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I drew this a few days ago when I was feeling particularly lost. I'm feeling better now for the most part. I'm grateful a lot of the time for being a little, I wouldn't have done a lot of things or met soo many amazing people if I hadn't started exploring my little side. Ive made some serious friends for life because of my little side.
But sometimes I can get all tangled up in the fact that I don't really get little time any more no one really looks after me in the way my little side needs anymore and with that comes a weird frustration of like...sod it, just pack it all up into boxes, whats the point in having stuff if i never play with it, why am I even like this anyway....and the self loathing creeps in and it just sorta spirals downward
And when I get like that, its like the colours in the world become duller and my emotions become muted and I just lose myself really.
Like I said im fine now, dragged myself back out of that mindset, but yeah a few days ago things were a bit different.
But sometimes I can get all tangled up in the fact that I don't really get little time any more no one really looks after me in the way my little side needs anymore and with that comes a weird frustration of like...sod it, just pack it all up into boxes, whats the point in having stuff if i never play with it, why am I even like this anyway....and the self loathing creeps in and it just sorta spirals downward
And when I get like that, its like the colours in the world become duller and my emotions become muted and I just lose myself really.
Like I said im fine now, dragged myself back out of that mindset, but yeah a few days ago things were a bit different.
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I feel like that a lot lately too but I’m starting to get involved with the community where I’m at and I’m starting to make some good friends as well. Thanks for posting this it’s really helped me to reflect how I’ve been recently and is giving me a feeling that I’m on the right path
We’ve all been there at one point. Me personally I’m in a stage of my life goals going well to put it bluntly “to shit”, I find out the demand for my dream job is overseas so I can’t do that, then I wanted to join the army, then global tension hits and now i want to stay away from that. My life has kinda hit a dramatic pause…… Anyway, I’m glad to hear your feeling better, you have a fan base to help lift you up, we are all here for you(me included he he). Ps I voted for you in the URSA awards. *crosses fingers*
Thank you for voting for me. sorry life isnt going quite according to the way you were hoping. The thing about life is though that i find when plan A, B, C,D,E,F,G all go a bit tits up theres always some other thing that pops up that you dont expect and takes you down some other random hidden path. My school life went really shit, and then i managed to get onto a mechatronics course at uni which i was super excited for...then the course was cancelled, then i managed to find a software design course which was suspended in the 2nd year. I dropped out of uni feeling like such a failure but accidentally ended up in a job and then that led to an even randomer job...and well...long story short life def has a habit of messing with plans but new stuff happens and you get new plans. I hope stuff works out for you
This confuzzled might be a bit different to others ive been at. I'm running the little scribbles event again but other than that i'm not actually doing anything or running anything which is super rare. Pawpets normally swallows sooo much of my con that i don't really have time to unwind, but this year none of that is happening so looking forward to the con where i can just chill. I really can't wait!
As someone whose partner has never been interested in participating in age-play with me, that's pretty much how I live in perpetuity. I've come to deal with it by just having a few close online friends who I can share my experiences with, and carving out self care little time for myself.
i know how that feels to have every door shut in your face.. to feel like everything is closing in on you and you never can let out what you really want to... Its a daunting world we live in with all this stuff... :( when the things that we love can not come out even for a little bit because we have to be a big adult that day.. :( *hugs* you are a strong person i know you are... its the ones like you that make me proud to be a babyfur your strength is truly amazing to be able to drag yourself out of your bad mindsets... We all have our bad days... It's like what a great wise man once said.. "When you're going through Hell.. Keep Going.."
You're struggling to fully embrace/accept a part of yourself that gives you joy, comfort, love and support. In your struggle, creating your stories and then sharing them (and your Journal notes), you bring like-minded folk together in a supportive and nurturing way, and that is a GOOD thing.
No reason to regret or feel shame for doing good things Star, you silly little lynx you!
As an aside?
You (and others), are helping this person not detest themself for a condition I/we had no choice in, but now live with. Trying to find 'Fun/support/love and affection' seems very much like a lost cause.
So from one Soul to another- Thank you. You've helped me and many others.
No reason to regret or feel shame for doing good things Star, you silly little lynx you!
As an aside?
You (and others), are helping this person not detest themself for a condition I/we had no choice in, but now live with. Trying to find 'Fun/support/love and affection' seems very much like a lost cause.
So from one Soul to another- Thank you. You've helped me and many others.
