chocolate, nutella, maybe a snuggle with a rat. your choice

That makes me wish I had a pet rat now in addition to the 4 dogs and 1 cat I have currently

rats are pretty awesoooome

I stand by what I first said, hugs and love!

thanks

But wouldn't that hurt more?

you don't. you can only collect the pieces and hope they'll stick together again.

That's gonna be tough

people wouldn't ask how to fix a broken heart if it were easy, I'm afraid.

so im guessing things dident go well saturday night?

It's still rough waters...

But no, things did not go well Saturday night..

awww :(
*gives catnip*

You need to be patient, and think about what is better for both
*Hugs you*
Better days will come!

I just want all the bad stuff to go away. I hurt myself because I hurt him, and I don't mean to. I've got mental issues that prevent me from realizing alot, and I know he doesn't hold it against me, but it still hurts him.. and I'm finding it hard to deal with that still..

I don't want to be without him. I'm holding on as long as he will.. It's just becoming so hard

I know how you fell
It´s really hard, after all you loved him and still likes it
A broken heart is dificult to deal
But you need to be strong

We're still together right now, thankfully. It just broke my heart when I realized I hurt him so badly Saturday night.

I'm surprised he didn't just leave me

Good to hear it n3n

If he didn't leave you when you hurt him, I would have to take a guess and say he doesn't WANT to leave you, no matter what.

This could be a lesson for you to learn to forgive yourself. Once you stop the self hatred towards things you've done, it becomes much easier to let all the good stuff START happening, and things will go from there. Really, it's all about a mental 'shift' in the right direction; I'm dealing with some of it myself.

Hate to see someone looking down, so I thought I could at least try and provide some insight. Cheers.

thanks

There is no easy way to fix a broken heart, except with time and patience. Things you can do to get them off your mind, but sadly, there is no easy "fix" to the problem.

I'd say just go out and have some fun. Find yourself a friend, and have a girl's night out at your fav sit down restaurant, go to the mall and shop around, and buy yourself something if you have the money to, (if you're into that), or something of the like. I'd want to go laser tagging for example, but that's one of my own personal joys for example.

I wasn't asking the question literally... It's the name of the picture...

Oh. well ok then. I thought this pic had a tie in to a related topic in real life. Sorry.

It does but it doesn't..

It's not so much a broken heart cuz someone left me.. cuz he didn't. It's a broken heart I caused myself because I didn't mean to hurt the one I love

Oh, well all i know is, that i didn't want to offend you is all. I apoligize.

I use tape and om dire emergencies I use super glue..

Seriously, Note me with your msn, yahoo, or skype...I'll listen...I actually give help like this like every other day if not every day..