If anything we encounter in our experience of life gives us a really strange gut feeling, the simplest way to find peace is to just flow around it and not get involved with it, just like a river flows around any obstacle, without mindfucking if it was the right or wrong decision, and without getting attached to any situation or putting more value on one situation than on another. In our society, we often get conditioned that we have to force ourselves into fixed systems or structures, no matter how we feel about certain things. We somewhat get shaped into one mold, with little differences here and there, but this is not a natural way to live. When we become used to this, we become dull and we cannot even feel anymore what is good for us and what is not. It is natural that everybody has their own unique flow. It is a very enlightened way of life to be surrendered to that flow. To live with this primordial trust into the nature of things is the principle of Wu Wei. To be surrendered does not mean to be surrendered to some kind of an imaginary authority, but to be surrendered to the universe. What the universe wants might be something else than what the mind wants. To be one with the universe is never what the mind wants! But this is something we cannot think about, it is something which can only be felt. The reality happens in the present moment and everything else just happens in our imagination.