Help me move out from my abusive family [GFM]
Been talking with friends about this so I opened a GFM, I have two months or I don't know what will happen to mehttps://gofund.me/84451aed
Anything like just sharing would help a lot
I migrated around 4 months ago from Venezuela after years of paperwork, I'm so happy I could get out of that hell hole until the relative who I live with are just pressuring me to go to college and get ''a real job''
It hasn't been more than a month since I got a bank acc to start working for real, I'm still paying some debts that just came out of nowhere and sending more than 400 USD monthly to my mom paying her rent and food
Here I've been degraded by a relative being called lazy, antisocial and being shamed for having a different lifestyle, that I should struggle just as they did back in their days, and they're now giving me 2 months to start going to college as if I don't have enough going on. I just gave up trying to reason with them as everything I say comes off as an excuse for them, I'll start planning on moving once for all, the pressure has been getting on me so badly to the point of having a mental breakdown for the first time after a long while and burnout
All I want is some peace and time, my pace is very different and none of these expectations were told before getting into this house, as they've said - they expected me to be like them, but now that I'm not they want to send me back to Venezuela if I don't study, I don't even know if that's legal but honestly I'm so tired of the threats and the ableist bullshit
Not only that, but there's also my mom on the other side which I feel she sees me as her reliable bank account to finance her lifestyle and pay her basic needs, even asking for more money when she owes me already and is overdue. My family never got degrees or went to university, they want me to do what they didn't so fucking hard and this came off of nowhere, I was never told or set on these directions and I even was told that ''they'll respect whatever I choose for my life''
Pure bullshit
Anything like just sharing would help a lot
I migrated around 4 months ago from Venezuela after years of paperwork, I'm so happy I could get out of that hell hole until the relative who I live with are just pressuring me to go to college and get ''a real job''
It hasn't been more than a month since I got a bank acc to start working for real, I'm still paying some debts that just came out of nowhere and sending more than 400 USD monthly to my mom paying her rent and food
Here I've been degraded by a relative being called lazy, antisocial and being shamed for having a different lifestyle, that I should struggle just as they did back in their days, and they're now giving me 2 months to start going to college as if I don't have enough going on. I just gave up trying to reason with them as everything I say comes off as an excuse for them, I'll start planning on moving once for all, the pressure has been getting on me so badly to the point of having a mental breakdown for the first time after a long while and burnout
All I want is some peace and time, my pace is very different and none of these expectations were told before getting into this house, as they've said - they expected me to be like them, but now that I'm not they want to send me back to Venezuela if I don't study, I don't even know if that's legal but honestly I'm so tired of the threats and the ableist bullshit
Not only that, but there's also my mom on the other side which I feel she sees me as her reliable bank account to finance her lifestyle and pay her basic needs, even asking for more money when she owes me already and is overdue. My family never got degrees or went to university, they want me to do what they didn't so fucking hard and this came off of nowhere, I was never told or set on these directions and I even was told that ''they'll respect whatever I choose for my life''
Pure bullshit
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