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(noun) emptiness, void
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rest in peace dad...
My dad recently passed away on April 4, 2024 and I tried and fought hard taking care of him from the start of this year... until his last moments.
I had hope in my eyes, or maybe I was naive to think I could save him?
Maybe I didn't try and fight hard enough?
I don't know.
(noun) emptiness, void
...
rest in peace dad...
My dad recently passed away on April 4, 2024 and I tried and fought hard taking care of him from the start of this year... until his last moments.
I had hope in my eyes, or maybe I was naive to think I could save him?
Maybe I didn't try and fight hard enough?
I don't know.
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First off, my condolences...
Second, you are not to blame. For anything. Don't blame or beat yourself up for not saving your dad. Please.
You did everything you could that was in your power. And that's all that matters. That's all you can be asked to do.
You took care of him for months; now, it's time to take care of yourself and heal.
Be well, kiddo. Think of yourself, do things that make yourself happy... you deserve it.
Second, you are not to blame. For anything. Don't blame or beat yourself up for not saving your dad. Please.
You did everything you could that was in your power. And that's all that matters. That's all you can be asked to do.
You took care of him for months; now, it's time to take care of yourself and heal.
Be well, kiddo. Think of yourself, do things that make yourself happy... you deserve it.
You tried your hardest and your best, the thing to do now is begin to move on with life as positive and confident as you can make it. We’re all here to help you get through this difficult time as I also have had felt the loss of family in my life too. We can overcome this loss all together, let’s start our journey out of the past and into the future! (I hope my words have helped you a bit, sorry for your loss and my condolences to you and your family)
My condolences brother. Lost my father 2/1/24 myself. Been helping take care of him with minor things. I know what your going through. Believe me it will take a while to start to feel normal again. The only thing I had going for me was my tax business to keep me distracted, and reminiscing with all his clients (picked up the business from him) about him. It was kind of like a 2 month long memorial service....
Hey we all do our best to make there last moments the best and to be right there for them.
But they will live on in our memories. Yes it will make us a bit sad but to our time and our memories will make them live forever. Even though we can not see or hear them anymore.
But they will live on in our memories. Yes it will make us a bit sad but to our time and our memories will make them live forever. Even though we can not see or hear them anymore.
One thing that we cannot win, is to fight against death. We all die, one day or another. His body could not continue, it is not your fault. Plus, if he'd have lived for a bit longer, would've it be quality time? Would've it be painless?
It is excruciatingly hard to lose someone who we've cared for, especially feeling like we could've done better, but it's important to keep in mind that in the end, we are not perfect. You have showed him love, care and empathy through his journey, and I'm sure his soul will forever be grateful to have you as his child 🩵🫂🕊
It is excruciatingly hard to lose someone who we've cared for, especially feeling like we could've done better, but it's important to keep in mind that in the end, we are not perfect. You have showed him love, care and empathy through his journey, and I'm sure his soul will forever be grateful to have you as his child 🩵🫂🕊
I'm so sorry to read this. Know that FurAffinity is a place where you can always discuss topics like these, with people that know how you feel or have experienced these tragic events themselves, and this will most certainly help them understand your feelings and because of this will be far more capable of supporting you, bei it through gifts, hugs, or just kind words.
I wish I could take your pain away if for no other reason than I understand how much it hurts. I'm so sorry for your loss and I'm not gonna tell you that it will ever hurt less. Just remember that he's at peace now and he doesn't feel pain anymore. My heart goes out to you. Stay strong and hang in there.
Whoa. I saw this and couldn't click away before offering my condolences. I'm so sorry your dad's gone, DozySlumbers. Hindsight always tricks us into thinking there's something we could've done to change these outcomes, but... You have to let yourself off the hook. I'm sure, if he could, your dad would express gratitude for the care you provided and tell you that he wants you to be happy.
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