While I wanted to make a more detailed thing for Pride and I am a little late I decided to just make a mockup of the thing I wanted to make, and it ended up working out and being quite sincere:

Its okay that you don't want to be involved in your own sexuality, its okay that fictional and unreal things appeal to you more than reality, and you're not wrong for not wanting to insert yourself. It can be hard being a furry in a community so much about self expression through kink, sexuality or identity, while the idea of expressing myself in fantasy/sexuality or kink makes me uncomfortable 99.9% of the time, and it can be hard to understand why others gain so much validation from it, or connect to a lot of people's art.

But you're not alone if you feel that way too. If you're wondering what the flag is its the Aegosexual/Autochorisexual flag, which refers to a part of the asexual spectrum, where you don't feel attraction to reality, or have fantasies involving yourself, or representations of the "self" (for the most part) Heres a link to a more detailed explanation! https://queerdom.fandom.com/wiki/Aegosexual

The idea of the self doesn't disgust or repulse or anything its just kinda like a wall. When it comes to what I like "myself" doesn't really exist in my sexuality or fantasies.

Which is why you see me explore characters from things I love interacting with my kinks instead. Lots of people prefer expressing themselves through their love for fictional characters or stories that are not representations of themselves.

You're not ruining what you love if you do.

Its using fantasy and kink as a connection and extension of the things you love and thats beautiful

Using their personality and my emotional connection to them, their character dynamics and relationships; and using kinks to exaggerate them while trying to stay true to them:

(Which is why my kinks tend to exaggerate their bodies, reactions and character dynamics by default with stuff like
macro, hyper, body type changes like muscle/fat, or exaggerations of character dynamics with stuff like vore)

Hope this helps people understand why I tend not to use my Sona or representations of myself in my art <3

Happy Pride, its not just a month its a state of being