I knew I was some variety of grey-ace / aromantic but until today I've never had any specific labels that quite fit.

Aegosexual / Ageoromantic - IT ME!!!

Thank you for introducing me to the term!!!! ~ <3

its a new term for me too but it fits pretty right

Yeah this seems to fit me pretty well also! I think I will probably still just say 'ace' to people because they know what that means basically but it's good to know that enough people are similar that there's a term.

yeah i'll likely keep saying i'm greyace for the sake of people understanding but in more progressive spaces like the interwebs aegosexual fits pretty darn well

This is so cute! Mind if I do this too?

of course! its a good way to show your boundaries and what you are ok with!

Oh my gosh eyyy Aegosexual!! Glad to see someone else mention it ^^ This is a really fun idea to explain boundaries, may I also draw a version of this with proper credit to you as an og creator/source?

Ayyyy yeah of course you can!!! I’m happy that it’s resonating with folks so much! We love making our boundaries clear and understandable! Ayyyy!

New headcanon: you have paws irl. You have convinced me and cannot unconvince me

God I WISH. It’d be so much better than my weird gross human feet haha

Hearing aegosexual for the first time, what is the definition? I'm always eager to learn something new :3

https://orientation.fandom.com/wiki/Aegosexuality
basically sex-positive ace but i'm only interested in fantasy and do not want to imagine myself (human self) in sexual scenes of any kind. (and i personally do not like irl nsfw of any kind but am kink-positive to others expressing themselves, its just not for me)
I'm much more interested in reading fanfics of like, canon characters together, n not like... self-insert stuff?

Furry kinda gives me that outlet that i can have a character whos 'me' without actually being 'me'?
and almost all my kink attractions are solely fantasy only

'like a spectator who enjoys sports, though has no desire to participate in the game itself. 'is a good descrip

Hah, sorry for the wait, my mental healt and I aren't especially good friends right now^^"
And thanks for your reply! You could've gone "just google it dude", but I'm really gratefull you took the effort to explain yourself. An explanation with personal experience/feeling behind it is simply something else then a soulless search result.
Plus this sport metaphor hits the nail pretty perfectly.
Very interesting, I'm always amazed by how different people are. And I'm happy to hear you managed to find that solution for you to fulfill some desires. Thanks for teaching me something new.
And keep on rockin' c:

oh psh its fine, I too disappear for days/weeks on end with no reason i don't mind late responses haha

and i mean i think its a neat term, i'm still very new to learning about it myself so its a interesting exploration of self!

Heh, thanks, that happens way more often than I'd like to, but I'm doing my best c:

Really getting to know yourself can be one of the hardest and sometimes really painful task in life, but it's also one of the most rewarding and satisfying ones. Sounds like you're on a good way :3

I've loved this Renaissance of folks finding out they're aego. It always warms my heart to know folks are accepting that how they interact with others/what they want in fantasy or online spaces doesn't have to correlate to IRL in a 1:1 fashion, or at all! Happy you're discovering this for yourself!!