for drawing me this amazing avatar!
Art by guro.teeth
Kalina drkrogue
Since it's Pride month I thought it would be nice to share my own story.
I myself, am a bisexual demisexual woman.
For most of my life, up until about 5 years ago, I was basically in denial about my sexuality. I thought I was straight most of my life, regardless of being attracted to women.
I always knew I was always demisexual, as I never found anyone attractive other than people I already knew personally. I never had one night stands or ever found myself wanting to have sex with people I didn't know.
It wasn't until recently that I've accepted the bisexual side of myself as well. I was surrounded by bisexual erasure for most of my life. From the media "it's just a phase" and even some of my friends (who were even gay themselves) with the belief that a person is only bisexual until they are in a relationship. As if the relationship determines your sexuality...
Even some friends expressed dislike for bisexual people, from them having bad personal experiences with other bisexual people. It all made me feel bad about myself and deny who I really was.
Eventually, I removed myself from the negative friends, and was able to accept myself. I started talking to and meeting other people who were more accepting and understanding of bisexuality.
I was finally able to feel comfortable in my own sexuality and be proud of who I am, so I am super happy and grateful for my wife for drawing me this amazing avatar!
Category Artwork (Digital) / All
Species Fox (Other)
Size 472 x 468px
File Size 172.2 kB
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