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This upload is a little out of sequence, since I have older pictures I should upload.
But with recent events and that people always throw their unwarranted p*do allegations around, concerning the Babyfur/diaperfur/Kidfur community, I decided to say "Screw you!" and got that awesome YCH from the lovely
orimew .
No, you don't have to like us. Yes, you are free to hate us, that is your right. Be my guest.
But take those unjustified and very serious accusations and stick them up your a**. No lube. Because one thing has nothing to do with the other, at all.
Thanks.
And yes, I like diapers. Surpriiiiiiiise!
Okay, I've said my piece. Back to being adorable I guess ^.^'
But with recent events and that people always throw their unwarranted p*do allegations around, concerning the Babyfur/diaperfur/Kidfur community, I decided to say "Screw you!" and got that awesome YCH from the lovely
orimew .No, you don't have to like us. Yes, you are free to hate us, that is your right. Be my guest.
But take those unjustified and very serious accusations and stick them up your a**. No lube. Because one thing has nothing to do with the other, at all.
Thanks.
And yes, I like diapers. Surpriiiiiiiise!
Okay, I've said my piece. Back to being adorable I guess ^.^'
Category Artwork (Digital) / ABDL
Species Bear (Other)
Size 1000 x 1235px
File Size 575.6 kB
I wouldn't know, I've felt so apart from this fandom for years, I not only do go to cons, I don't see con news either. In fact, I usually just fav bomb and stay quiet. This fandom and the internet in general has become so hostile, divisive, and cult-y, it's to the point where it just isn't worth it anymore. I live my life, some rando's uneducated and misguided opinions mean nothing to me.
I'm late to the game cause I don't check my alt much. Diapers ain't for me, But I still think people should be allowed to like what they like without being called a p*dophile. What really upsets me is that it's almost "watering down" the word and it's meaning, reduced to a buzzword like "triggered" was back in the day.
That's a serious allegation with real world consequences for victims AND perpetrators.
Like only a few years ago it was "gay men are pedophiles". Turns out you can be a man who likes other men and it's. Not indicative of p*dophilia.
It's like "if you wear collars you're into BDSM, and if you're into BDSM you're okay with physical and verbal abuse. You're an abuser!"
Just a knee jerk reaction to someone they don't like and don't want to understand.
I just think it can be low key insulting to real life victims which is really uncool. :(
That's a serious allegation with real world consequences for victims AND perpetrators.
Like only a few years ago it was "gay men are pedophiles". Turns out you can be a man who likes other men and it's. Not indicative of p*dophilia.
It's like "if you wear collars you're into BDSM, and if you're into BDSM you're okay with physical and verbal abuse. You're an abuser!"
Just a knee jerk reaction to someone they don't like and don't want to understand.
I just think it can be low key insulting to real life victims which is really uncool. :(
Yes, I think it is very damaging on multiple fronts :/
Getting accused of something like that without any justification just hurts like hell and can have dire ramifications if it got into the wrong ears. RL consequences for something that is just thrown around like a basic insult.
And as you said, it can really water down the term...with also very unpleasant results.
Both things are serious.
As for myself, I fully understand if somebody is put off by diapers, doesn't want them to be thrown at them. And that is absolutely valid and I am trying to respect that.
Just as I try and to be respectful of other kinks that I do not share. As long as nobody gets hurt or exploited, I am fine with most things, even if some of those really put me off.
On the other hand, in return, I don't want to have allegations thrown at me at random.
It could be so easy, but some people, like what happened with that Catamara person recently and is still happening, are on a crusade and don't care if people get hurt over their ill-guided holy war.
And that is why I got the picture. Usually I don't flaunt it. I know I like them, I think they are cute and adorable, they are an integral part of my fursona and in several situations, I need them as well IRL. I don't hurt _anybody_ with this (I can also see the kink appeal between consenting adults, but that is not necessarily for me, but I don't judege.)