Maybe you should see a professional caretaker, since they will intentionally have the time to give that attention your little side needs. Maybe make it a sort of vacation you could look forward to if you were this burnt out. Don’t take my word for it if you don’t want to,but it’s a suggestion.
As a CG and little myself, I see both sides of that grime-coat that covers the lens of life.
My little one is going through some stuff right now, and as a very physical CG that can't be there 24/7 yet, it causes an ache that runs to my core.
At the same time, I'm kinda lost too. I don't feel right doing anything little right now, it feels plastic and put-on. Like something that should happen when I actually deserve it.
You're not alone. You're never alone. There are others that feel your pain.
Don't forget that some of those people will also be with you in your triumph. There will come a time when those storm clouds pass.
I'll be waiting to cheer you on when they do.
My little one is going through some stuff right now, and as a very physical CG that can't be there 24/7 yet, it causes an ache that runs to my core.
At the same time, I'm kinda lost too. I don't feel right doing anything little right now, it feels plastic and put-on. Like something that should happen when I actually deserve it.
You're not alone. You're never alone. There are others that feel your pain.
Don't forget that some of those people will also be with you in your triumph. There will come a time when those storm clouds pass.
I'll be waiting to cheer you on when they do.
I think for me its more a case of my husband having grown out of being daddy maybe and so I we dont really play like we used and havent really done so for over a decade (which is what prompted me to create Found and then later Shine in order to sorta live thru my characters instead) so I think because i dont have him watching over me I cant let myself fall into full little space. Ive tried a couple of times to put some time into trying to be little just by myself but it doesnt work and leaves me feeling worse rather than better. So im stuck in a weird limbo hoping for my husbands daddy side to come back. Or trying to work out how i can make it so that i dont need that sort of interaction maybe? I dunno how to fix it.
first off the art. it looks great sweetie it. it shows has how she is feeling and the colours really help!
glad to see your doing better sweetie. its hard times when those feeling come to you but I am glad you are better you are a light sweetie! you see the light in others just like any little baby!
glad to see your doing better sweetie. its hard times when those feeling come to you but I am glad you are better you are a light sweetie! you see the light in others just like any little baby!
In the past -- I don't know if you'd remember something like this, Star -- I criticized one of your comics for being bleak when the worst of the COVID stuff was still raging.
I've neglected to mention all of my thoughts that weren't about that specific bad feeling I had one time, about how I feel about the rest of Shine, about the rest of your comics, about the person that you seem to be after years worth of quiet lurking. It's clear now is the time.
Star, you're an inspiration. You shine a light into feelings that a lot of us have, in detail, unashamed. You portray the most complicated subtle nuances, the inner conflicts, you tell people who you are, who we are, with the kind of clarity and grace that it takes for a subculture to be accepted someday. Your voice has made it far easier for me to explain some of the nuance to my own friends and loved ones. You show us not only your fantasies, but what you really want in your heart, even from an innocent place. You humanize being Little. I've never really wanted to say all of this because I suspected it would come across as a strange superfan's bleeding-heart diatribe, but Star, what you are doing is valuable. You've made me more comfortable with the person I am. I have other Little friends who feel the same way, who have the same personal excitement. You're an icon among shy enough circles that I'm not sure you know it.
Pleasing ourselves can be a fickle thing. We can always justify any angle of attack on ourselves; if we doubt ourselves, for legitimate reasons or anxious ones, we'll find reasons to keep doubting, knowing all our own failings and weaknesses well enough to exploit them. For that reason, I find that the impressions we make on others are more reliable, more inherently objective, at least in aggregate, than how we would view ourselves. In turn, I find that, in my moments of weakness, it helps to remind myself what good others see in me.
So, here's my contribution to that end: Please don't stop shining, Star. You've shown so many hope. I think you'll continue to for as long as you create, as long as you tell your story. Even with posts like this one, and like that old comic I complained about, where what you have to say treads into something dark and depressing, it shows those of us working through it ourselves that there's still someone out there who's been there, and felt it, and kept being themselves anyway, kept inspiring and creating anyway. You're part of why I'm in a better headspace now, and I can only hope to return the favor, for the next time you're feeling like this. <3
I've neglected to mention all of my thoughts that weren't about that specific bad feeling I had one time, about how I feel about the rest of Shine, about the rest of your comics, about the person that you seem to be after years worth of quiet lurking. It's clear now is the time.
