
I'm a big, big fan of this project. If you've never heard of it, and you either know someone or have personally been the subject of ridicule or hate for your sexual identity, or any other bias because of who you are, please visit this website, and it may help you:
http://www.itgetsbetter.org/
It DOES get better.
Please do not spam this image with any drama or hate speech, or your comments will be removed.
http://www.itgetsbetter.org/
It DOES get better.
Please do not spam this image with any drama or hate speech, or your comments will be removed.
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And the thing is, its not just words, it really does. I saw a "It Gets Better" submission a while back and it reminded me of my middle school life, posted a journal bout it on here, and it made me realize how far i had come from those darker times.
This is amazing, Rukis, i can easily feel the emotion in the art. Great job <3 really isnt much else i can say atm :3
This is amazing, Rukis, i can easily feel the emotion in the art. Great job <3 really isnt much else i can say atm :3
This artwork of yours has inspired me and I made a journal about it :3 http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/2399073/
This is very touching Rukis and from the heart I can tell. Thanks for making this as I was once a person who felt I had no future simply because I'm gay. I'm here to say also, yes it does get better! It took me a long time to find my self but I did. Anyone else out there that might be troubled and reads this know there is always a light at the end of the tunnel.
you should see this.
http://www.couriermail.com.au/news/.....-1226067687913
You have great timing with this lol
http://www.couriermail.com.au/news/.....-1226067687913
You have great timing with this lol
It's Marcus (Fennec Fox) and Reis (Wolfdog) from Cruelty http://www.furaffinity.net/view/3704554
Awesome, these two are perfect for this message. I support this project and also the Trevor Project, which I feel is very important and encourage people to donate to.
If you haven't heard of it: http://www.thetrevorproject.org/
If you haven't heard of it: http://www.thetrevorproject.org/
I know it can be hard to be judged. To be hated, to be shunned. But the poison that builds up inside us when we lie about who we are is worse. It takes longer to realize it but its so much worse. I never really understood what it was to be happy till i came out and realized who it was in my life cared enough about me to not judge me based on where I put my naughties when im alone. I know how hard it can be to turn away from family. But we are talking about you here, not them. be yourself, be honest, be happy and you will find people that care and those are the people you must surround yourself with.
After looking at your profile it says your 18. That makes you an adult and it's time for to make choices for your self. Some might be very difficult and will possibly lead to short term hardships. But if you allow your parents to dictate your personal life now they will continue to do this the rest of there life. One day your going to have to stand up for your self and do what's best for you, not them. I left my home at age 17 and even moved out of the country later on. I've had my up's and downs as life has not always been simple. Yet in the end everything fell into place and I'm here today speaking of personal freedom and with out worry of prenatal disapproval. Most of all I'm happy with my life and most importantly myself.
It's more than that. If I left I'd have no where to go and it would destroy my parents. To be honest I haven't thought they have been unreasonable. They are letting me see him and are keeping an open mind. They aren't trying to dictate and all three of us know that I need to make decisions and go out on my own. That will happen when I go to college I'm august
I can't tell you what's best for you but from my standpoint it seems rather odd that they only allow you to see him when there around. That's a control method and that's dictation. I understand you don't wish to hurt your family. I never did with mine. Even as my father has been rather cruel to me I have no hard feelings. As you grow older your life will change a lot and so will the way you think. Right now you don't think so, but you will. Anyway good luck to you and I hope you find what will truly make you happy in life as this is something only you can find. :)
It's because of the circumstance under which we met. I would have acted the sane way. My mom isn't going to be actually with us. She is just going to be around as a precaution. Also, I have to confess that I made my original comment when I was a little down. In all honesty things have gone very well
If it would destroy your parents, you should really force them to consider that, if you end up having somewhere to go at some point in the near future. You'd be surprised at how much scaring your parents really works. I'm not gonna tell you to do something that will jeopardize you, but if they truly cared about you, they wouldn't make you feel suffocated.
While I understand and appreciate the intent behind this campaign, I've never really liked it. It's always seemed to me that "it" gets better because we, as individuals, get stronger and better able to respond rather then some magical function of getting older as the campaign implies. Then again, the slogan "If you can handle a dick, you can handle a bully" prolly wouldn't go over well so... meh...