But getting attacked like the community was recently, with hatespeech and slander, with hateful RL stickers being spread, with tries to get a con shut down by mass calling the hotel, by unjustified copyright striking somebody to doxx them (Youtube requires personal information to fight a strike, which will be open to the attacker) and last but not least, mass reporting harmless ABDL artwork on furaffinity (knowing the mods will react badly) ... there was a point when I said "Alright, f*ck it"
Getting accused of something like that without any justification just hurts like hell and can have dire ramifications if it got into the wrong ears. RL consequences for something that is just thrown around like a basic insult.
And as you said, it can really water down the term...with also very unpleasant results.
Both things are serious.
As for myself, I fully understand if somebody is put off by diapers, doesn't want them to be thrown at them. And that is absolutely valid and I am trying to respect that.
Just as I try and to be respectful of other kinks that I do not share. As long as nobody gets hurt or exploited, I am fine with most things, even if some of those really put me off.
On the other hand, in return, I don't want to have allegations thrown at me at random.
It could be so easy, but some people, like what happened with that Catamara person recently and is still happening, are on a crusade and don't care if people get hurt over their ill-guided holy war.
And that is why I got the picture. Usually I don't flaunt it. I know I like them, I think they are cute and adorable, they are an integral part of my fursona and in several situations, I need them as well IRL. I don't hurt _anybody_ with this (I can also see the kink appeal between consenting adults, but that is not necessarily for me, but I don't judege.)
But getting attacked like the community was recently, with hatespeech and slander, with hateful RL stickers being spread, with tries to get a con shut down by mass calling the hotel, by unjustified copyright striking somebody to doxx them (Youtube requires personal information to fight a strike, which will be open to the attacker) and last but not least, mass reporting harmless ABDL artwork on furaffinity (knowing the mods will react badly) ... there was a point when I said "Alright, f*ck it"
Don't mind if I throw my hat in the conversation.
It's more for all the people that read the comments of that Pic. or don't like the people wearing them.
I'm over 15 years in the fandom and I meet awesome people, some of them like wearing diapers. That don't Hurt people, give people the chance to know them better, you would be surprised how you start meeting, when they do something you don't like, you don't have to be there in the same room,
even if it's a kink, it don't hurt so whats the Point, some of my best friends have kinks I never could do anything with that.
When a person tell you something like that, remember that person gave you much trust don't destroy that, you know how that can hurt.
About Pics. like that, remember that need lots of gutz to post that, I wish I had sometimes the gutz to tell something like that.
For people how just hate, god gave you something, it's called filter? And yes I know some search something like that to hate people, question: How low is your Ego? Don't you have real Hobbies.
To all people how are scared of such people, don't give them your time, Invest in the people that take you for how you are, they deserve your time and maybe a friendship.
And now go out and be the person you want to be, I hope that I have the gutz to make a statement myself in the future.
P.s. sometimes it's good to try something new, you never know what you find.
It's more for all the people that read the comments of that Pic. or don't like the people wearing them.
I'm over 15 years in the fandom and I meet awesome people, some of them like wearing diapers. That don't Hurt people, give people the chance to know them better, you would be surprised how you start meeting, when they do something you don't like, you don't have to be there in the same room,
even if it's a kink, it don't hurt so whats the Point, some of my best friends have kinks I never could do anything with that.
When a person tell you something like that, remember that person gave you much trust don't destroy that, you know how that can hurt.
About Pics. like that, remember that need lots of gutz to post that, I wish I had sometimes the gutz to tell something like that.
For people how just hate, god gave you something, it's called filter? And yes I know some search something like that to hate people, question: How low is your Ego? Don't you have real Hobbies.
To all people how are scared of such people, don't give them your time, Invest in the people that take you for how you are, they deserve your time and maybe a friendship.
And now go out and be the person you want to be, I hope that I have the gutz to make a statement myself in the future.
P.s. sometimes it's good to try something new, you never know what you find.
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