Star, you're an inspiration. You shine a light into feelings that a lot of us have, in detail, unashamed. You portray the most complicated subtle nuances, the inner conflicts, you tell people who you are, who we are, with the kind of clarity and grace that it takes for a subculture to be accepted someday. Your voice has made it far easier for me to explain some of the nuance to my own friends and loved ones. You show us not only your fantasies, but what you really want in your heart, even from an innocent place. You humanize being Little. I've never really wanted to say all of this because I suspected it would come across as a strange superfan's bleeding-heart diatribe, but Star, what you are doing is valuable. You've made me more comfortable with the person I am. I have other Little friends who feel the same way, who have the same personal excitement. You're an icon among shy enough circles that I'm not sure you know it.
Pleasing ourselves can be a fickle thing. We can always justify any angle of attack on ourselves; if we doubt ourselves, for legitimate reasons or anxious ones, we'll find reasons to keep doubting, knowing all our own failings and weaknesses well enough to exploit them. For that reason, I find that the impressions we make on others are more reliable, more inherently objective, at least in aggregate, than how we would view ourselves. In turn, I find that, in my moments of weakness, it helps to remind myself what good others see in me.
So, here's my contribution to that end: Please don't stop shining, Star. You've shown so many hope. I think you'll continue to for as long as you create, as long as you tell your story. Even with posts like this one, and like that old comic I complained about, where what you have to say treads into something dark and depressing, it shows those of us working through it ourselves that there's still someone out there who's been there, and felt it, and kept being themselves anyway, kept inspiring and creating anyway. You're part of why I'm in a better headspace now, and I can only hope to return the favor, for the next time you're feeling like this. <3
I sadly couldnt predict Covid was going to be a thing and in that first year of covid I actually doubled my output in order to give people who were isolating some extra content to look at, but yeah all my comics at various points get bleak and I wasnt willing to compromise on the story, but like with covid, we get through the bleak stuff and keep pushing forward. Humans generally are quite good at that, We're more resilient than we give ourselves credit for a lot of the time.
Im in a fortunate place. waaay more fortunate that a lot of the world at the moment and sometimes I get so overcast that I forget how lucky I am to be able to create content to share it with people and people putting enough value on that content that I can create more content without having to work a standard job. Its this community that allowed me that opportunity. People being generous with me on sooo many levels. But especially on this level, the emotional one, where people rally to help pick me up and dust me down and push me forward. I honestly wouldnt be here if it wasnt for people like you. So thank you
Im in a fortunate place. waaay more fortunate that a lot of the world at the moment and sometimes I get so overcast that I forget how lucky I am to be able to create content to share it with people and people putting enough value on that content that I can create more content without having to work a standard job. Its this community that allowed me that opportunity. People being generous with me on sooo many levels. But especially on this level, the emotional one, where people rally to help pick me up and dust me down and push me forward. I honestly wouldnt be here if it wasnt for people like you. So thank you
Yeah, that's how I feel sometimes. Especially these days where I don't feel *as* little as I would like to, like I used to.
Like, in the past, I was able to have fun and experiment what fit and tried to find the feeling of what makes me little. And now that I found it, I want to be that way, turn off my mind and just snuggle down and be little.
And also yeah, because I was into this, I too, made some friends in the diaper artist circles and they've been excellent support and so much fun to be with.
But now that I've gotten way older, I'm finding it harder and harder to delve into my little side, due to the ongoing internet drama and real life doing its best to keep me an adult. I mean, it doesn't stop me from watching diaper art and thinking about it in fantasy, but being able to actually FIND a time to be little is hard.
Edit to add after looking again. And yeah. I've felt "muted" too, when I've felt ignored. But I look at it as "people are busy and I should be patient". But yeah. The feeling of being isolated like that stings a bit.
Like, in the past, I was able to have fun and experiment what fit and tried to find the feeling of what makes me little. And now that I found it, I want to be that way, turn off my mind and just snuggle down and be little.
And also yeah, because I was into this, I too, made some friends in the diaper artist circles and they've been excellent support and so much fun to be with.
But now that I've gotten way older, I'm finding it harder and harder to delve into my little side, due to the ongoing internet drama and real life doing its best to keep me an adult. I mean, it doesn't stop me from watching diaper art and thinking about it in fantasy, but being able to actually FIND a time to be little is hard.
