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My weight/self consciousness is a demon I often struggle with, and have struggled with throughout my entire life.
Sometimes I feel outcasted. Sometimes I feel imperfect. I feel ugly. I feel fat. I feel like a pathetic waste of space. I feel like a lower being.... It's a shame because in the end, it's not it at all.
I've come to realize God made me who I am, and no matter what I should be happy with myself. I am comfortable with myself. I am happy to say I am who I am, and whether you like it or not, it's not going to change.
I am proud to be a big, overweight woman. I am beautiful no matter what people say. I am perfect in my own unique way. I may not live up to what people consider beautiful, sexy, attractive, or desirable, but I fit all of those in my own eyes.
I'm glad that I was given this body. Sure I wouldn't mind losing a little weight, but I NEVER want to be that ideal person. Why? We would all lose our individuality if we all stuck to a standard. Diversity is the spice of life, after all. I am who I am: a unique young woman. I'd prefer to stay that way.
Our views of idealism in a woman is skewed anyway to begin with.... I mean nearly 100% of the media regarding beauty is all thanks to the magic of Photoshop and Plastic Surgery. I mean just LOOK: [LINK] [LINK]
Probably the most disgusting things I've seen. NOBODY is ideal. Why should you try to live up to a standard that maybe one or two in a million be able to achieve? Be proud of who you are and don't worry about what other people think.
When I feel down and insecure, I think of all of my friends. The people who love me. My family. My mate
Kuro... who's stuck with me for 2 years and never fails to go a day without reminding me of how beautiful I am. <3 [I love you baby!] I am happy in my life because I have people who love me. I'd rather have a few good, true friends than have an adoring 'fan base' and having everyone vying for my attention. Quality over quantity. If people support me truly, then there's no reason for me to be upset.
Life is too short to let trivial things like weight and insecurities about my appearance bother me. You only have one life to live. Might as well make the most of it. <33
Art and Ko © Me
Yes, shi's a female for this as I felt it was more fitting and personal. <3 This is based on my actual build in real life.
Inspired by Born This Way by Lady Gaga//Mother Monster
Sometimes I feel outcasted. Sometimes I feel imperfect. I feel ugly. I feel fat. I feel like a pathetic waste of space. I feel like a lower being.... It's a shame because in the end, it's not it at all.
I've come to realize God made me who I am, and no matter what I should be happy with myself. I am comfortable with myself. I am happy to say I am who I am, and whether you like it or not, it's not going to change.
I am proud to be a big, overweight woman. I am beautiful no matter what people say. I am perfect in my own unique way. I may not live up to what people consider beautiful, sexy, attractive, or desirable, but I fit all of those in my own eyes.
I'm glad that I was given this body. Sure I wouldn't mind losing a little weight, but I NEVER want to be that ideal person. Why? We would all lose our individuality if we all stuck to a standard. Diversity is the spice of life, after all. I am who I am: a unique young woman. I'd prefer to stay that way.
Our views of idealism in a woman is skewed anyway to begin with.... I mean nearly 100% of the media regarding beauty is all thanks to the magic of Photoshop and Plastic Surgery. I mean just LOOK: [LINK] [LINK]
Probably the most disgusting things I've seen. NOBODY is ideal. Why should you try to live up to a standard that maybe one or two in a million be able to achieve? Be proud of who you are and don't worry about what other people think.
When I feel down and insecure, I think of all of my friends. The people who love me. My family. My mate
Kuro... who's stuck with me for 2 years and never fails to go a day without reminding me of how beautiful I am. <3 [I love you baby!] I am happy in my life because I have people who love me. I'd rather have a few good, true friends than have an adoring 'fan base' and having everyone vying for my attention. Quality over quantity. If people support me truly, then there's no reason for me to be upset. Life is too short to let trivial things like weight and insecurities about my appearance bother me. You only have one life to live. Might as well make the most of it. <33
Art and Ko © Me
Yes, shi's a female for this as I felt it was more fitting and personal. <3 This is based on my actual build in real life.
Inspired by Born This Way by Lady Gaga//Mother Monster
Category Artwork (Digital) / Fat Furs
Species Mammal (Other)
Size 600 x 686px
File Size 189.3 kB
Often times I myself struggle with my appearance. I can't loose weight it seems. It ALWAYS stays at 220 :\. I did used to get down about it and recently I've resented myself for it but now it doesn't really matter. My Tayye loves me for who I am. She always knows what to say when I'm feeling down and out about my physique and physical appearance :3.
I have always stayed strong about it though don't get me wrong. Yeah I've felt down about it but I didn't let anyone tell me I was worthless because of my appearance. I don't care what a lot of people think about how I look, just Tayye and the ones I hold dear and really care about. Heh, just ask any of my old peers from high school.
You are a wonderful friend regardless of how you look and to be honest you look very lovely :3. Don't take this the wrong way but you are very beautiful to me. I'm glad you shared this. It is a lovely piece for more than one reason.
P.S. sorry for the sappy XD
I have always stayed strong about it though don't get me wrong. Yeah I've felt down about it but I didn't let anyone tell me I was worthless because of my appearance. I don't care what a lot of people think about how I look, just Tayye and the ones I hold dear and really care about. Heh, just ask any of my old peers from high school.
You are a wonderful friend regardless of how you look and to be honest you look very lovely :3. Don't take this the wrong way but you are very beautiful to me. I'm glad you shared this. It is a lovely piece for more than one reason.
