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As for my part these are usually the other people who remind me that today are my birthday, and even so nothing really happens
Happy birthday🎂, notwithstanding how much lonely this day sometimes may be, it always reminds us about the unique opportunity of live which has been given upon us.
Happy birthday🎂, notwithstanding how much lonely this day sometimes may be, it always reminds us about the unique opportunity of live which has been given upon us.
It will be never better. I'm alone and I don't have friends IRL, lost all of them more than 10 years ago and since that time I never met anyone. I also never had a partner. Of course I have some friends on the Internet, but all of them living too far from me in another countries and we will never meet each other in whole life (I'm living in third world country, it's really hard to get visa here because most likely it will be rejected; not to mention that I earn much less money per month than plane ticket cost).
Gifts are not very important for me in this case, but I'd want to order a birthday gift for myself from someone, at least it could make my mood a little better, but I can't because I'm not that rich to do that. :(
Gifts are not very important for me in this case, but I'd want to order a birthday gift for myself from someone, at least it could make my mood a little better, but I can't because I'm not that rich to do that. :(
Birthdays used to be pretty sour for me as well, And I never understood why so many people try to make a big deal about them well past the age where they mean much And the fact I didn't feel like I was "supposed to" on my Bday or holidays just made me depressive and moody.
But as time goes on I've grown past that and just treat them as any ordinary day. It's nice to recieve the well wishes even if they don't count for much, and carry on.
Hope things don't get you too down <3
But as time goes on I've grown past that and just treat them as any ordinary day. It's nice to recieve the well wishes even if they don't count for much, and carry on.
Hope things don't get you too down <3
You do have friends. They watch you make art, they help you up when you're down in the dumps, And they're always there for you. I know counting your fans as friends is a little too much, but yeah you may have friends you don't know about. I'm sorry if your birthday was rough. You want me to help you feel better? I could try and see how much your comms cost.
I really sympathize with you...
I think you might need some newly created server on a social platform like Discord. Many artists have their own discord server for communication and preliminary evaluation of work.
I am not suggesting that you replace the quality of friends with quantity, however, among all these people, there may be one or two who will become your truest friends.
Of course, this will not replace the personal irl presence... however, this is the harsh reality of our time that we need to live with.
P.S. We are furfags, anyway. It's better to see a furry online than a human being in real life)
I think you might need some newly created server on a social platform like Discord. Many artists have their own discord server for communication and preliminary evaluation of work.
I am not suggesting that you replace the quality of friends with quantity, however, among all these people, there may be one or two who will become your truest friends.
Of course, this will not replace the personal irl presence... however, this is the harsh reality of our time that we need to live with.
P.S. We are furfags, anyway. It's better to see a furry online than a human being in real life)
So, now that we know the exact problem, we can start solving it.
I would offer myself as a friend, but I'm afraid it will sound hypocritical, for, every Pharisee always adds this at the end of their "sympathetic" speeches.
Besides, I am a rather mean and unpleasant person, so when talking with me, one must certainly take this risk into account.
But, you know, just in case... Just ask, if you want to...
I would offer myself as a friend, but I'm afraid it will sound hypocritical, for, every Pharisee always adds this at the end of their "sympathetic" speeches.
Besides, I am a rather mean and unpleasant person, so when talking with me, one must certainly take this risk into account.
But, you know, just in case... Just ask, if you want to...
In turn, I am a depressed person and very rarely write anything positive. Yes, I don't pretend that everything is always bad for me, it is actually so, because I have a rather difficult life. Several times it happened that people simply couldn't stand communicating with me, they got angry and never wrote me anymore. Of course, I could lie that everything is fine with me and not upset others, but that would be wrong.
So... In your case I don't think this is good idea. :(
So... In your case I don't think this is good idea. :(
I don't left people behind me just for being depressed.
Once, someone left me for my depression, so I'm not going to repeat such a crime.
However.... I think you should change tactics a bit. It's better to talk with people about something else. Nature, architecture, art, nasty furry stuff.... whatever.
Let's be honest, the typical mental constitution of the typical American (its like 90% of FA population) does not involve a "psychological boxing clinch" where the other person almost immediately goes into ultra-close psychological contact.
That is why they are so in need of certified psychologists.
It's hard for them to open up. And it is even more difficult to hear from others what they cannot understand in their own souls.
They panic and don't know what to do.
Usually their first (and last) mental reaction to this is: "For God's sake, get yourself a psychologist!"
By their standards, you're literally asking people whose greatest adventure of their lives was to visit Aunt Maple in New England to sort out your problems.
They just can't handle it. Don't ask too much of them.
Art, mutual interests, anything.
Moreover, it will distract you from your problems as well.
P.S. I offered "myself as option" because I am rooske, so I know a lot about a shitty life.
Yeah...
Long story short... you need to get over yourself and communicate more on FA or on discord with other furries. Your job now is to find your soulmate.
Once, someone left me for my depression, so I'm not going to repeat such a crime.
However.... I think you should change tactics a bit. It's better to talk with people about something else. Nature, architecture, art, nasty furry stuff.... whatever.
Let's be honest, the typical mental constitution of the typical American (its like 90% of FA population) does not involve a "psychological boxing clinch" where the other person almost immediately goes into ultra-close psychological contact.
That is why they are so in need of certified psychologists.
It's hard for them to open up. And it is even more difficult to hear from others what they cannot understand in their own souls.
They panic and don't know what to do.
Usually their first (and last) mental reaction to this is: "For God's sake, get yourself a psychologist!"
By their standards, you're literally asking people whose greatest adventure of their lives was to visit Aunt Maple in New England to sort out your problems.
They just can't handle it. Don't ask too much of them.
Art, mutual interests, anything.
Moreover, it will distract you from your problems as well.
P.S. I offered "myself as option" because I am rooske, so I know a lot about a shitty life.
Yeah...
Long story short... you need to get over yourself and communicate more on FA or on discord with other furries. Your job now is to find your soulmate.
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