We all make mistakes in our lives, some small, some large. There are also some moments where life will throw issues at us that we are entirely not prepared for in the moment, or in the aftermath of such. My lack of being open with what occurred over the past several months is likely among one of the more major mistakes I could have made, as I am currently at real risk of ending up losing the house. How did this come to be...?
https://www.yoursun.com/northport/n.....fbaebca53.html
The above news report involves my girlfriend at the time, who was also living with me at the house in North Port. She was struck by a wide pickup truck on her return trip from the store while on her bike, and I was not prepared to know how serious the injuries truly were. She was flown out to Sarasota Memorial Hospital and spent nearly a month in ICU. Vertebrae were broke, her pelvis was shattered, broken ribs had penetrated a lung and a kidney, and there was a very real risk of her being incapable of pulling through. What I can say now to spare further details on the incident, she is on the road to recovery, but there is a chance she will be incapable of walking again. After a few months in the hospital's care, I was left alone at the house to care after her/our pets, yet still struggling to make my own ends meet during that time.
I should now mention, she is on disability, yet being in such a program, it was her dad that handled her finances, including rent and other immediate bills that went towards the house, which was meant to go directly to my father, who is the one that initially helped get that house. It was a few months into her stay at the hospital that I caught a rather concerning update; it was quite likely she was going to be flown out again to another location for physical rehabilitation once she had stabilized from the worst of her injuries. The issue to this was the fact that her father made the conclusion, she was no longer staying at the house, and was likely not to return, and ceased covering her end of the expenses, which in a way, I understand, yet it was crippling to hear that debt was piling swiftly up on me without any hint, update, or notice on their end other than her condition and recovery.
Things were growing desperate, being pressured harder and harder to make up for the building debt, and instead of sticking to what I should have, I began searching for local jobs. Swiftly after the building tension, an accident ended up totalling my own vehicle, which could not be recovered. I had been stuck and without much of a clue in what to do at that point, my only real option was to hope, attempt to sell off old collectible investments, and prevent from having a full breakdown.
Unfortunately, being in such a situation and unable to handle the bulk of expenses required, I was removed from that house, and now staying at my parents while they await to put the house on market.
It all sounds terribly grim, but I refuse to believe it is not too late to make a change, as I had kept myself from coming back here and following my own past experiences. While the debt in total itself is large ($7200 as of last night), it is not quite five digits, and if I can sell off vintage collectibles, as well as make a large push for sales here, there is a very real chance to return to that house.
There is another solution as well, but it ~highly~ hinges on the house itself being saved, and that involves opening custom silver crafting works, as well as other crafts such as character gemstone mosaics or other suggested treasures. Full silver fabrication will require the start of a work bench, acquiring an oxygen and acetylene set, and a new crucible, all being feasible, but entirely needs that private residence to hold, as I know most apartment complexes, as well as my parents house lacking the space or allowance of such materials.
Right now, I just do not know what options I have available to me with how limited time is, but if I can gather at least a grand or two within the week, I do believe it will be enough of an amount to halt the other house being lost for good, and at the very least giving ample opportunity to turn things around.
There are still several older orders I need to push out, but as of now, the entire inventory is available for sale, following suite of a 'make your own offer' format. Losses will be necessary in order to not lose something as paramount as the house itself. For those interested in vintage Magic the Gathering singles, or sealed product, I am also looking to sell off the entirety of my collection. Revised Volcanic Island, Wheel of Fortune, fetchlands, a ton of other singles, as well as sealed product such as Oath of the Gatewatch, Commander 2019 sealed decks, War of the Spark, and more is also up for grabs.
I suppose that is all for now. My mental state has been a mess, but I cannot allow myself to falter any longer and end up losing everything once again.
Any and all support is highly appreciated, and will do my damnedest to be transparent and available to the best of my abilities.
https://www.yoursun.com/northport/n.....fbaebca53.html
The above news report involves my girlfriend at the time, who was also living with me at the house in North Port. She was struck by a wide pickup truck on her return trip from the store while on her bike, and I was not prepared to know how serious the injuries truly were. She was flown out to Sarasota Memorial Hospital and spent nearly a month in ICU. Vertebrae were broke, her pelvis was shattered, broken ribs had penetrated a lung and a kidney, and there was a very real risk of her being incapable of pulling through. What I can say now to spare further details on the incident, she is on the road to recovery, but there is a chance she will be incapable of walking again. After a few months in the hospital's care, I was left alone at the house to care after her/our pets, yet still struggling to make my own ends meet during that time.
I should now mention, she is on disability, yet being in such a program, it was her dad that handled her finances, including rent and other immediate bills that went towards the house, which was meant to go directly to my father, who is the one that initially helped get that house. It was a few months into her stay at the hospital that I caught a rather concerning update; it was quite likely she was going to be flown out again to another location for physical rehabilitation once she had stabilized from the worst of her injuries. The issue to this was the fact that her father made the conclusion, she was no longer staying at the house, and was likely not to return, and ceased covering her end of the expenses, which in a way, I understand, yet it was crippling to hear that debt was piling swiftly up on me without any hint, update, or notice on their end other than her condition and recovery.
Things were growing desperate, being pressured harder and harder to make up for the building debt, and instead of sticking to what I should have, I began searching for local jobs. Swiftly after the building tension, an accident ended up totalling my own vehicle, which could not be recovered. I had been stuck and without much of a clue in what to do at that point, my only real option was to hope, attempt to sell off old collectible investments, and prevent from having a full breakdown.
Unfortunately, being in such a situation and unable to handle the bulk of expenses required, I was removed from that house, and now staying at my parents while they await to put the house on market.
It all sounds terribly grim, but I refuse to believe it is not too late to make a change, as I had kept myself from coming back here and following my own past experiences. While the debt in total itself is large ($7200 as of last night), it is not quite five digits, and if I can sell off vintage collectibles, as well as make a large push for sales here, there is a very real chance to return to that house.
There is another solution as well, but it ~highly~ hinges on the house itself being saved, and that involves opening custom silver crafting works, as well as other crafts such as character gemstone mosaics or other suggested treasures. Full silver fabrication will require the start of a work bench, acquiring an oxygen and acetylene set, and a new crucible, all being feasible, but entirely needs that private residence to hold, as I know most apartment complexes, as well as my parents house lacking the space or allowance of such materials.
Right now, I just do not know what options I have available to me with how limited time is, but if I can gather at least a grand or two within the week, I do believe it will be enough of an amount to halt the other house being lost for good, and at the very least giving ample opportunity to turn things around.
There are still several older orders I need to push out, but as of now, the entire inventory is available for sale, following suite of a 'make your own offer' format. Losses will be necessary in order to not lose something as paramount as the house itself. For those interested in vintage Magic the Gathering singles, or sealed product, I am also looking to sell off the entirety of my collection. Revised Volcanic Island, Wheel of Fortune, fetchlands, a ton of other singles, as well as sealed product such as Oath of the Gatewatch, Commander 2019 sealed decks, War of the Spark, and more is also up for grabs.
I suppose that is all for now. My mental state has been a mess, but I cannot allow myself to falter any longer and end up losing everything once again.
Any and all support is highly appreciated, and will do my damnedest to be transparent and available to the best of my abilities.
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