Edit to add after looking again. And yeah. I've felt "muted" too, when I've felt ignored. But I look at it as "people are busy and I should be patient". But yeah. The feeling of being isolated like that stings a bit.
it sucks when you get stuck in your own head like that... just for no reason you're suddenly in a funk and you feel like nothing matters.. your brain can be the most nihilistic assneck in the world...
but there is ONE perk. these swings are usually only temporary... you can and will get through them given a little time and with a few people to sound off to.
*hugs* you got people who care, we're here if you need us, don't ever doubt that.
but there is ONE perk. these swings are usually only temporary... you can and will get through them given a little time and with a few people to sound off to.
*hugs* you got people who care, we're here if you need us, don't ever doubt that.
I struggle with this A LOT honestly. I don't have any little friends so it's just me playing most of the time and my little time needs mostly go unfulfilled. Sometimes I just want to throw all my little stuff away, because it feels like why bother, you know? I wish I could be brave and find some people that weren't revolted at my little side and accept me for who I am.
cant stay little forever, but the few times you can just enjoy the moment. I get in these sort of moods too but I sometimes take a day to just do that then the next I do my normal adult life stuff. I live alone with my cat and even on my own I can have a little fun even if no one is there to take care of me, even just for a few hours really hits that want for it.
I know sometimes I definitely wish I really had a safe space to dip into that more than just the barest which is usually what I have since I have a lot of other things going on that usually claim precedence... The downside of adultivity I guess. But I'm glad you're feeling better.
-hugs- i know the feeling... life just piles so much stuff on top that even on a day when i wake up little, i just don't have the space or time to actually enjoy it, or the caregiver's attention so that i can let things go and just be little.
i'm glad you're feeling better now though!
i'm glad you're feeling better now though!
Feel like my life is a "sod it" type moment.
My transition costs loads of money and takes so much time that half my life will be gone by the time I'm done, plus I'll probably still not pass.
I resently discovered my little side and am having a blast but I know I'll have to give it up for a few years as I'm moving back in with family soon.
The last 6 years I spent doing uni to get a degree but it's impossible for me to get in a job in that feild that can pay for Bill's let alone medical expenses...
I used to just feel a bit bad and nothing else, as you said just kinda muted. Now I just get a massive amounts of self hate that has lead me to do things that i should probably get help for...
I'm saying all that to show I get what your saying at least to some extent and I am so glad you were able to get out of it. Even if it's only for now.
I'm also sorry you dont get little time anymore, I have no solutions but I hope you find one. You deserve to be happy!
(Sorry if any of that triggered anyone)
My transition costs loads of money and takes so much time that half my life will be gone by the time I'm done, plus I'll probably still not pass.
I resently discovered my little side and am having a blast but I know I'll have to give it up for a few years as I'm moving back in with family soon.
The last 6 years I spent doing uni to get a degree but it's impossible for me to get in a job in that feild that can pay for Bill's let alone medical expenses...
I used to just feel a bit bad and nothing else, as you said just kinda muted. Now I just get a massive amounts of self hate that has lead me to do things that i should probably get help for...
I'm saying all that to show I get what your saying at least to some extent and I am so glad you were able to get out of it. Even if it's only for now.
I'm also sorry you dont get little time anymore, I have no solutions but I hope you find one. You deserve to be happy!
(Sorry if any of that triggered anyone)
I can understand the having no way to do your little side kitten I'm a true switch when it comes to the AB side of the community but lately all I get to be is a caretaker I haven't gotten to be a little in...gosh about 3.5 years now. I have my accessories and since I'm nappy dependent I just get cute nappies since they are more absorbent than regular ones but other than having the stuff I don't get to BE a little. So I totally get it kitten. If we ever got the chance to meet up in RL I'd totally enjoy a 2 day set with you as one day helping be a caretaker to you and the next being a little with you and a playmate
im... very familiar with this feeling... although its less of a "i have stuff and cant make use of it" and more of a "i have no way to express it when i need it..." i almost want to believe its part of where my depression comes from. im glad to know youre doing better.. but just know youre not alone...
Hey... everything is gonna be ok. Relax uwu you are just living a human experience.
This feeling is always a must in life, I understand it too. That sometimes is like "ok now I have all this stuff to play but now I do not feel right to play, why?"
I suggest 2 heavy things that are helping me in those moments:
1. Meditation and do a space for you, I mean the balance of your adult and little self in a way to connect with mantra music or just being half and hour meditating. I know it sound bored or like "I should be doing something more productive than this" but it really helps.
