To all the girlies out there
im sorry i know it sounds hard but you have to take the garlic bread out of the oven.
There are many phrases about this type of situation
"go where you are celebrated, not tolerated" is one of the first one I heard when I was young and it keeps popping into my head once in a while or
"You deserve to be in spaces that bring out your kindness, your tenderness and not your survival instincts"
Having mantras, feel good posts or whatever does it for your brain are actually genuine therapist suggestions, perferably print them, make them real, hang them on the top of your celling over your bead if you have to ! Happiness is a path, not a destination and just like a muscle, it needs to be maintained and trained and it might just start in your room!
Fr. sometimes just thinking "what would Vash from Trigun think about x" are equally valid mantras that might here and there help you overcome something
I have a picture of a BRATZ character by my side that just says "you don't always have to make sense, sometimes you just wanna share how you feel no matter how (which explains it all)"
im sorry i know it sounds hard but you have to take the garlic bread out of the oven.
There are many phrases about this type of situation
"go where you are celebrated, not tolerated" is one of the first one I heard when I was young and it keeps popping into my head once in a while or
"You deserve to be in spaces that bring out your kindness, your tenderness and not your survival instincts"
Having mantras, feel good posts or whatever does it for your brain are actually genuine therapist suggestions, perferably print them, make them real, hang them on the top of your celling over your bead if you have to ! Happiness is a path, not a destination and just like a muscle, it needs to be maintained and trained and it might just start in your room!
Fr. sometimes just thinking "what would Vash from Trigun think about x" are equally valid mantras that might here and there help you overcome something
I have a picture of a BRATZ character by my side that just says "you don't always have to make sense, sometimes you just wanna share how you feel no matter how (which explains it all)"
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Holy shit dude, I needed it.
I'm starting a new life in arts college, away from family, hopefully following my dream to make a living out of art but sometimes it just sucks to think I might not be doing the right decision,,, kinda wanna publish my comic someday and I just can't take this dream out of my head, but at the same time... You know, living by art is beautiful, but not easy. Regardless, I'm not turning back now, hopefully I don't regret it :,D
I'm starting a new life in arts college, away from family, hopefully following my dream to make a living out of art but sometimes it just sucks to think I might not be doing the right decision,,, kinda wanna publish my comic someday and I just can't take this dream out of my head, but at the same time... You know, living by art is beautiful, but not easy. Regardless, I'm not turning back now, hopefully I don't regret it :,D
You will do art before college, you will do art during college, you will do art after college, if you "win" at it or not. You only fail if you give up !!! it took me like 15 years to get to where I am right now. Some people get there in maybe 3 but in the end we all did the same: we did what we loved, we loved what we do with everything we had. You can't draw something perfect, you can't draw something "super good", you can only draw at the best of your current ability
bestie you got roughly 70 years you got this >:3
Art is REALLY fucking hard because it asks so much of us and what we want to say with it. and the awnsers might look different every 2 years but as said, art and/or happiness is a path to walk and that path is fucking rock'n'roll and cool as shit
bestie you got roughly 70 years you got this >:3
Art is REALLY fucking hard because it asks so much of us and what we want to say with it. and the awnsers might look different every 2 years but as said, art and/or happiness is a path to walk and that path is fucking rock'n'roll and cool as shit
Most of things I regret I've done and said - really vile shit during school years, I did to impress others, to be a part of the group. And let me say, it really wasn't a good company. As time passed I realized that in the end none of them actually liked or cared about me, I was just a comic relief, to be exploited. And they were dragging me down to their level. Hell, I didn't even allow myself to make the art I really wanted out of fear of judgment.
Took me so long to learn this that I feel I started being my own person only after the school ended and all of them disappeared from my life, now lost but trying to grow into something better
Been trying to put this into practice, to find what I really care about, what I value and by following it I believe I can find the others who will value me too, I think it's been working so far..
Took me so long to learn this that I feel I started being my own person only after the school ended and all of them disappeared from my life, now lost but trying to grow into something better
Been trying to put this into practice, to find what I really care about, what I value and by following it I believe I can find the others who will value me too, I think it's been working so far..
I got out of a toxic marriage almost two years ago now. We'd almost reached our 7th anniversary and I was miserable long before then but I was scared to be alone. Now I'm moved out of my old home in West Virginia and in a new relationship that is so healthy sometimes I think it's just a dream. I can't even begin to describe the relief.
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