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Life's A Chibi: Simple Question
I know there are a variety of illustration relating to this topic, but I wanted to make one of my own. Empathy is important. Just asking a simple question to someone who is down does make a difference. It shows that you see this person's current emotional state and you offer your services to try to help them out of it. Even if they reject your aid, just the fact that they know that someone there is willing to help means that they are not alone, which is very important. When someone feels down, they would feel like they are alone and lost. Hearing someone offer help or to understand what is wrong is important. You don't need to be that tool that will fix everything, but just be that ear that will listen to them if they want to vent, or that hand that will pat them on the back when they feel alone. Simple caring words and gestures does make a world of a difference.
artwork © 2021 Alex Cockburn
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I had a history teacher talk about the moment we became a civilization. Students talked about the wheel or the discovery of fire, but then the teacher brought up a picture of an ancient skeleton and pointed to a leg bone that had broken then mended.
In the wild a broken leg is a death sentence, you can't run from predators or find food or water. Which means someone took care of this person till they could walk again. The moment we can recognize another person's struggle and offer them help is the moment we became a civilization.
In the wild a broken leg is a death sentence, you can't run from predators or find food or water. Which means someone took care of this person till they could walk again. The moment we can recognize another person's struggle and offer them help is the moment we became a civilization.
This is a real, valuble lesson but it's also a hard one to learn. We are trained mentally to try and help and when someone who is struggling rejects that offer it can be strange and (sadly) sometimes people get annoyed at the person for refusing. I think one thing that makes it hard is that you can't really "see" the effect that just offering has on them.
Being one who listens was the main reason my classmates stopped bullying me in highschool. They noticed if they have problems none of their "friends" did but the one they bothered all day long was still there to listen. It helped a lot to know people sometimes come to a conclusion at times. Even if it takes years.
Thank you for such a simple but beautifully put message, hun. I wish more people understood this. Even if the person says no to the help, that isn’t cause to just then leave them be and not talk to them. I lost my Mom in August and my family don’t even ask if they can help, just tell me what I need to do now to move on in life.
I truly wish more people would just offer and care about other people like this.
I truly wish more people would just offer and care about other people like this.
This is really such an important message; but it is also important to note one thing as well; be aware the difference between lending a hand and/or ear, and having someone constantly abusing your support, also be aware of ones own limitations and dont believe you can mend everyone's wounds
It may sound obvious to some, but I was like that years ago, and that alone had nearly ruined my Empathy because it was so hard to care for others when they ask the world of you when you literally cannot do anything, it eats away at your kindness and can leave you embittered for the rest of your life, infact I'd say it's what leads to the many people who suddenly decide to stop caring...
As of now I still do my best to care for the friends I have, but often times I struggle to offer support both in due to my empathy not being what it's used too and that I fear dealing with people who want me to fix the world, if that is a bit of a selfish thought, I do apologize, I just wish to let others know what I learned from my own mistakes in hopes they dont repeat them themselves
It may sound obvious to some, but I was like that years ago, and that alone had nearly ruined my Empathy because it was so hard to care for others when they ask the world of you when you literally cannot do anything, it eats away at your kindness and can leave you embittered for the rest of your life, infact I'd say it's what leads to the many people who suddenly decide to stop caring...
As of now I still do my best to care for the friends I have, but often times I struggle to offer support both in due to my empathy not being what it's used too and that I fear dealing with people who want me to fix the world, if that is a bit of a selfish thought, I do apologize, I just wish to let others know what I learned from my own mistakes in hopes they dont repeat them themselves
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