I am HE
Someone I work with... absolutely refuses to use 'he/they'.
Not even 'he/him', and I didn't realize just how much of an issue I had with it and how uncomfortable I was until I was talking to another coworker...
And honestly? It made me angry.
The longer I sit here, the angrier I get.
--- //Small Vent, feel free to ignore// ---
It wouldn't be a problem if it was accidental. They all make mistakes, but they all try to correct themselves and apologize
But one person. One singular person refuses.
I know it shouldn't bother me, but I've said MULTIPLE times that I don't want to be referred to as female.
So many times I've explained in front of them that if 'they' is a little too difficult to remember, I understand, but to PLEASE use 'he/him' since I want to go on T anyway.
I. Am. Not. Female.
I just...
I don't know.
I don't know what to do.
Part of me feels like I shouldn't be as upset as I am, but it's just... the blatant disregard for my wishes, which are pretty simple if you ask me...
I don't care if there's a slip-up. It happens. But to completely IGNORE it? For MONTHS???
Fuck, man.
I'm not being listened to. I'm being ignored. I don't know.
I'm just tired.
Really tired.
Not even 'he/him', and I didn't realize just how much of an issue I had with it and how uncomfortable I was until I was talking to another coworker...
And honestly? It made me angry.
The longer I sit here, the angrier I get.
--- //Small Vent, feel free to ignore// ---
It wouldn't be a problem if it was accidental. They all make mistakes, but they all try to correct themselves and apologize
But one person. One singular person refuses.
I know it shouldn't bother me, but I've said MULTIPLE times that I don't want to be referred to as female.
So many times I've explained in front of them that if 'they' is a little too difficult to remember, I understand, but to PLEASE use 'he/him' since I want to go on T anyway.
I. Am. Not. Female.
I just...
I don't know.
I don't know what to do.
Part of me feels like I shouldn't be as upset as I am, but it's just... the blatant disregard for my wishes, which are pretty simple if you ask me...
I don't care if there's a slip-up. It happens. But to completely IGNORE it? For MONTHS???
Fuck, man.
I'm not being listened to. I'm being ignored. I don't know.
I'm just tired.
Really tired.
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