P.S. sorry for the sappy XD
It's only the people who are closest to us whose opinions matter, really. c: And because of that is why I'm comfortable with the way I look. I may still get down over it at times, but that's usually just when I'm being an emotional bishface because my monthly gift is hovering around. ALL WOMEN TAKE EVERYTHING OFFENSIVELY WHEN PMS'ING. SRSLY. -flails-
I'm at 255 right now. I was hovering around 220-230 for the longest time, and during the time I thought I was losing weight I wasn't. I actually GAINED. But I've gone down two pants sizes. I think its because I'm losing inches and building muscle. :x Which is fine. I care more about figure than weight anyway. XD -chuckles- My goal is to one day get down to 165lbs. c: I still want to be chubby. I don't want to be a stick, haha.
Thank you, Jason. x3 That means a lot coming from such a close friend. -hugs- <3 Like I said above, it's only those we hold close whose opinions matter. C:
And no worries. X3 You and Tayye seem like a lovely couple. I'm glad she supports you like she does, and I know you do the same for her. <3 I'm happy for you both.
I'm at 255 right now. I was hovering around 220-230 for the longest time, and during the time I thought I was losing weight I wasn't. I actually GAINED. But I've gone down two pants sizes. I think its because I'm losing inches and building muscle. :x Which is fine. I care more about figure than weight anyway. XD -chuckles- My goal is to one day get down to 165lbs. c: I still want to be chubby. I don't want to be a stick, haha.
Thank you, Jason. x3 That means a lot coming from such a close friend. -hugs- <3 Like I said above, it's only those we hold close whose opinions matter. C:
And no worries. X3 You and Tayye seem like a lovely couple. I'm glad she supports you like she does, and I know you do the same for her. <3 I'm happy for you both.
Good on ya! Personally, I find women with a bit of body far better looking than the bikini models broadcasted everywhere. :3
My looks only bug me when I think about my general appearance, like how I'm walking, or how I hold myself when standing idle. I also sometimes worry about how I talk, worried if it comes across in a fashion I'd rather it not. But then I remember that people don't know me, so I forget and move on. :3
My looks only bug me when I think about my general appearance, like how I'm walking, or how I hold myself when standing idle. I also sometimes worry about how I talk, worried if it comes across in a fashion I'd rather it not. But then I remember that people don't know me, so I forget and move on. :3
I agree. I myself appreciate curvaceous women over stickly thin ones. <3 xD
I think everyone wonders how other people view them, whether it be, like you said, your general appearance or the way you talk, or even just your general presence. I think it's because we all have this inner fear of being judged... even though some of us are able to just shrug things off regardless. XD Like you said, forget and move on is the best thing to do. No need to dwell on trivial things.
I think everyone wonders how other people view them, whether it be, like you said, your general appearance or the way you talk, or even just your general presence. I think it's because we all have this inner fear of being judged... even though some of us are able to just shrug things off regardless. XD Like you said, forget and move on is the best thing to do. No need to dwell on trivial things.
Aw, glad to hear. <3
And thank you much. ^^ It took me a LONG while to become comfortable with myself. Very long. But once you get yourself in the right mindset, you're able to see things in a different light. c: Value your friends and those closest to you the most, don't worry about anything else, and you should be fine. c: Don't lose heart!
Thank you. <33 I was trying to show it in an artistic, beautiful sort of way. ^^ Glad to hear I got it to work.
And thank you much. ^^ It took me a LONG while to become comfortable with myself. Very long. But once you get yourself in the right mindset, you're able to see things in a different light. c: Value your friends and those closest to you the most, don't worry about anything else, and you should be fine. c: Don't lose heart!
Thank you. <33 I was trying to show it in an artistic, beautiful sort of way. ^^ Glad to hear I got it to work.
It definitely takes time. Self esteem and confidence isn't something that isn't just going to appear overnight. :x You need to work for it. Repeatedly tell yourself you're not worthless and that you are beautiful [and having someone there to constantly remind you helps as well] and eventually you'll start believing it. ^^
Best of luck to you. c: And just so you know, I saw your ID. You're very pretty. I think you'll have no problem with it.
Best of luck to you. c: And just so you know, I saw your ID. You're very pretty. I think you'll have no problem with it.
I am glad you've accepted yourself, that is a great merit, no matter what one looks like, whether we fit in or not. We need to love ourselves, accept ourselves, appreciate ourselves, we are what we are and I'm very happy you can come to terms with this ^^ I am very happy for you! STAY HOW YOU ARE ;D DON'T EVER CHANGE <3
Hehe, thank you much. ^^ It definitely took some work to accept myself [I really used to be in that viscous circle of self loathing 24/7] but in the end I'm proud I worked so hard to be able to do so. The first person in your book who you should love is definitely yourself, hands down. >w<
Thank you much! C: I don't plan on changing, so don't you worry. <3
Thank you much! C: I don't plan on changing, so don't you worry. <3
I like you just the way you are <3 Besides, heavier people = <333333 because then they're so nice and huggable!! <3 *Bounces around like a hyper idiot* XD I can understand being selfconscious sometimes, because I get that way over my hyper, annoying personality and my immatureness XD Buuuut! I love you just the way you are! <3 *Hugs*
Thank you. <3 And yes, that video still hits me hard whenever I watch it. It gives me chills each and every time. It's so pathetic that this sort of thing happens. :c But hey, just need to look within yourself and find strength there. Once you do that, nobody can put you down. ^^
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