Somewhat of a vent and somewhat because people are really pissing me off lately not just on FA but other places and IRL too. I do not conform to a lot of things and I don't believe you have the right to judge me if you've never gotten to know me. I used VK because as my first fursona she has the most in common behavior and most personality traits shared with me.

Things about me people don't seem to understand:
-My gender does not define me.
-You don't know me well enough to figure out when I'm taking things to seriously and when I'm not. Very few people will ever know this because they don't take the time to get to know me and how I work. Very few people I know in real life know this either. I could name the people that do easily.
-I can and will draw and do whatever I want with my art and personal stories.
-If you don't tell me what's wrong with you or at least that somethings upsetting you that you can't tell me don't expect any sympathy.
-I use sarcasm a lot and am a very blunt person. If you can't take it then why the f*ck are you talking to me in the first place.
-I'm entitled to my own opinion as are you so if your going to argue over mine you might as well stop waisting your time because more than likely it won't change anything. Very people have ever managed to change my mind so get over it.
-Just because you want me to do something doesn't mean I will. If I don't want to do it and it's not hurting anyone if I don't I simply won't do it.
-I do not conform to all standard social behaviors just because you expect me too. Just because a girlfriend is generally expected to be affectionate and cuddly doesn't mean I will be if I don't want to be.
-I AM MUCH NICER ONLINE THAN I AM IN REAL LIFE. I'm a lot more tolerant online and more likely to accept a bit more. I'm a nice person irl if your on my goodside.
-The better you know me the more you'll find things you don't like and things you do like about me.
-My friends are the people that aren't afraid to talk to me

Things you should know about me but people rarely seem to notice or ask:
-Yes I do rp if I like your characters and how they want to interact with mine.
-I do have fetishes but more than likely if you confront me about them negatively and your not close to me I will shut you out of my life. Most of them are seen in my characters. My fetishes do not define me just a very small part of my life. (VK-Submissive/Dominance, Connor-foot and master/pet)
-I like to draw my oc's in clothing that show a lot of their body not because I'm obsessed with sex and what not but because I don't like clothes and some caracters have a very strong tendency to wear such things.
-YES I DRAW NAKED FURRIES. It's not like they have genitals drawn on them so get over it.
-I like to procrastinate but when I'm motivated I get things done quickly
-THIS LIST WILL NEVER BE ENOUGH TO JUDGE ME. You want me to accept you judging me? Then how about you get to know me first. I don't like being judged for no reason.

If you made it through that list and still want to talk to me then I'm glad you understand. Thank you. Sorry for people who aren't like this and have to read it.

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