2. Minimalism, sometimes excess of stuff or just creating art in a space that feels heavy by stuff that we deeply know we are not gonna use...make us more tired, better to say goodbye or search who will do a use. Also minimalism is more that "organizing" is to put a pause when needed, to find space for being little and to focus in few projects rather than more and more stuff. Over here in Mexico he have a popular phrase that means "The one that wants to do lots of stuff, is the one that ends doing nothing or half of it".
Over here those two things, Abdl plus making art help me to overcome my hypomania.
Hope it helps :)
Also... something I try with Isabel Sanrito (is the name of my little side)... is "rotation of toys" maybe that will helps. Is to pack some toys and let those that are somehow related (depends on your baby mood) to play, aprox 5 to 6 sets. Every 2 weeks or once a month change this toys to the others that were pack. This will give the sensation of few but essential and at the same time the feeling of playing with variety.
Over here, my adult side feels like shit: still don't find job in my career (I am thinking to follow your steps and making art in webtoons and maybe cushy pen), a familiar needs an operation that we are waiting since November, the news of covid and war, that my boyfriend is in another country (perks of abdl couple xD) but... I am fine uwu enjoying life every day and trying to be better than before.
Also, that line of "no one really looks after me in the way my little side needs" I understand. In some point as Abdls we feel that, but hey, expectations make frustrations, and frustrations make sadness. And sadness make depression. The important thing here is to value and be grateful for the friends, experiences and daddy. The rest of fantasies are strong desires that we need to value personally. For example, one of my biggest fantasies was to have a daddy, after experimentation I understand that what I need was affection, know that love I give it by trying to do what I really love: drawing. And saying goodbye to that necessity of being cared. Is to learn more about Why-I-Am-Like-These/My-Roots? instead of What-I-Need?
So, everything is gonna be right uwu le hugs*
This feeling is always a must in life, I understand it too. That sometimes is like "ok now I have all this stuff to play but now I do not feel right to play, why?"
I suggest 2 heavy things that are helping me in those moments:
1. Meditation and do a space for you, I mean the balance of your adult and little self in a way to connect with mantra music or just being half and hour meditating. I know it sound bored or like "I should be doing something more productive than this" but it really helps.
2. Minimalism, sometimes excess of stuff or just creating art in a space that feels heavy by stuff that we deeply know we are not gonna use...make us more tired, better to say goodbye or search who will do a use. Also minimalism is more that "organizing" is to put a pause when needed, to find space for being little and to focus in few projects rather than more and more stuff. Over here in Mexico he have a popular phrase that means "The one that wants to do lots of stuff, is the one that ends doing nothing or half of it".
Over here those two things, Abdl plus making art help me to overcome my hypomania.
Hope it helps :)
Also... something I try with Isabel Sanrito (is the name of my little side)... is "rotation of toys" maybe that will helps. Is to pack some toys and let those that are somehow related (depends on your baby mood) to play, aprox 5 to 6 sets. Every 2 weeks or once a month change this toys to the others that were pack. This will give the sensation of few but essential and at the same time the feeling of playing with variety.
Over here, my adult side feels like shit: still don't find job in my career (I am thinking to follow your steps and making art in webtoons and maybe cushy pen), a familiar needs an operation that we are waiting since November, the news of covid and war, that my boyfriend is in another country (perks of abdl couple xD) but... I am fine uwu enjoying life every day and trying to be better than before.
Also, that line of "no one really looks after me in the way my little side needs" I understand. In some point as Abdls we feel that, but hey, expectations make frustrations, and frustrations make sadness. And sadness make depression. The important thing here is to value and be grateful for the friends, experiences and daddy. The rest of fantasies are strong desires that we need to value personally. For example, one of my biggest fantasies was to have a daddy, after experimentation I understand that what I need was affection, know that love I give it by trying to do what I really love: drawing. And saying goodbye to that necessity of being cared. Is to learn more about Why-I-Am-Like-These/My-Roots? instead of What-I-Need?
So, everything is gonna be right uwu le hugs*
That's heccin' sad but I'm glad you were able to pull out of it.
It's always amazing to me that artists like you can make vent art but still produce such a high quality piece, too! I mean, it sucks that you needed to, but amazing that you could.
Finally, I really hope that you will get little time again soon. Babies need to be babied!
It's always amazing to me that artists like you can make vent art but still produce such a high quality piece, too! I mean, it sucks that you needed to, but amazing that you could.