It gets better is has been very true for me. Although I did not come out in school I was bullied often! Back then if you came out as being gay you might as well kiss any social enjoyment or education goodbye. As the school would simply over look it. Was there gay students? Sure there were! My self was one of them. And I know all to well how hard it is to hide who you are for your own personal safety. Getting out of that place with my sanity and a diploma in had was one of the most uplifting things I'd ever felt. Afterwords in university I found out I was not alone after all. And that as my prior years had been the pits, I was now
around people who accepted others as there self with out worry of social stigma. This helped me to become honest with my self and most importantly come out.
So when they say it gets better. It does! But you got to help your self get there.
around people who accepted others as there self with out worry of social stigma. This helped me to become honest with my self and most importantly come out.
So when they say it gets better. It does! But you got to help your self get there.
Aaaawwww this is so sweet, my heart cried a little as I saw this.
My friend
sinbadwolf told me about this.
Thank you for the wwonderful picture with an amazing design and style of drawing.
My friend

Thank you for the wwonderful picture with an amazing design and style of drawing.
I remember seeing the Google ad during an episode of Glee that had this project in it. I seriously almost cried. Going through hell and back myself, I felt like there wasn't any light at the end of this tunnel, but now there's one last obstacle to overcome before it'll be better: my father. -_-;
Love is all around, and I'm glad to see you sharing the love Rukis, in anyway you can! I'm glad I can support your work in any way possible, even if it was just buying that T-Shirt so far. :P
Love is all around, and I'm glad to see you sharing the love Rukis, in anyway you can! I'm glad I can support your work in any way possible, even if it was just buying that T-Shirt so far. :P
This reminds me about how I set up the Day of Silence at my old high school in the last couple of days. For those of you not aware about what it is, it's an anti-bullying day where everyone is silent for a school day to symbolize the silence that GLBT youth experience every day. I never thought that it would continue much beyond my years, but somehow it did. Hearing about that made me realize that I may have given many GLBT youth reassurance that it does indeed get better, maybe even for years beyond my initial work. Keep up the hope, and thank you very much for posting this wonderful artwork.
Yes. I don't know what you're looking for here. You want my entire life's story just to prove to you that no, it didn't get better and no, it wasn't my fault? Is it so hard to believe?
I guess if I happen to fall outside the slogan then it MUST by my fault, huh?
I love how if your problems aren't completely resolved while you're still a kid, the world stops caring altogether. Thanks.
I guess if I happen to fall outside the slogan then it MUST by my fault, huh?
I love how if your problems aren't completely resolved while you're still a kid, the world stops caring altogether. Thanks.
There's people who care. Trust me on that, heck you don't know me and I don't know you but I still care about your well being. It was extremely difficult for me when I came out and to this day I still have issues with my father. Although over the years he has learned this who I am and I'm not going to change, nor would I even if I could. I was not one of those who come out early, I waited well into my 20's before I made up my mind it was time to be honest with my self. It's not always been easy I admit but being true to your self is the only way you will find inner happiness.
Also if you or anyone else here just needs someone to talk with I never mind lisitening. Never think no one cares.
Also if you or anyone else here just needs someone to talk with I never mind lisitening. Never think no one cares.
What i find cool is that President Obama made June "GLBT pride month". I think I'll put this up on my DA profile and on FA if you do not mined.
DA account http://ghostguy764.deviantart.com/
and here is the article http://www.whitehouse.gov/the_press.....T-Pride-Month/
DA account http://ghostguy764.deviantart.com/
and here is the article http://www.whitehouse.gov/the_press.....T-Pride-Month/
I'm Gay. Cruelty really hit me in the heart, cos I came out in highschool, There were jerks like the guys in the locker rooms who made fun of me, some friends got distant. But the true ones stuck by me.
The one thing that really had me hooked, was the complexity of Reis and Marcus's friendship. and how innocent their friendship was, through being children, then growing to be adolescents in high school. It was amazing. Your art and writing is sublime in every way I <3 this story.
The one thing that really had me hooked, was the complexity of Reis and Marcus's friendship. and how innocent their friendship was, through being children, then growing to be adolescents in high school. It was amazing. Your art and writing is sublime in every way I <3 this story.
rukis your art is always great both cruelty and unconditional have hit home with me because i came out in high school and now i have my mate and we are happy together but live apart for now but we plan on living together in the future like marcus and reis they are a great example of the love me and my mate share
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