Finally, I really hope that you will get little time again soon. Babies need to be babied!
I've been in similar spaces...My Mistress and I really don't have much time to do all the things that put me right into subspace, to allow me that treasured vulnerability. Part of it is that we're in a bit of a transition point in life and I'm working a lot. I know it isn't exactly the same, but the thing that drew me to your comic was that I could see parallels. You understand the joys, the longings, the raw aching wounds that come with having a side of yourself that craves some sort of deeper vulnerability. I've been down to that murky pool of loneliness, of desires unfulfilled. While your submerged, it oft seems impossible to remember what the surface is like. When my previous Mistress and I split, I remained down at it's most violently suffocating depths for quite some time, I still miss her some level because she helped me see a sense of worth in myself that I'd not really known before. But some how, I got up to the surface to breathe again. I'm not entirely sure how, but I did. It's one of those things that one does and then one can never really remember how they did it. I do remember one of the people who helped me get out of there though... Admittedly it was indirectly so and I was little more than just some rando who stumbled across something when he needed to on the internet, but that person was you. You give voice to feelings that people are often scared to verbalize and even if they don't have the exact same experience, you still give them the chance to feel seen in ways they have seldom known. Look, I know I'm still some fucking rando who just comments occasionally, but if anything I that I've said helps just a little, then I will have considered it worthwhile.
Life does not always play out the way we wish, yet people often end up getting what they desire, just not the way they expect it even if the path to get there is unclear all the way though. Please, don't ever give up. Not anyone else's sake, but for your own. You deserve your own happy ending so to speak. All the people here believe in you. To quote a song that often comes to the forefront of my mind when I'm in a rough space. "The heart is a muscle the size of your fist, so keep on loving, keep on fighting, and hold on, hold on, hold on for your life." So put up your hearts and fight!...I think this reference may have gotten away from me, but you know what I mean!...Anyway, glad you're doing a bit better.
Life does not always play out the way we wish, yet people often end up getting what they desire, just not the way they expect it even if the path to get there is unclear all the way though. Please, don't ever give up. Not anyone else's sake, but for your own. You deserve your own happy ending so to speak. All the people here believe in you. To quote a song that often comes to the forefront of my mind when I'm in a rough space. "The heart is a muscle the size of your fist, so keep on loving, keep on fighting, and hold on, hold on, hold on for your life." So put up your hearts and fight!...I think this reference may have gotten away from me, but you know what I mean!...Anyway, glad you're doing a bit better.
That need to be vulnerable definetly stretches across quite a number of kinks we're all quite similar in a lot of ways (altho i know people generally tend to focus on the differences) Your comment (and everyones comments here actually) have really helped me feel like im not alone in the dark. I had trepidation on sharing this image, but I'm kinda glad I did. Im actually really fortunate in a huge number of ways and I do try to focus on that most of the time, but sometimes I wobble and the darker feelings wiggle through. Thank you for writing your comment.
Nothing worse than getting that rut feeling. Glad you're coming out of it.
As others mention a good thing to do is to find a group of littles in your area and create silly panoramas (excursions, park lunch, zoo, etc.), heck even gathering in someones house just to see a movie and then sleep between the plushies is good therapy, and you liberate somewhat your caretaker of the responsability.
This advice comes from someone married with a little with 0 interest in taking care of me. And with a really good group of friends.
As others mention a good thing to do is to find a group of littles in your area and create silly panoramas (excursions, park lunch, zoo, etc.), heck even gathering in someones house just to see a movie and then sleep between the plushies is good therapy, and you liberate somewhat your caretaker of the responsability.
This advice comes from someone married with a little with 0 interest in taking care of me. And with a really good group of friends.
reading the comments and seeing this post is a lovely reminder that EVERYONE has moments like this and helps to give me the strength to continue on. i've been running a local ab/dl telegram group for a little while now and we just had our first "real" meetup last week. seeing that there are others out there locally and not just online was such a relief to me and it seems to have helped me to validate my own little side that i have been really doubting the last few years since i discovered ab/dl in general. ive never really been one to hide things from others, but wearing diapers and cute dresses and such has never come up around others and as such was never really shared before. knowing that even the big names can have their doubts and feelings of shame gives me strength to push through and carry on doing what i have to come love. thank you star. im not one to really post online at all or make comments, but i wanted to you to know that we are all here for you as much as you are for us when we need it. <3
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